Would you stay with your boyfriend of 7yrs if he went to jail on a armed robbery charge?

Answer 1

Yes but then i guess it depends on if when he went in were you and him on good terms. But i think that if you been with him for 7yrs why let him go because he made a mistake . Love is about support but if you cant maintain the relationship while he is gone then you need to leave him now. Dont drag it out its not worth it.

Answer 2

well it depends on how long he would be in there.. i know someone who had a boyfriend who went to jail for several years and had there kid and did move on to someone else. the question you have to ask yourself how long will he be faithful to you because a lot of men go to jail and have sex with other men and they never tell there girlfriends that's the one thing I'm afraid of... I saw this show that this guy who was a street thug and he had a boyfriend in jail and said when he gets out he will go back to being with a women that's just nasty and i know a lot of men that did that.. so just be careful if he going for a long time let him go but if not and he doesn't have a history of doing this and he is good to you then stay with him.
most women don't think so at the time but they end up moving on to someone else. Good Luck girl i know that has to be hard when the man your with goes to jail

Answer 3

If you have to ask yourself this question, then the answer is no. Most likely jail will change him, but if he loved you he would have thought things through before committing this crime. In a nut-shell he put his priorities up and you came second to this.

I recommend you find someone productive and willing to put you first, someone that would try to be a better person for you. Unless you feel like you deserve to wait for him, go with out emotional support, physical touch, and someone to lean on.

I think if he really loved you he would not have done what he did to get put behind bars, also he'd want you to find happiness with someone that will treat you right, all the time.

This is a hard decision, good luck!

Answer 4

i'm particular that many might want to assert to stay by way of his area, yet i could not get over the very shown reality that he would nicely be stupid adequate to dedicate an armed robbery. I honestly could also ask your self what he's doing with a weapon...What about my safe practices? human beings make blunders, i wager. He has 10 years to sit down in detention center and imagine about that. i might want to could flow on.

Answer 5

No, I have been with my husband 7 years now but if he got charged with armed robbery (we have two kids) I think I would say, what kind of example does he set for our kids, and boot his *** out the door. But my kids come first, in a situation where there are no kids, ask yourself, "am I worth more than this"

I am sure you are.

Answer 6

For me it would be girlfriend. And yes, unless she were convicted, of course I would. Why would I believe some police officer who is probably biased who I don't know? Plenty of people have been in jail on false charges. What some scumbag police officer assumes about someone is not very important to me. If convicted or if I have reason to believe she's guilty, I would need to reflect on it to make a decision. I think I would probably not if I were convinced of her guilt.

Answer 7

I would start looking for a more stable, reliable and trustworthy individual who's idea of putting food on the table didn't include armed robbery. Alas my lass, this ones a loser and tying your star to him is a recipe for disaster. Pleasse disengage and move onto more suitable marriage material, this one is NOT IT!

Answer 8

No, he's somebody's girlfriend now.

Y'know everyone screws up. Armed robbery is a bit different than a mistake. It is a choice that his desire for money is more important than other's property rights and safety.

He's where he belongs and you need to get on with life. Whatever you saw in him, look for something different next time.

Answer 9

If he truly is guilty? No....He should have cared enough about being a free man to be with you. Nothing makes doing that ok....He could be incarcerated for many years. Are you going to wait? Not likely that you will so don't put off the inevitable, and move on immediately with your life.....

Answer 10

I understand that having a history has allot to do with why we stay with someone. It's nice to have comfort in our lives, but how can you see a future with someone who would do such a dangerous and greedy act? Try to focus on the present and the future to overcome the comfort level you have with him.