my ex-gf called me after 3 years, we talk for a few times and everything was fine but then the last 2,3 times I was drunk and I acted kind of pushy and desperate, so she stoped calling me, but I love her so much and I was waiting for a day that she would call me but I missed this chance to take her back. now what do you think I should do or anything I can say to her or if I have another chance at all? by the way the reason that she broke up with me 3 years ago was because I was pushy and desperate so I don't want her to think I'm still too desperate by calling her wich I'm sure she would hate me.
2007-01-09 16:44:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she asked me if I like her and I said no just for my foolish pride
2007-01-09 16:58:49 · update #1
The first step I would take if I was you, is to STOP calling her when you are drunk. She wants to hear the real you if anything. As a girl I know...if she loves you really and cares you will get her back. But always remember there are Plenty of fish in the sea!..try giving a new girl a chance...you never know what could happen, and you may get your mind off of you know who!! Good luck!
And p.s regarding the answer up there..just because you didnt have a perfect past (i.e baggage and bad memories) doesnt mean you cant make it better)
2007-01-09 16:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it really does depend. You have to find out if she still loves you as much as before. And if she does, don't act so desperate and pushy; it's not attractive. :]
It can happen. Just remember everything about her like the stuff she likes....
Maybe mention what yall used to do when yall were together. Or a moment that was really good or something. Just talk about all the good things of yalls relationship. Good luck !!!! I hope you win her back !!!!
-Katryna-
2007-01-10 00:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so pushy and desperate? I just broke up with a guy like that and he got on my last nerve. Stop doing it. It will not make her change her mind just by you being pushy and don't pick up the phone when you are drunk PLZZ. Just chill out if it is meant to be it will happen.
2007-01-10 00:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by *sexy mocha* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move On!
2007-01-10 00:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by stinkygrooves4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! if you'd still love her try to call her first and ask her that you visit her their house...tell her about you now and then...you would promise to change the way u r b4..maybe she'll accept u again f she still loves you...GOOOO!
2007-01-10 00:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on...
You two have too much baggage ( bad memories & history )
2007-01-10 00:48:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You can't win her back. Look elsewhere.
2007-01-10 00:47:48 · answer #7 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wont you regret it , if you don't at least try??? Go 4 it!!!
2007-01-10 00:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by CARAMIA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋