Singles & Dating - 9 January 2007

I never cheated on him, and there was nothing in the world I wouldn't do for him. People tell me time heals all wounds, but I still have not made any progess in the getting over process. I've dated new people but they don't compare; I simply do not feel the same way. I still talk to my ex on a regular basis and he says he doesn't know what the future holds but at the same time he isn't ready to "give me a chance". He broke up with me because I wasn't treating him right & the way I reacted to the break up pushed him away even further; he told me I killed his love for me. I have learned a lot since & have matured, I know what I did to ruil our relationship but I also know I'd never treat him that way again. He says he still loves me but isn't in love with me. I don't understand how a love can die from someone who once said I was the love of his life & nothing I could do would ever change that. I need advice, do I continue to wait for him? or force myself to completely let go?

2007-01-09 17:13:37 · 10 answers · asked by xxxtina 1

Can relationships keep going after someone has cheated? or are they bound to end?

I was having a hard time a few weeks back, and i wasnt really talking to any one at all and it was my girlfriend who noticed and took it personaly.

But im back to normal now and im fine

But she just told me that she cheated on me in the time that i was not really talking, she said that she dosnt really know why she would do something like that because she had it happen to her (her boyfriend before me cheated on her and they broke up)
and she said she thinks she only did it to me because she was thinking that i didnt want to be with her. She said shes so sorry and she loves me and would like to go on if i would forgive her.

I said i would forgive her, and i would like to go on.

But can relationships really work out after someone cheats and do you think she is likly to cheat again? (Once a cheater always a cheater) kinda thing

Cheeres Glen

2007-01-09 17:12:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

this girl was going out with someone....and well i had liked her since before she got with her boyfriend.....then it came to a point where i kissed her and she began to cheat on him...and i loved this girl and i still do and she loved me..then it got to the point where jealousy started to take over sometimes...and it came to a point where my friend called her a hoe and she later told me she had lost so much love for me because of that so then i ended it and i thought and felt like i was over her because before then i had no interest in any other girls......until i eneded it
then she had gotten in to trouble because she had gotten a hickey from him.....and at that point i felt so almost over her i began to be friends with her b/f and he told me that he gave her a hickey and i felt this tremendous amount of jealousy..and i didnt know why..
and i still dont...i love her.......i just dont know what to do i cant get over her...what should i do...and why did i feel so jealous

2007-01-09 17:10:14 · 3 answers · asked by pixie7 3

For some reason I dont like to tell guys how I feel and sometimes it becomes a problem. I dont know why I feel this way and I cant open up. I have feelings Its just hard to express them. I dont know whas wrong with me.

2007-01-09 17:10:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I used to work with this guy and I was the one that started talking to him. I thought he would talk to be nice but after I quit he wanted to keep in touch. We would email each other every once in a while I guess we were both too nervous to call the other. Well I went to visit some co workers and he stopped me and brought me in his office to talk. Once again he flirted and told me he would call. I thought he was full of hot air but he ended up calling me and he has been calling every other day. He has kinda been forward and told me that he is more than willing to do whatever it is I want from him no matter what it is. This flirting has been going on since October and not once has he ever came through on his passes. I'm tired of waiting on him to make a move. Should I just plain tell him what I want from him and if so how should I do it?

2007-01-09 17:10:02 · 11 answers · asked by rosecoloredglasses4me 1

??????.............

2007-01-09 17:09:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

at a dance
gimme tips and how to's
and what makes it better
and you're my best answer

2007-01-09 17:08:20 · 4 answers · asked by storage b 1

there is a guy that i have been seening and he only tells me that he like me when he is drunk does he really like me or what ????????

2007-01-09 17:07:52 · 4 answers · asked by stacey a 1

I have guy best friends and i can tell them my deepest,darkest secrets.I have heard that it's not true to have guy best friends and later on your probably going to be together or get married. Is that true?

2007-01-09 17:06:16 · 20 answers · asked by Lala 4

My fiance left me and tonight ill see him to sort out stuff because we owned a block of land together. He hurt me alot before we broke up not wanting to hang out with me anymore and choosing friends over me and being less affectionate. When i talk to him is it ok to be angry how should i face him i want to tell him how im feeling but i also want to be in control. Please help?

2007-01-09 17:04:42 · 16 answers · asked by Nat555 2

I try not to play games in relationships, but it seems like all the advice I get from people is suggesting that I play hard to get or some other games. I have to admit that my non-game playing hasn't gotten me very far though.

What do you think about games and relationships? Are they helpful or hurtful and why?

PS: I'm not talking about chess. lol

2007-01-09 17:03:06 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2

A lof of girls I know think it's a bad thing but I just don't see it.My boyfriend is and he's never come close to being in any way controlling or violent towards me.He likes to make it know that I'm with him.What's so wrong with that?

2007-01-09 17:02:38 · 9 answers · asked by veronicamonet87 1

2007-01-09 17:02:04 · 21 answers · asked by Diva 1

I really want to tell my mom that I'm in love. I don't want her to think im crazy. Im seriously in love with my boyfriend. How can I tell her that I want to be with him for the rest of my life? I was thinking to tell my dad, BUT Im scared that he will be paraniod everytime I want to go out or something.

2007-01-09 17:00:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm falling in love with a friend who has a girlfriend. I never tried to break them up, but after a couple of months of spending alot of time with him. We began to develop a good friendship and then started flirting alot. I spoke to him about it when i started to really care for him, i explained that i felt it was not right and that we should stop and that i had feelings for him. It did stop, then it went back to how it was with the flirting, this has happened a few times. We never talk about what is really going on, so i never really know how he feels. I dont know what to do anymore, i care more for him each time i see him. How can i get him to tell me exactly how he feels without confronting him about it. What can i do to make him make a decision and stick to it? Any advice?

2007-01-09 16:59:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

BECAUSE UR MIND IS MUCH CLEAR AND U START TO REALIZE WHAT IS REALLY IMPORTANT AND FEEL GUILTY WHEN U HAVE ACTED SILLY OR IS IT JUST ME

I DON’T MEAN TRYING TO GET HIM/HER IN BED TO HAVE SEX... BUT I MEAN FEELING MORE LOVE FOR EACH OTHER

2007-01-09 16:58:41 · 3 answers · asked by CHICK 1

I said: I don't know what I'm gonna do with you. She said: I don't know, what ARE you gonna do with me. And then she winked. So, what should I do?

2007-01-09 16:58:24 · 7 answers · asked by BRAINS! 5

what features do u like in a woman
ex:
feet?
nose?
hands?
boobs?
face?
hair?
lips?
personality?
funnny?
**** please dont just say sex and boobs and buts >.< you guys must atleast like more than that in a girl

2007-01-09 16:58:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I've been dating a girl for about six months and I really care about her and want to show it come the 14th (we're 24). The dilemna is that I will be out of town on business and will not get to spend the actual day with her. When she found out she had mentioned she never really had a valentine while in a real relationship. I want to do something a little over the top so she remembers. What would you girls think if you got three small arrangements. Like....... one sent to her office in the morning and one in the evening (8hr Shift) and maybe a third sent to her house. I was thinking one for the past, one for not being with her that day and one with reference to the future. I don't know, it seemed like a decent idea, jus wanted a couple opinions. Thanks

2007-01-09 16:55:47 · 17 answers · asked by Jesse19rap 4

am I right in assuming that they're trying to say something? My husband is in the army and he gave one of his friends my email address. Now his friend instant messages me all the time. I really don't care for the guy but he's always telling me to go to his page and check out his pictures and tell him what i think or talking to me about all the girls he likes or that like him...or he's telling me that he;s not hitting on me. I told my husband and my husband told him not to send messages to me anymore. He just sent one about 10 minutes ago and i told him we're not supposed to talk anymore. Whats this guys deal? He's so annoying!

2007-01-09 16:54:30 · 17 answers · asked by imakulaff2 2

My girlfriend for 4 years got online and said she was looking for another guy so I broke up with her but she was crying and saying she was just mad at me and she realized what a mistake she made but this isnt the first time....so she says that now she really understands and how sorry she is I think she really means it, but I dont know how to believe her, can someone give me some advice?

2007-01-09 16:54:24 · 22 answers · asked by Bobby b 1

What do you call a person who works behind the scenes?

2007-01-09 16:53:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this boy and i am really not sure he likes me

2007-01-09 16:52:17 · 13 answers · asked by Chaaarlie! 2

He's my best friend and I told him that I liked him and everything, but I told him through a letter and he, well.....never brought it up with me. People told me that he doesn't feel the same, but if I really like him(which I do, I may even be in love with him) should I still try to be more than friends with him or should I just give up and forget about my feelings? I told him how I felt 3 or 4 months ago and even though I've had a chance to go out with other guys, I turned them down in hope that maybe he will eventually tell me he feels the same way. Some people tell me that he likes me and other people think differently.
So should I just give it up or what?

2007-01-09 16:51:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

need someone female from delhi(only one) to share feelings,I will support her in daily life
only proposal answer reqd ,no suggestion please.

2007-01-09 16:49:34 · 9 answers · asked by sk 3

2007-01-09 16:49:33 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I seem to have plenty of first dates but no second dates. All my dates end with me saying I enjoyed meeting you and he says the same. There have been some guys that I have wanted to see again but never heard from. I know they were probably just not interested in me but I would like to do something subtle to make it obvious that I would like to be asked out again without being too upfront just in case I meet someone that does want to meet again but thinks I might not be interested. What could I say or do (nothing unladylike or pushy) to let a guy know I really did enjoy meeting him?

2007-01-09 16:49:15 · 8 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5

what is wrong in sex with lover ?

2007-01-09 16:49:13 · 14 answers · asked by vinodvpv 1

selfish, pigs, etc..........give some examples of how you view men in general. thanks and happy easter

2007-01-09 16:47:55 · 9 answers · asked by godzillasagoodman 2

Sheesh.

2007-01-09 16:47:07 · 30 answers · asked by Susie 6