it happened 7 years ago...........?

Question

there was this guy &7 years ago when I was alot younger we had sex & never spoke again. I caught up with an old friend & he now wants to date me.So we started dating,we went out on our 1st date this past sat well he invites me to this bday party well when I walk in the door theres the guy from 7yrs ago.I spoke to h/ & the guy I am dating asked me how I knew his friend,I was extremely truthful & told him that we had sex 1x.the guy Im dating & I got over it & we were stuck 2gether like glue the WHOLE night.We really like each other.(By the way we all had no idea we knew each other.I go 2 the bath room & the guy from 7yrs ago walks up to him and says "she's got some good pu**y" so it pisses him off he still ignored it & cont to kick it w/ me.the guy from 7 yrs saw us all hugged up and kissing exc. I leave he calls the guy Im dating 3x to c if I went home with him.He tells him no y,he says b/c I f*ucked h/a 1yr ago.Not true b/c I was preg w/my son.Why is he trying to ruin us we dnt unders

we both dont understand the guy Im dating isnt holding it against me and we REALLY like each other,but the guy keeps calling saying mean things and we dont understand why.He hasnt seen me in 7 years and knows nothing about my life in the last couple years he's so stupid he didnt even know I was pregnant at the time and he doesnt know that his friend knows for a fact he's lying...What do I do?

He was trying to make me look bad and I guess b/c I did that with him years ago he thought I was going to do that with the guy Im dating now but I really lik him and he really likes me and he doesnt want him talking to me for some reason.The only reason I can think of is b/c I was never like that with him and he's jealous but wh ytry to make me look bad...Im really not a bad person.I spoke to the guy Im dating and we're supposed to go out again and he says he had an awesome time with me but he sorta made light of the situation,he also at first didnt believe me I had to really prove to him and I did.I sorta think he wont take me seriuosly now because of this..I am in fear of that because I really like him.How should I play the situation or am I over reacting?

how do I show him Im not like that and get respect from him.I am currently not sleeping with anyone Ive decided to not do it ,I havent for 9 months now but what are somethings I can do?

Answer 1

You must maintain your cool and make sure , you take care of your present love by taking extra care of his needs . Make it a point and develop habit to cook delicious all the three meals and feed him , becoming a good host . Welcome him home with your ever green charming smile , no argument etc .
7yrs old minded man will be vanished , if present one will stand with you whole heartily like a glue .
Good luck .

Answer 2

You know what? This is just stupid. You told your current guy what the deal was, you didn't lie and if he likes you, he likes you. If he knows his "friend" is lying, then he should stop being friends with this idiot. As to having to prove you like the guy, I don't know what that means, but if it means he had sex with you, I'd watch it, sounds like he is playing you. As to the idiot, ignore him and ask your current bf what he intends to do about it and leave it alone. ?I would only say his desperation is showing in his repeated attempts to get you off the "A LIST" with your new love. If your new one dumps you cause of this, you have lost nothing....REPEAT NOTHING, I would take this very slow and see what develops! Good luck!

Answer 3

Ignore the idiot! He's just enveous of what you have now. He wants to cause some trouble. Get your guy now to get on his case if he keeps it up.

Answer 4

just ignore him because hes an idiot and has nothing better to do with his life then try to make other people miserable.