Singles & Dating - 28 December 2006

from day one...that the people there are tough and mean to you...AND YOU ARE A NICE, CONSIDERATE PERSON...that is how you were raised...You said to one of the girls and you are a girl.."why are you treating me this way?"...she just said "because."..now you asked another girl the same question?...she said don't you get it?You just said politely ..."no, i don't"...she walks away...would you tell your SUPERVISOR BECAUSE MAYBE HE'LL TELL THEM..AND THEY WOULD BE MORE PISSED AT YOU??? or would you just give your two week notice...and DO NOT GIVE A REASON FOR LEAVING...please help!!!

2006-12-28 06:18:52 · 7 answers · asked by sweet 4

I lost my virginity when I was 13 to my boyfriend of 2 years. We had been good friends for years before that, and only started getting sexual when we were both as comfortable with each other as we were with ourselves. We broke it off right before high school, because we weren't going to be seeing each other very much, but he remains one of my best friends. I do realize that once a person has lost their virginity, it isn't coming back, but don't feel terrible with myself for losing it, nor do I feel like I made a bad decision. On the contrary, we recognize each other as first loves, and great influences the rest of our lives. I've often wondered if I should be kicking myself in the face for it like others do sometimes. Thoughts?

2006-12-28 06:17:21 · 14 answers · asked by lirael1019 1

Ohhhh...Promiscuous girl..wherever you are
Im all alone and its you that i want
Promiscuous boy..you already know
that I'm not yours what are you waiting for..

OR should I sing Lips of an angel?

Honey why are you calling me so late
its kinda hard to talk right now
honey why are you crying is everything ok
i can only whisper coz i cant be too loud...

please help me....everything was a misunderstanding,sh saw me with another girl in my arms but i was just consoling my classmate!!!!!

2006-12-28 06:16:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 19 & i dont have a job,im trying to figure out where i want to go in a career,i plan on going to school in the medical field next year. About once a week i work at the family buisness so i do have some money to my name. I come from a good and well respected family also.My boyfriend of 2yr he does work at a hospital & brings home a decent amount of money ,he comes from a, hate to say it but trashy family though he's nothing like them.He buys me things here and there but i never ask him to buy me things,& when i have the money i pay him back but most of the time he dosnt let me.I dont know what to do because his whole family talks about me & says im a gold digger to other people because when he buys me things theyre usually pricey gifts.They talk about me to our friends and other family saying im a gold digger & i use him for the money. I love him for him and not for the money,they dont know me at all & i feel like they'll tear us apart as well as making me look bad to other people .

2006-12-28 06:16:24 · 2 answers · asked by victoriias_secret 1

I've known this person for about five months but we just started a relationship three weeks ago. He is younger than me but legal and lives with parents. He told me they wouldn't approve of him being with me so we kept it on the low. He calls me mainly and I use caller id block whenever I call the house or his cell. He was careless and saved my number in his cell and didn't delete his call log each time. A couple of days last week, I picked him up and we hung out without getting caught. However, the last day we stayed away to long and his dad was leaving the house just as I was dropping him off at the corner of his street and caught us together. His dad took his phone and saw my numbers and all the times we have talked. Later that night his dad called me but I didn't respond. He told them nothing happened between us and we were just friends so they let it go and told him not to have any contact with me. He has been calling me anyway. I told him not to call from home b/c I get paranoid.

2006-12-28 06:14:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my girl a long time and she is that good girl I have been wanting. The problem is, she is not very interested in sex. I really want a sex life and it's kind of depressing that it doesn't interest her no matter how much we talk about it. She is also i guess the word is 'uncharismatic?' She's a good girl and all but it's just not fun to be with her and I can't get her to open up to me about things so I have know idea what the hell she is thinking. I have a friend as well who she is far more fun and attractive but terrible girlfriend material. She has had a thing for me for a long time and offered me one night and afternoon at her place to do 'whatever I want' before she moves away in a few weeks. Should I just leave her after all we've done? It's kinda rare to find a girl that's not a hoe and treats you well. But i want us both to be happy.

2006-12-28 06:13:54 · 19 answers · asked by dave v 1

He likes me licking his ***hole a lot. He said that he likes that more than oral sex. What does that mean? Help.

2006-12-28 06:13:45 · 31 answers · asked by RoseBud 2

I have been dating this girl for 2months now. I started dating her not too long from when she broke up with her BF, whom she'd been dating for 1yr now. I like her, she likes me. She recently called me to tell me that she isn't sure if the relationship will prosper because she thinks we are very different in terms of views, beliefs etc. She also claims that she misjudged how long it will take for the emotional ties to her ex to be severed. She claims that she feels like she can fall in love with me. But, if she does not clear her head as to what she wants, she might hurt me or whatever. I said we can work things out. I don't know if I should just call it quits. Well I like her a lot. That is why I am investing my energy in this. What should I do now? Please Please help a man in his darkest hour. Thank you very much for reading and responding

2006-12-28 06:13:44 · 8 answers · asked by Michael O 1

2006-12-28 06:13:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need ur help! i reli love a boy i knew for a while. i dont mean a crush i mean deep in my heart..... but we both live in completely different worlds. we are completely different and we live far apart. what shud i doooo? plz help me figure it out?

2006-12-28 06:13:28 · 3 answers · asked by lilgranfamyte . 1

How long do wait before sleeping with someone? After 3 dates? A few months? How soon is too soon? I don't want to end up looking like a desperate tramp.

2006-12-28 06:13:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i feel a certain power when i get a guy hard.

am i the only one who feels this way?

2006-12-28 06:12:33 · 11 answers · asked by lickablecake123 1

2006-12-28 06:12:27 · 26 answers · asked by meche_k6611 1

i saw my bestfriend kissing my ex who pushed into having an arbotion at a party.she told mi that he was telling her they could have been good together but she did not mention anything about kissing him.should i tell her that i saw her kissing him

2006-12-28 06:11:37 · 17 answers · asked by ropam 1

2006-12-28 06:11:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this guy and im pretty sure he likes me back but i dont no wat i shud do now....im not that close to him cos we only actually first really got to no each other a couple of weeks ago but since then we've been getting a lot closer very quickly....i dont no whether i shud just go for it and ask him on a date or get to no him a for a bit longer....i havnt rle had much experience with relationships and i was wondering how long u find it takes for you to no someone well enough for it to be ok to ask them out?

2006-12-28 06:11:05 · 13 answers · asked by make_a_wish995 2

I spent about $50 bucks on my bf for x-mas he spent about the same. Last year I spent about $150 and he said he did to but I found his recipt in the trash and he only spent $60. I asked him this year if it was o.k. if I got him a gift certificate after x-mas because the traffic was so bad, mind you I did get him other gifts already about $50 bucks worth I thought he had spent more on me but he spent $50 on my gifts to and yesterday he wanted his gift card. my question is why should I keep spendeng more on him then he is on me shouldent it be the same amount on each person?

2006-12-28 06:09:58 · 8 answers · asked by Jen 3

2006-12-28 06:09:47 · 2 answers · asked by Annika G 1

GF TEXT ME TO PICK WHICH ENTRY I WANT TO USE TONIGHT: 1)FRONT DOOR 2)BACK DOOR 3)MOUTH. WHICH SHOULD I PICK AND WHY? WOMEN: WHICH DO YOU THINK SHE WANTS ME TO PICK?

2006-12-28 06:09:17 · 25 answers · asked by hottimesforallwomen 3

I am beyond p*ssed?
I have 2 female friends that I have known for over 11 years. I also used to date a guy that we all have known for at least 10 years. I broke things off with him because I felt that we would be better friends than anything else. We were very different. Well, the 2 friends of mine called me one day and asked for his number. They said it was because he worked at a club that they go to on a regular basis and they had to ask him something. Well, Sunday night they asked me to go to the same club. I saw him there and we talked for a while but the 2 friends I was with were acting kind of standoffish once we got inside. I kind of put 2 and 2 together and came to the conclusion that one of themslept with the guy I used to date. These girls are okay but I know for a fact that they slept with someone my little sister used to date, they are vultures. I was raised with a conscience. I asked him if he slept with one of them and he got defensive . I would never sleep with their ex..what do you think?

2006-12-28 06:09:17 · 26 answers · asked by vivian M 2

Would you ask them to watch it with you on occassion knowing how bored they are, with the reasoning of doing this being, "Since I love sports so much, I want to share this important aspect with my signifciant other"?

Ladies AND Gentlemen... please respond!

2006-12-28 06:07:41 · 6 answers · asked by WhoamI 1

well u see i have a bf of my own. and well its a long distance realtionships and its realy hard. i mean we barely talk at times and i do care about him. but sometimes epople tell me times he might be chating and i dont know who to believe. i i kno that he cares too. but i ask myself if it will really work out.

2006-12-28 06:07:34 · 7 answers · asked by niñabonita 1

I think she is acting immaturely? There is definitely a line that can't be crossed w/in a relationship, some things that just can't be said but rather must be "uncovered" or realized byt the other person. But she is playing games. I sense her feelings for me are real (and strong, so WTF!), but she won't let them develop. And I am getting pissed off. So, again, how can I tell her? Can I tell her anything?

2006-12-28 06:07:19 · 2 answers · asked by randyken 6

She wrote that she feels that she's known me for longer and she trusts me. She wrote that she's been single for over 1 year. She's 2-3 years younger. We've never met. We've only been e-mailing each other.

2006-12-28 06:05:54 · 6 answers · asked by sandwreckoner 4

Isn't a Hood Boy responsible for her being a single mother in the first place? Is this the image we want to give young brothers and sisters trying to come up? Shouldn't she want a Good Man instead of a Boy anyway? There is nothing good about being Hood. She of all people should be ashamed of herself for perpetuating the image that you have to be 6'4" and 225. Then she wants you to buy her book talking about how life is not a fairy tale she needs to get real. This is a message to my brothers out there you need to aspire to be more than Hood you need to be Good. And when you met a sister that tries to tell you that you are not Hood-enough you need to leave her alone there is nothing you can do for her. To my sisters out there you don't need a hood to make you feel good - you need a real man that can hold down a job, a man that can hold you down, and hold you up, a man that won't run from responsibility, a man that will respect you and himself. Or you could follow Fantasia's lead

2006-12-28 06:04:35 · 13 answers · asked by ARM 6

2006-12-28 06:03:39 · 18 answers · asked by Jess 2

2006-12-28 06:03:33 · 9 answers · asked by Ann 1

this guy that im not dating, just seeing sort of, well its the xmas hols and i havent seen him, i literally CANT see him. so anyways i was chatting to my friend and she said she saw him with his brothers and some GIRLS! and they said hi to her.

now im feelin so jealous and i wanna scream and break something and i wanna hit him when i see him! why do i feel like this? hes just a guy, ive got better things to think about but i cant! i like him but my life doesnt revolve around him. and now im listening to depressing songs, it makes me sad but somehow makes me feel better too.

anyway how can i stop myself from getting jealous?

or how can i not think about it? IT DRIVING ME NUTS!!!

2006-12-28 06:03:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

two friends of mine spend every spare minute they have on dating and chat sites and often meet up with people from these sites.if i go and visit them im faced with an evening of looking at their backs while they chat away to their virtural friends so i thought why not try it myself,maybe im missing out on something wonderful.so i joined a chat site put my picture and a few details up and got around 60 messages daily from men wanting to meet me,wanting varoius pictures of my body..u know what im saying.well,it wasnt me so i cancelled my account much to my friends disgust and now they think something is wrong with me.am i old fashioned or outdated as they say?if i wanna meet a man id rather go out and meet a man in the flesh and get to know him face 2 face not by staring into my pc 24/7 but they say im silly and to get with the times.may i add im 28 and they are older than me.
please advise.

2006-12-28 06:02:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

love should end with sex or marraige..

2006-12-28 06:02:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous