Singles & Dating - 28 December 2006

As i have two-timed every other guy that i have been with in the past and i told him that i would never do it to him ever and i mean what i say to him because i have a lot to lose and i love him very much and have good feelings for him
i made a stupid mistake back in September by advertising myself for another boyfriend and now i regret it as he found out about it and i dont think he trusts me now,how do i go about putting it right between us

2006-12-28 06:59:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

well I keep having a dream about my friend Steven i dream that i'm at his house and were sitting on his couch and were watching a movie together, and he he starts kissing me, i mean really kissing me, and i let him too. and in every dreams he says "you love me, i know you do" and thats where i wake up, i never get to finish it.....plz i reely need to figure out what this means...

2006-12-28 06:59:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and him have been friends for a long time now. And his friends told my friends he liked me.And my friends told his friends I liked him back. So we both know but we just never told eachother. It's like a game of cat and mouse only we're both mice and I'm tired of waiting. How can I tell him I like him without exactly telling him. Or maybe that's the whole point. Please Help!

2006-12-28 06:58:53 · 10 answers · asked by Summer C 2

The guy I've been seeing for the passed 10 years has alwys taken a liking to other girls. But only sleeps with them. He says he still loves me and comes over to my place EVERY night. He says they mean nothing to him but is still seeing them. I'm not worried about STD'S and all. He always has protection. I just don't know if I can go on with him sleepin aroung but at the end of the day he is with me. I do love him. will do anything for him. I feel so confused. What should i do???????

2006-12-28 06:57:46 · 15 answers · asked by Viaa 5

2006-12-28 06:56:54 · 21 answers · asked by Chrystal 7

2006-12-28 06:55:44 · 33 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2

I don't want to sound needy but he calls or texts me everyday. He usually calls me at night like 10ish to see how my dad went and just to say goodnight. Even when hes out with his friends he'll just send me a little text saying hey how was your day? or i'll call you tomorrow have a nice sleep. Yesterday he didn't. So I was like ok hes probably just out with his friends and he'll call me when he gets home. I wake up today no text or anything so I was like well I'll just send him a text incase hes sleeping. Yeah that was like 3 hours ago and I still haven't gotten a reply. I normally wouldn't be so worried about it but on tuesday we got in a fight. So do you guys think that hes still mad about the fight? Should I just back off and give him some space? Wait for him to call me or what?

2006-12-28 06:54:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-28 06:54:14 · 20 answers · asked by yup 1

ok he tells me he loves me but i dont say i love him back is that bad??

2006-12-28 06:53:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

We both like each other, we have said that we have feelings for one another, we have even madeout. But i think the guy does not want to ruin the friendship, so he says he does not want to date. He says it is because he would be my first boyfriend and he thinks that he is not what i would want in a guy. yet I have told him I want to be in a relationship with him. This guy is so sweet, a gentleman. Everytime that we hang out, we do things that people who date or are in relationships do. So, does anyone have any ideas about how i can deal with being his friend for right now.(Note: both people are in there 20's, guy is 4 years older)

2006-12-28 06:52:59 · 13 answers · asked by shakespearestalker87 1

I am not a big fan of asking guys out (I'm a bit old fashioned), but every guy seems to be too intimidated to ask me out or even approach me. So I have started taking the first step (or at least trying). There is a guy in my building that I see here and there, but for some reason when I am actually prepared with my card I don't see him and when I have nothing he pops up out of the wood work. I have talked to him here and there in passing and we have exchanged looks (lingering looks) here and there as well. I have no clue what his name is though. I intend to go up to him (next time I am armed with my card) and say hey my name is Erin and I haven't actually introduced myself....(wait for his name) and say well here's my number if you want to go out for drinks or coffee sometime give me a call! Do you think that is effective enough? Will it work? I am so lost cause I don't do this ever. I am nervous as well. I just don't know if he will be receptive....since he has made an actual move yet

2006-12-28 06:52:43 · 30 answers · asked by Erin B 2

My ex broke up with me a couple of weeks ago. I really like him so it's been rough trying to get past it. But it's become increasingly difficult now that he wants to be friends. We talked last night and he was mentioning that he wanted to hang out and go get coffee or go bowling next week like we used to. I told him that I was hesistant about the idea and he asked why. Then at the end of our convo he called me by the pet name that he used for me when we were going out. I called him by his name and he asked me why I didn't call him by the nickname I had for him. Huh?!? I don't want to be one of those girls he just "hangs out" with because he means so much more to me than that. I don't want to end what we have left but it's just awkward being friends with someone who knows so much about you and has seen everything...emotionally and physically...that you have to offer.
Advice?

2006-12-28 06:52:21 · 4 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1

2006-12-28 06:51:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

my b/f keeps on calling dating sites & if i bring it up he acts like he doesn't know what im talking about. it only happend twice but i hate it. am i doing something wrong & if so what can i do?

2006-12-28 06:51:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf gets upset with me because i like having sex alot and he doesnt...im jsut not sure what to do about the situation..he is a tad older than me..and im sure what to do..and what might cause him not to like sex as much as i do..any suggestions

2006-12-28 06:50:40 · 16 answers · asked by Kimmie B 4

my gf broke up with me 3 weeks ago, i think she might be regretting it now, but she's a passive girl so she might never take the action... should i go for it instead of holding my priinciple of the one who broke it off should be the one who comeback??

2006-12-28 06:49:40 · 5 answers · asked by tele t 2

He broke up with me 2 weeks ago during his finals week. He said it's stressful and our relationship is partly responsible for that b/c i'm a little high maintenance by calling him too much(2-3 times a day.) At that time i suspected he didnt do very well at school(he's a senior in college) since he said things are tough. But i never knew things were this tough until this morning i login to his email account and found that he got an email from the registrar telling him his academic records are below the university's standard and tell him to contact them asap! So now i began to understand him a bit more and didnt blame that much for not being strong in our relationship. And since he's that kind of person that keeps these bad things from me, probably b/c he doesnt wanna show he's a "loser", i dont really know what to do. Do you think this is the most direct reason he broke up with me b/c things are this tough? And what can i do to help him? We havent talked for 2 weeks. Please advise,thanx

2006-12-28 06:48:49 · 13 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2

My friend says he is controling me because my ex- boyfriend hate's my best friend b/c i broke up with him because he was cheating on me so i cheated on him, and we are still into an argument.
But he talks about me mean he do it infront of my face, and then when he isn't around his friends he like's shows me he cares about me.And i'm confused..I'm over him but i don't know i'm not going back, because he is popular and i'm like nerdy/popular because i'm really nice, right now i'm thinking about switching schools because he is getting on my nerves with making fun of me and everything.
and this was in the 7th grade and now i'm in the 8 th and about to go to 9th grade.
What should I do?

2006-12-28 06:48:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

(December 28 2006)

2006-12-28 06:48:37 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous

Someone that likes you and don't mind if your the same race

2006-12-28 06:46:37 · 9 answers · asked by shay 2

she accused me of not wanting her sexually. i pulled her off the bed by her arm and feel ashamed about it. i am a very mellow guy. we were both shocked. i want to make clear that after i did this we made up.

i don't what to think about this. i apologized but i feel remorse.
how should i think about it?

PLEASE NO JUDGEMENTS. I NEED ADVICE.

2006-12-28 06:45:56 · 44 answers · asked by Janus 2

2006-12-28 06:45:37 · 3 answers · asked by lisababy 2

Last night I talked to my boyfriend online (long distance relationship) and as he opened a gift I had gotten him. He immediatly told me that though he appriciated the thought I should not have bought him that because he didn't like it. (I bought him cigars, he is a regular cigar smoker, but appparently the specific kind I got wasn't something he wanted even though it is a brand he likes.)
Now at this point I guess I was upset and a little shocked that he had been so rude. I understand that he has to tell me at some point that his taste is different than what I thought, and I DO want him to tell me that he doesn't want me to buy him certain things, but I think he could have waited longer than the exact point that he opened the gift. (We have been dating for a year and a half and he has never said anything about it until now.) Am I being rediculous because I am mad, or was it as rude as I think it was?

2006-12-28 06:44:22 · 35 answers · asked by averyanne77 4

2006-12-28 06:44:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

who do u turn to when the only one who can stop ur tears is the one who made u cry?

2006-12-28 06:43:02 · 14 answers · asked by pandabear 2

These are some things he does...emails several times a day. Drives 100 miles to see me. Sleeps over and cuddles with me the entire night. Kisses me for a long time and at random times. Breaks plans with his friend to be with me instead. Hangs out with me in public, both before and after we get busy. Then he says he just wants to be Friends with Benefits. Do people usually do all this with their FWB??? Does it sound like there are feelings involved too?

2006-12-28 06:42:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-28 06:42:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

What body language signs or cues does a man give off when he is attracted and or/ nervous?

2006-12-28 06:41:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just never had much luck with women. I am not a smooth talker, funny, rich, or great looking either. I am mentally stable, but not confident at all. I have tried all sorts of things, even went to a shrink with self esteem issues. I think the advice was something stupid like, don't worry, you'll find the right one. That's good advice for a high schooler, but not when you are 37.
I went to college. I work for a living, so its not that I am living in my parent's basement either. I exercise, but I am not buff.
I am not looking for a model. I have had girlfriends over the last few years who I managed to find through the personal ads. But, I never really liked them. My friends thought they were too fat or not attractive. [I hate saying that.] The ads are the dating avenue of last resort.
I dress well, but only had gays or grandmas or well below average girls approach me.
I talk to girls, but never get anywhere. I ask some out, but mostly get rejected, no matter how kindly

2006-12-28 06:40:47 · 9 answers · asked by JustTheD 2

He never let's her stay overnight because he is ashamed to reveal his secret to here.

2006-12-28 06:40:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous