As i have two-timed every other guy that i have been with in the past and i told him that i would never do it to him ever and i mean what i say to him because i have a lot to lose and i love him very much and have good feelings for him
i made a stupid mistake back in September by advertising myself for another boyfriend and now i regret it as he found out about it and i dont think he trusts me now,how do i go about putting it right between us
2006-12-28 06:59:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This hsould help :)
Try to look your best when around him. You don't have to be dressed up, just be dressed nicely. The key is to look good without looking like you tried to look good.
Go light on the make up. If you wear make up,try not to wear a lot or at least try to make it look "natural". Most men don't like their girlfriends to wear make up and prefer to think that their good looks are naturally there.
Have a positive attitude. If everything you say around him is a criticism or an attack, he will not look forward to seeing you. However, you don't always have to agree with him just because he is your boyfriend.
Make your desires, needs, and opinions known, even when they may conflict with his. Acting like you exist solely to please him will get you no respect and may even make him bored with your company. Showing that you are your own person with your own needs, desires, and approach to life will keep him interested in getting to know and understand you as a person.
Learn the date of his birthday , so you can always send him a nice card, and perhaps a small gift. Remember, that you enjoy when he gives you gifts, and he feels the same way.
When you meet his family, be polite and sincere. Be friendly with his friends, and introduce him to yours. Let him feel that he is a part of your life, just as he makes you feel a part of his.
Give him his 'space', and allow him to spend time with the 'guy's when he wants to. Do not always feel you have to hang around with him. Set a day where you two go out to dinner and a movie or even skating, and spend other times with friends.
Don't try "too hard". Attend to the details above, but still be yourself. Do not make it seem like you are trying too hard to be someone you are not.
2006-12-28 07:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why did you do that?!?!?
The thing is if you truly love him why would advertise yourself as single?!?!?
You will just have to be honest and open from now on and hope its not too late the cracks are already there which is a shame so early on................
good luck only time will put this right so don't act false just be yourself and ask him to let you know if any of your actions make him uncomfortable etc
2006-12-28 15:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you so truly, madly, deeply in love then why did you advertise yourself as a free agetn-when you not? Anyway, what's done is done. Trust has to be earned and I hate to break it to you but yo probably have a long way to go in getting it back. Don't over compensate-you don't want to look like you hiding something-DON'T hide anything-at all from him. your track record is a bit concerning though. I wish you the best...
2006-12-28 15:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by Tiara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no magic thing you can do to "keep" your boyfriend. Just be yourseld and do the best you know ho to do. It sounds corny but it's the truth. If it's meant to be then he will work out his issues with what you did, if not then you need to move on and not try and force him to stay with you.
2006-12-28 15:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by tiffantre 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to earn his trust again and thats gonna take time. just continue to be the person he first fell in love with. and dont make that same mistake again. things will work out just give it time.
2006-12-28 15:34:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love him and no one else will make him the happiest man in the world.
2006-12-28 15:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by OO7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoops!
2006-12-28 15:24:35 · answer #7 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well girl , what do you think you should do?
You don't look for other men to date. SIMPLE!
And that is it! nothing else.
2006-12-28 15:09:03 · answer #8 · answered by kiku 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
be yourself!
talk to him about WHY you two timed on your other partners. this way he can avoid their possible mistakes.
**COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY**
2006-12-28 15:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by manca300 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give him lots of head, trust me
2006-12-28 15:47:49 · answer #10 · answered by sam_wemb 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋