My fiance left me and tonight ill see him to sort out stuff because we owned a block of land together. He hurt me alot before we broke up not wanting to hang out with me anymore and choosing friends over me and being less affectionate. When i talk to him is it ok to be angry how should i face him i want to tell him how im feeling but i also want to be in control. Please help?
2007-01-09 17:04:42 · 16 answers · asked by Nat555 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best way to handle this is to look SEXIER than you've ever looked before. And tell him everything about the way your felling. Even if it makes you start to cry. It's ok to put yourself out there for someone you love.
2007-01-09 17:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Put your nose in the air, shoulders back, chest out, take a deep breath and smile even if it kills you. Don't even try and pick a fight. Be the better person and prove to him that you don't need him in your life. No one is attracted to a needy, whiny, miserable looking, depressed, pathetic ex. Pretend that you are just having the time of your life without him. It will make him wonder what he's been missing. DON'T TAKE HIM BACK!!! NEVER!!! He's hurt you this time, don't weaken and let him get you back to do it again. Move on girl. Good Luck!!! I hope you got to keep the ring.
2007-01-09 17:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by sinned 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting angry only lowers yourself to his level. Take a deep breath, get thru the 'sorting out stuff', walk away like it does not bother you and get on with life; by doing this - this is the control you will have. Just take the relationship as a lesson learned.
2007-01-09 17:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough situation, its okay to be angry it has only been a month, but be strong don't start crying or anything like that, don't give him any importance. It's hard to stay in control when you are hurting inside but just think in the bad stuff he did to you, you'll find somebody else just give it time
2007-01-09 17:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by Scarlet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him talk first.
If he seems like he doesn't care how you feel at all.
Let him go.
It sounds like he found someone else prior to breaking things off. And for that, he's not worth your time.
Be thankful for things happening this way prior to marriage. Because marriage is hard enough without one person being a jerk.
You will find love with the right person, if he's not it.
Stay positive. Good luck.
2007-01-09 17:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by LostVega$ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. dont be angry bcoz you may not have another chance to explain things b4 him. It looks that he is angry with you on some reason. bcoz boys do things like that when the are angry with the girl. if you know reason then you should appologize and if dont know then try to find out.. and if there is no such reason then maybe he got some other girl and he wanted to break up with u to get her. if this is so.. then just leave him... he doesnt desreve you.
2007-01-09 17:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by usman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be calm,in controll and somewhat happy.Show him that you are strong and confident.That will kill him more.On the other hand,he wasn't ready.Would you want him to merry you,have a child with you then be with his friends all the time,or cheat on you?It wasn't meant to be.I am sure your Mr.right is out there.God will bring you together when the time is right.Hang in there.Good luck.
2007-01-09 17:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what happened??? he wanted to marry you and now hes leaving you??? that just sucks. I just got engaged a few days ago and i really hope that dont happen to me. Cant you both sort things out??? I do agree with you for been angry i would be too, but you are going to have to try- i mean really try and not yell and curse at him, tell him how you are feeling and why you both cant sort this out. I hope that all works out for you.
2007-01-09 17:12:32 · answer #8 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would do your best to be in control when you see him. That way you can take care of the business you need to. Maybe write him a letter and give it to him to express your anger/ hurt and other emotions about what happened.
2007-01-09 17:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Handle your business with him and leave. Don't discuss that other stuff. You need to move on. He hurt you and do not forget that when you see him. Also make sure to show up looking fabulous.
2007-01-09 17:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by *sexy mocha* 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋