I seem to have plenty of first dates but no second dates. All my dates end with me saying I enjoyed meeting you and he says the same. There have been some guys that I have wanted to see again but never heard from. I know they were probably just not interested in me but I would like to do something subtle to make it obvious that I would like to be asked out again without being too upfront just in case I meet someone that does want to meet again but thinks I might not be interested. What could I say or do (nothing unladylike or pushy) to let a guy know I really did enjoy meeting him?
2007-01-09 16:49:15 · 8 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So, you want to "subtly" make it "obvious" that you want to see him again?? LOL
If you really want to see him don't beat around the bush. When you say goodbye at the end of the 1st date, ask him straight out if he'd like to see you again.
You can also send an email saying you had a nice time and offering to meet again--try to make it specific, such as "there's a free concert Friday night at ----, would you like to go?" or "want to meet for coffee at the bookstore on Sunday?" (You get the idea.)
Knowing the truth hurts (if you get rejected) but at least you also know not to waste any more time and energy on that guy if he says no.
2007-01-10 00:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by AnOrdinaryGuy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 12:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) You are right, they probably are really not into you. That does not mean you are not a good catch, just not for the guys you have dated.
2) If you are interested, say what you did above.
2007-01-09 16:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by Victor H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call and tell him you had a nice time and thank him for it. The next move will be his. Even if you like the guy and think he likes you, self-control and patience will pay off in the end if he's right for you. Showing enthusiasm too soon isn't charming-it's creepy.
2007-01-09 17:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by tagara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a real big fan of "signals." If you want to get a message across it is best to be direct. I would tell him I enjoyed his company and would like to see him again.
2007-01-09 16:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by curiousme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just say that you had a good time and would like to do it again sometime...and leave it at that. I don't think that's pushy but it makes your stance crystal clear.
2007-01-09 16:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are to up front on first dates.
2007-01-09 17:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss him.
2007-01-09 16:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋