We fool around a lot, pretty much everything but intercourse. He thinks I'm pretty shy as I don't take the initiative to undress him nor am I the first one to give oral--he usually gives oral and I follow suite with reciprocating it. I don't like him looking at me give him oral. I also hate doing all of this with the lights on. He also takes the initiative to kiss me on the neck, on my stomach, on my thighs, but I can't seem to kiss him anywhere but his lips. I feel like a boring partner.
I want to get over this, as I think I'm ready to have sex with him, but I can't seem to shake this shy thing. Suggestions?
2007-01-09
16:41:05
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I'm 27 and a virgin!!!!
2007-01-09
17:15:26 ·
update #1
Without knowing your age I can’t give you advice that I am comfortable giving. For all I know you are 14 and not ready for sex. If you were closer to 40 then I’d say you are conditioned from your youth to wait for marriage so wait for it. If you are closer to 25 then the answer is the same as for 40. If you are closer to 18 then you should wait a bit and see if the shyness goes away after dating longer…
2007-01-09 17:01:50
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answered by male or female 2
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Well, sounds like you're not ready for any of that. If you love him you should feel comfortable around him...and if you dont, well then you shouldn't be getting anywhere close to sex. Anyway I suggest that you try to discover why you do feel uncomfortable doing these things...Shy or not, when you're with someone who's important to you it shouldnt matter. You should be able to be yourself. Now, he obviously finds you attractive, so what's there to complain about? Everyone's a little self conscious at first I guess but you'll need to get over that if you want to go any further. Why not take the initiative and do something that'll surprise him?
2007-01-09 16:50:31
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answered by Heather 5
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Just take it slow. Let him know that you are not that comfortable just yet, and still learning to be a good lover. He should understand your feelings, and go with it. Just take it one step at a time, and by doing that you are also buidling trust with your boyfriend, and from there you should be able to do more things that you want to. Trust me, as the relationship builds the shyness often fades away.
2007-01-09 16:46:12
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answered by Anonymous
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Boys can act the two way, it relies upon on the boy. some adult males act shy while they like somebody. some attempt and be your chum by applying joking and enjoying around. and a few act like they hate you and are propose to you. that's why it is so tricky to make your strategies up in the event that they such as you or no longer.
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answered by Anonymous
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errr. wrong, u can think ur ready to have sex, u need to be sure and think it over..its a big step to take in a relationship and it can have consicuences. mayb u should talk to ur boyfriend about it...but jus relax if your bf really does love you he'll understand
2007-01-09 16:47:10
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answered by Anonymous
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Have a few drinks and watch some porn together first..
2007-01-09 16:45:37
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answered by Anonymous
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Yep you are boring. Get horny.
2007-01-09 16:45:13
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answered by spud 4
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you are very boring in the long run.
2007-01-09 16:50:38
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answered by thevillageidiotxxxxx 4
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how old are you?
2007-01-09 16:45:22
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answered by anette 3
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alcohol and lots of it!!!!
2007-01-09 16:46:35
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answered by Marty B 4
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