who do u turn to when the only one who can stop ur tears is the one who made u cry?
2006-12-28 06:43:02 · 14 answers · asked by pandabear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a good friend will do
2006-12-28 06:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know? There is no such thing like "the only one who can stop your tears" The world has many wonderful people that wouldn't hesitate on letting you cry over their shoulder and wipe your tears off. You just need to be on the look out for them. I wish I could.
Concentrate on friendship first, don't get attached to the one that can stop your tears, because then, they will make you cry even more, and things will become more difficult. (you can e-mail me through my profile if you want to talk a little more. Your e-mail will remain confidential even to me.)
Make wise decisions. God Bless.
2006-12-28 14:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by skydiver 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u can turn to ur close fren. or even to the 1 who made u cry. i might seem crazy but at least to let him know so tat he will not make the same mistake again, hope tis help
2006-12-28 14:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by john 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as cliche as this sounds, only you can stop the tears. you may be too young to understand this. we are in control of how we process and respond to events.
for example, if a kid road their bike thru a puddle you were standing next to and you got wet,, you hv two ways to respond. you can LET yourself get angry thoughts and yell out *or* you can laugh at yourself for standing so close to a puddle with kids on bikes around.
in the area of broken hearts, its painful but valuable part of life. take the time you need to grieve and cry, and when you are done - you'll be able to think of the relationship objectively. ask yourself what worked for me in it? what didn't i like about it? what kind of person was i with them (whiney, needy, happy, confident)? did i like myself better or worse? what was my reasons for being in it? what can i learn from this experience?
relationships surface the good and bad in us. one approach is to be thankful you had the relationship and learned something about you from it. look at each one as preparing you for the love of your life. it takes experience and hard work to be in the relationship that will last,, more importantly it takes two committed people who are READY for it.
take care!
2006-12-28 14:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by bb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
turn to yourself. find it inyourself to work out the reasons why you feel the way you do, and be strong and confident that the person whos making you cry might not be the right one who's going to stop it because he/she is causing it. so find it in yourself to solve your problem.
2006-12-28 14:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by Dory Ian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I turn to Jesus, he always has my back no matter what. At the end of the day I'm very glad that I did!
2006-12-28 14:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by cOMpLiCaTeD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I turn to God, he can never make me cry unless I realized I disappointed him.
2006-12-28 14:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by JordanDDunn 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
thats pretty tough. just trust that little voice in ur head.
2006-12-28 14:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by flavagirl711 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a nice fresh air nice view i think that will do for some i think. i prefer that.
2006-12-28 15:16:13 · answer #9 · answered by 2luksat2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend, family member, or you go straight to em and tell them what they did to you...
that's what i have to do soon...
best of luck to you...
2006-12-28 22:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by the sign 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋