Singles & Dating - 9 January 2007

I'm seeing more and more ladies in the media, like Nicole Ritchie. SO SKINNY! Personally I dont find it attractive..but do men? Be honest!

2007-01-09 16:46:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do u win over a man's heart? Is the say'n "best way to win over a man's heart is thru his stomach" true?

2007-01-09 16:46:11 · 20 answers · asked by Boss Lady 1

Or is this place just a circus for stupid people to make problems??? Has anyone actually gotten good advice. Thanks

2007-01-09 16:45:37 · 11 answers · asked by godzillasagoodman 2

my ex-gf called me after 3 years, we talk for a few times and everything was fine but then the last 2,3 times I was drunk and I acted kind of pushy and desperate, so she stoped calling me, but I love her so much and I was waiting for a day that she would call me but I missed this chance to take her back. now what do you think I should do or anything I can say to her or if I have another chance at all? by the way the reason that she broke up with me 3 years ago was because I was pushy and desperate so I don't want her to think I'm still too desperate by calling her wich I'm sure she would hate me.

2007-01-09 16:44:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

on the singles and dating category?

2007-01-09 16:43:27 · 10 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5

so...my best friend is a guy and we've been friends for a while. he's a really really great guy, but a bit too innocent and boring. the problem is, he is actually like "in love" with me, which is pretty weird. he really cares about me more than anybody ever has, but i dont necessarily feel the same way about him...tho i like to talk to him and be around him. i have mixed feelings and its really hard to know whats going on. mind that i am still young, a senior in high school and if i do start anything with him i know it will get serious. im young, i want to have fun. also, i dont really think that he'll take the role of the guy in the relationship, cuz i am already in too much control. i am so confused...what the hell do i do? thank you soo much in advance

2007-01-09 16:42:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We fool around a lot, pretty much everything but intercourse. He thinks I'm pretty shy as I don't take the initiative to undress him nor am I the first one to give oral--he usually gives oral and I follow suite with reciprocating it. I don't like him looking at me give him oral. I also hate doing all of this with the lights on. He also takes the initiative to kiss me on the neck, on my stomach, on my thighs, but I can't seem to kiss him anywhere but his lips. I feel like a boring partner.

I want to get over this, as I think I'm ready to have sex with him, but I can't seem to shake this shy thing. Suggestions?

2007-01-09 16:41:05 · 10 answers · asked by M M 1

I met this guy at my college a couple months ago. I think I really like him because I can't stop thinking about him. I don't know if I should go for it. He has a myspace and I feel a little intimidated because he has a lot of friends who are girls, so I just think he may not like me. I don't know what I should do. Thanks for any responses.

2007-01-09 16:40:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm sure she like me

2007-01-09 16:40:23 · 4 answers · asked by lebron23 1

2007-01-09 16:39:34 · 5 answers · asked by ruby 4

Well, my boyfriend is applying for a job at a college. It's a really good job. He's definately qualified for the job. He took computer engineering in college and he has great work experience.

He showed me his resume and it could use a little improvement. Some of the wording could be changed. I'm afraid they will look passed his experience and qualifications and concentrate strictly on what I saw.

It makes me want to cry because I noticed those things. I don't want to tell him either because I don't want to hurt his feelings. I know he really wants this job. In fact, this job will be good for both of us. He said it will bring him closer to being able to marry me.

If he'd said, "See anything that needs rewording?" or something to that effect, I would have said something, but he just showed it to me to show it, I think. I don't want to hurt his feelings. What should I do?

2007-01-09 16:39:32 · 5 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4

my girlfriends been through alot. shes a cutter and has been to mental rehabs and psychiatric sessions. she drinks and gets wasted and also uses drugs like coc and pot. i dont know if i should interfere with whats going on cuz once i did and she got mad. i want her to stop cutting but she says that it makes her feel better. im just really confused right now on what i should do. one more thing, were in middle school. and please, if your going to say tell an adult or tell a therapist, i already did.

2007-01-09 16:38:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

So if there is a guy that is your friend, what are the signs that he likes you more than a friend? Guy I want to hear from you. And girls if you have experience or good answers then I want to hear form you too. But please no stupid answers.

2007-01-09 16:38:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should i get for my BF's b day? he's 15 and not really into sports... I need to know quick;y and I have no clue!

2007-01-09 16:37:15 · 11 answers · asked by supernatural_luver 4

How should I communicate with females?

2007-01-09 16:36:31 · 4 answers · asked by liudabao 1

there was this guy &7 years ago when I was alot younger we had sex & never spoke again. I caught up with an old friend & he now wants to date me.So we started dating,we went out on our 1st date this past sat well he invites me to this bday party well when I walk in the door theres the guy from 7yrs ago.I spoke to h/ & the guy I am dating asked me how I knew his friend,I was extremely truthful & told him that we had sex 1x.the guy Im dating & I got over it & we were stuck 2gether like glue the WHOLE night.We really like each other.(By the way we all had no idea we knew each other.I go 2 the bath room & the guy from 7yrs ago walks up to him and says "she's got some good pu**y" so it pisses him off he still ignored it & cont to kick it w/ me.the guy from 7 yrs saw us all hugged up and kissing exc. I leave he calls the guy Im dating 3x to c if I went home with him.He tells him no y,he says b/c I f*ucked h/a 1yr ago.Not true b/c I was preg w/my son.Why is he trying to ruin us we dnt unders

2007-01-09 16:35:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i havn't had my first kiss before so i was wondering

2007-01-09 16:35:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I've been dating this guy for a lil over 5 months, we're in love and get along and stuff. But I can't shake the feeling he messed w/ this girl that he kissed a year ago. We broke up for a night and was at a party, and I know that they danced together. But I don't know if anything else happened, and of course he says it didn't. And I find out he was texting her, but deleted the texts. And deleted a call that he made too, but his excuse was he saw a number he didn't recognize in his calls and accidently called it, then deleted it. I don't know what to do.. I was happy with him, it just seemed like things started going downhill. Am I just paranoid or should I get back with him...cuz I dumped him, but he still wants to stay together

2007-01-09 16:34:32 · 13 answers · asked by kimmy_927 2

the thing is there's this guy at uni who started looking at me and sometimes even staring at me... at first i thought maybe i have something on my face...time passed and eye contacts between him and i started... and although it's so embarassing to tell, i actually like him even though i don't know him... we haven't talked a real conversation... everytime i see him, i feel he wants to talk to me but he doesnt do anything - all he does is look and stare... sometimes i think maybe i should walk up to him and talk to him first BUT i don't wanna do that cause i dont wanna look desperate... i want the guy to make the first move... from what i've seen, he's very shy - i havent seen him talk with any girls at all...

i dunno if he's into me or he's just making me his eye candy.. but the longer we have eye contacts, the more i'm liking him (for some reason)... i thought to myself sometimes if he IS into me,then he WILL talk to me no matter how shy he is...i'm so confused...help pls

2007-01-09 16:34:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you had 2 options. I person(man or women) that is very wealthy or a person(man or women) that you have found true happiness with but had not much money, what would you pick?

2007-01-09 16:34:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's weird now between us, even thouh I feigned to not notice or make anything of it. Don't know if I should make an attempt to say something like its not a big deal, or just not say anything at all

2007-01-09 16:33:08 · 13 answers · asked by whitney 1

Ok I think I might like my best friend. How in the world do i ask him out (if I decde to) or how do I drop hints that I want him to ask me out? I dont really want to ak him out because every tim its ended badly. Remember I am a modest girl and 13 so..... ya. Anyway, thanks 4 all your help! :D

2007-01-09 16:31:52 · 12 answers · asked by lauranakf 2

just out of curiosity. If a guy gets out of a 3year relationship and tries to quickly jump into relationships and gets rejected by several girls and finally settles with a co-worker, is that considered rebound?

2007-01-09 16:31:31 · 4 answers · asked by LT 1

I have an overload here......sending some out for all you lovely people........and if your'e not lovely.......you can have some too..........you might change!
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2007-01-09 16:31:30 · 21 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5

I met a guy this June while I was interning in another city and we decided to stay in contact when I returned. Before returning, I initially only spent about a week with him. Our relationship grew when we talked on the phone in the following months and I eventually visited him again for a week and visited his family. He has told me he loves me and wants to be with me and was interested in me possibly moving to his area one day. But recently, the following things have happened:

-he didn't call me for a month or return my calls
-when he finally called he said he missed me, loves me, wants to be with me, and acted like nothing happened
-when I confronted him about it he got defensive and said he called me but I didn't answer
-he said we can't have a relationship because we live far away, but we would talk about it if we moved closer to each other

I know we haven't been together in person a lot, but I don't wanna be played either. I really like him though...what should I do?

2007-01-09 16:30:47 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2

in class i'll look at him and he'll be looking at me...
about 3 months ago i told him i really liked him and asked him out
he totally said yes but he thought i meant as buddies
a day later we smiled at each other ALOT
when i found out he thought i meant as friends it was over vacation...
now in class im constantly looking at him and hes looking back...
i really want to smile but... i dont THINK i like him... do i?
and i think i like his best friend... do i still like him?

2007-01-09 16:29:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Around a guy that u like?I can b open,sociable and comfortable around any guy besides him..Im scared that if i go talk to him i'l mumble over my own wrds,but on the other hand i really would like to get to know him??I dnt know what to do any advice?

2007-01-09 16:26:33 · 14 answers · asked by Cassý 1

I'm a 27 yr old guy wanted to buy a vibrator for myself. i just want to know how it feels using it down there. I saw a couple on TV using it. the guy hate it at 1st, but after a few minute he liked it. i want to use it on myself and my girlfriend whlie we have sex. how would she feel about that? she dosen't know I want to do this. would this be too weird for her? let me know?

2007-01-09 16:23:59 · 21 answers · asked by (subzero)MK 1

this is entirely a hypothetical question, and no I don't beat women.
However, we have been taught not to hit women becase the woman is usually less physically powerful than he. What if she isn't? What if he is a frail short guy and she is one of those BBWs, or what if he is physically handicapped and she is just whooping on him something awful. please don't give the never ever answer. when is it ok for a man to strike a woman?

2007-01-09 16:23:33 · 42 answers · asked by michael H 4

my bf called my best friend hot

its not a HUGE deal, but its bothering to me!


i want to say i heard you said so and so was hot
tomorrow



is this a bad idea?
i dont know what i want from the outcome.. i just want dont like what im feeling right now

any tips?

2007-01-09 16:21:58 · 10 answers · asked by P 2