Well, my boyfriend is applying for a job at a college. It's a really good job. He's definately qualified for the job. He took computer engineering in college and he has great work experience.
He showed me his resume and it could use a little improvement. Some of the wording could be changed. I'm afraid they will look passed his experience and qualifications and concentrate strictly on what I saw.
It makes me want to cry because I noticed those things. I don't want to tell him either because I don't want to hurt his feelings. I know he really wants this job. In fact, this job will be good for both of us. He said it will bring him closer to being able to marry me.
If he'd said, "See anything that needs rewording?" or something to that effect, I would have said something, but he just showed it to me to show it, I think. I don't want to hurt his feelings. What should I do?
2007-01-09 16:39:32 · 5 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him and he'll be glad in the long run since he'll realize that u actually helped him. dont tell him just suggest it. good luck
2007-01-09 16:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe just say it is nice but i would have done it a little differant. Guys just arent usally good at these things
Maybe redo one for him and show him and see what he thinks
2007-01-10 00:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by angelicrulz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about him, you should tell him. Just because you hurt his feelings doesn't mean that you're not helping him.
2007-01-10 00:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A good healthy relationship should and always be opened to suggestions. You are helping him, not yourself.
2007-01-10 00:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by tagara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say something like
"you know, it might make a smoother sentence if you said it this way......"
He might be happy for your help.
2007-01-10 00:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by kiwi 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋