The best estimation of what your future holds is the past. Yes people change, however they really don't change that much. Like Dr. Phil says, "Once a cheater, always a cheater". If you have a feeling he has cheated, you should listen to it. Unless you know it is just jealousy or you have nothing to base it on. In your question, though, you list a number of times he has been dishonest.
If you were broken up for a night, he may have been with that girl. But you were broken up. Although it sucks, you weren't together. He should have stayed faithful if he wanted you back, but "technically" you dumped him. If it was only that night, that's easier to forgive. If it has been since you were back together...that's tough to get past.
I find that your gut is never wrong. If you have doubts about him...move on. Good luck sweetie...you will find the right one if it is this one or someone totally new!
2007-01-09 16:43:12
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answered by FrazzledMom 3
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Ok, I've been guilty of the cell phone thing myself, it's a security issue. Everyone wants to be wanted. We don't want to think of no one finding us attractive or cool. so it's very hard to stop "playing the game". I'm sorry for the stress that it causes on the relationship, but if you guys are already breaking up over something that maybe, might, or could of happened then it's just going to cause the both of you to not be able to trust each other. And if you don't have trust in your relationship, then it causes unhappiness and wont work any way. If you can (both of you) forget the past and focus on now. There is a reason for everything!!! Comunicate with each other without getting upset is very important. Even if at the time, the conversation upsets you don't let it be seen. Take a day and think about a solution that will work for the both of you.Compromise!!! Good Luck.
2007-01-09 16:51:07
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answered by hardcore 2
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That's a tough one. If you're paranoid, I wouldn't suggest getting back together. I'd suggest that you both date other people and if he wants to see you, he has to ask you out just like any other guy would have to! Just look at it as starting over in a way. Don't be exclusive until you're ready. Dating other guys will give you a chance to see how you should really be treated and what you really want in an ideal boyfriend. Maybe it will be a good way to see if you really want to be with him or not. Once he sees he has some competition he'll go crazy and want to ask you out every chance he gets and he'll know that you deserve respect, otherwise it's over. When you feel like you can trust him, then you can take it to the next level. Your heart is your own possesion and it's your job to protect it. Good luck!
2007-01-09 16:44:22
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answered by meghanw1 4
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I'd sell off him asap. If he likes a different lady and he or she him, WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? Real love does not play video games or have wandering eyes, it is dedicated and tough paintings. You MUST see this as a pink flag, a deal breaker, strike 3. Your younger, i am guessing, you should not also be since a SERIOUS dating that's going to rationale you lack of confidence. Have a laugh, do not end up overly invested on this, WHAT? you cannot flirt? Move on, the writing is at the wall and it spells concern. Do your self a desire and reduce the man unfastened, whether it is destined to be, it's going to run it is path and he will be again. But why you could take him again most effective you'll be able to reply.
2016-09-03 19:32:29
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answered by ? 4
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Girl, just get rid of the guy. He is obviously lying to you and deep down you know it, so why bother sticking around? I know you say that you're in love and all but come on...you deserve better. I've been in your situation before so I know how you feel. Just drop him and find someone else. Life is too short to be stuck with all the losers in life. Good luck. I hope you do the right thing.
2007-01-09 16:41:45
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answered by single_momma 1
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youre not paranoid, and heads up , you did the right thing by dumping him, deep inside you, you know you deserve better, dont come back to him, you'd be a fool to do so
2007-01-09 16:38:56
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answered by haringmarumo 6
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um yeah it is probably not what you think most girls when they break up with their boyfriend and find out their so called "MAN" has moved on they get suspicious and test the other girl to see their trust
2007-01-09 16:40:15
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answered by Anonymous
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No one should ever have to be with someone that they dont feel like they can trust. If you dont feel like you can trust someone it will continue to haunt you and you will not be happy.
2007-01-09 16:39:40
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answered by shomaliatimalla 3
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You need to see if you guys have enoug hin common to make it work if not forget it. Don't bring up past mistakes , we all make 'em.
2007-01-09 16:37:56
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answered by Anonymous
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Call this girl up and ask her. Tell her that if it's true then she can have him.
2007-01-09 16:39:14
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answered by Anonymous
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