I was with this guy for 7 yrs. His mom didn't like me and was always lying on me like I was calling her phone and texting her phone. His aunt was lying like i was following her around town and stalking her. We ended up separated because of these things and he strongly feels like i did these things. And now he claims he doesn't trust me because he thinks I'm slick. How do I get him to believe me again and trust me and understand his family is lying cause they don't want him with me. And he says blood is thicker than water and I have done so much for him. How do I get him back.
2007-01-09 17:49:30 · 6 answers · asked by beautiful_necey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd say you're out of luck. Serves you right for texting his mom and stalking his aunt.
2007-01-09 17:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you give this relationship time! There are always warning signs that some relationship's were just not meant to be. I know that this relationship lasted 7 years but, maybe it's now the time where you can take a step back and reevaluate it. I know from experience when you try pushing a relationship that has too many problems and warning signs that it always gets worse! Plus, you have to think about the future, where do you see your relationship going, if you ever wanted to marry him your going to need the support of his family and yours! I tell you to close your eyes and pray and envision what you want most and as you ask Jesus about it! What do you see? A beautiful relationship being loved, honored, cherished or a constant battle between you and him and his whole family that says your a liar? To help you reevaluate: Try following my 5 biblical principles for finding that true guy that will love you for who you are inside first than out!
1. Does he love you for who you are (inside first than out)? The Bible says: *“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-6
2. Does he honor you? Will he do things just to make you happy? Will he try some of the things you are interested in or maybe shares some of the same interests and hobbies? The Bible says:
* “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.” Romans 12:10
3. Cherishes your body, mind and soul? Doesn't go to far on these things until your ready? The Bible says: * “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet Spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” 1 Peter 3:3-4
4. You trust him to the fullest? He is your best friend and you are his? The Bible Says: * “ Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:7
5. You communicate well? He understands you like he could be your twin? The Bible says: * “ Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29
To Sum it up: Stick to 1. Love 2. Honor 3. Cherish 4. Trust 5. Communication and I promise if your relationship is based on these things you will know what its like to find true love! And Yes! I have used my principles myself and I am convinced I have found my soul mate! But to find her I also used these same principles to weed out my soul mate from the relationships that just didn't work. In addition, letting God and Jesus Christ lead your heart, mind, body and soul also aid in the weeding process. God Bless!
2007-01-10 02:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exs are were they belong,in the history book, learn from the experience and move on.
Rite now, I wish I could get rid of current bf
2007-01-10 01:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by Pauline K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on gal..if he really loves u he'll understand!! I know it's hard bt it's always hard to make the best decision. Who knows someday he'l get to know the truth!! just get busy then u'll forget about everything...GOOD LUCK
2007-01-10 02:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a crazy lady! Take a creative writing seminar and get some psychological help...he isn't for you.
2007-01-10 02:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't have any more faith in you than that, do you really need him back? Maybe it's time to move on.
2007-01-10 01:59:27 · answer #6 · answered by DixeVil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋