Singles & Dating - 27 December 2006

2006-12-27 18:41:00 · 10 answers · asked by abella_03 1

I have been dating this guy for almost 5 months now. I am not into him at all. When I do kiss him its only a peck on the lips and that has only happened maybe 5 times. We have not had sex and I have not stayed at his house overnight. He is a very sweet guy and would be great for me but I am not into him like he is to me. He got me tons of things for christmas and has already made new years plans. I work with him. He tells me that he loves me. How do I let him down. and when. I am 28 and he is 40

2006-12-27 18:38:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am recently single, and had been in a long term relationship for a couple years. I just sort of started seeing people again a few months back, and I have really found someone who I enjoy very much so. I really feel a chemistry there between us that I've never felt with someone else before. He is a very VERY attractive man, very solid in his life with a career, college degree, and his own house. Normally, this would be perfect. However, I am an overweight girl. I'm told all the time that I'm beautiful, and very pretty, but I still have this nagging thing inside of my head telling me I'm not good enough for him, and it completely destroys my personality. I really like him, and I know he really likes me.... How can I make myself stop doing this to myself? Why can't I let myself be happy??

2006-12-27 18:34:03 · 6 answers · asked by stephanie j 1

2006-12-27 18:29:44 · 18 answers · asked by fantsy_face2000 1

my crush is like afraid to kiss me so i want to kiss him cuz we both really like each other i just dont no when the right time during the movie and how to e.g.. do i jst unexpectedly or look into his eyes? plz help me asap im desperate!!!!

2006-12-27 18:29:40 · 4 answers · asked by hilz 1

my bf of 3 years broke up with me 3months ago and we havent talked since then. I want him to talk to me, i mean 3years c'mon we could at least be friends. Why doesnt he talk to me... not even greet me a merry Christmas! geez

2006-12-27 18:25:37 · 16 answers · asked by LT 1

he always ask me how many times did I come, is that normal for guys to do that

2006-12-27 18:25:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this guy 3 years older than me and i want him to like me, but i dont want to act immature around him.

2006-12-27 18:25:12 · 8 answers · asked by girls in the hood 2

Because tommorow, i set up my first kis...and i dont know what to do...i need some help by then PLEASE???

2006-12-27 18:24:34 · 23 answers · asked by Andrew 2

ive only had one bf and that was 10 months ago and he was super jerky and ugly. everyone tells me im hot, but i just want a relationship not.... a one night stand. what should i do????

2006-12-27 18:24:15 · 23 answers · asked by jessica 1

okay there is this guy who i like, and we kinda just keep looking at each other and i asked him to a dance and he was very happy but then suddenly these days he just looks at me i think he tries to avoid me but just keeps looking at me wherever i go....

2006-12-27 18:23:47 · 7 answers · asked by roxie 2

theres a girl i really like and im not sure if she likes me, i dont really think that. Soyesterday i hung out with her and we talked whole time. So it was getting to the end of the convo and i asked her about a dream she mentioned i was in. She refused to tell me throughout the whole conversation and as i was leaving i told her i would ask when i called her later on. So as i said that she said to come back adn she would tell me. So i go back, and she says its a secret so i bend over to hear it and as my head is near her face, she kisses me on the cheek. After this i dont really remember what happened but i believed i left after i said a few things. Then as im leaving she said that in her dream it wasnt on the lips. Got a few questions. What does this mean? and did i screw this up? shuld i have kissed her back, and lastly, what should i do next time, I was thinking likeyou know how you always want to change how you did something then shed say something and id then kiss her, good idea?

2006-12-27 18:23:43 · 19 answers · asked by brillohead 2

Just so you guys know she was coming on to me first. And I started to like her. Well here's the drama enjoy :(
We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said "that's so sweet." So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a crush on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this note well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends. When I gave her the note she didn't read it in front of me she read it in away from me. She show all her co-worker friends the note and told them I like her. She never said anything about the note to me. When I saw her again I ignore her. She thought I lost interest in her so she said "You don't like me anymore" and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. We are co-workers and her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. On Christmas Eve I gave her a $30.00 statue glass angel. I told her friend that the angel cost $30.00 and I guess her friend told her and I guess she freak out and told the manager about the situation. She told the manager that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees. And she also said to him that she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep the angel she just told her boyfriend that it was from a girl at work. She told that to my friend and my friend told me. I seen her today at work and she was freak out. She didn't want to be near me. She was pretty scared to go near me. I ignore her and didn't look at her or talk to her. She did the same. I know you guys are going to think i'm a loser for buying a $30.00 gift for a girl who has a boyfriend. I need advice about this situation. Do you think she likes me or not?

2006-12-27 18:23:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf is always looking at other women, by double taking and staring while he is with me. well we have gone over this a hundred times and i told him how it makes me feel when he does this. well he stills does it and denies most of it, even if he knows i was right in his face and seen him do it. well someone told me to give him a taste of his own medicine and start body checking guys. well its hard for me to do this cause im not that kind of person. what should i do in your opinion? and also why does he keep doing this if he knows it is going to cause big problems and if he knows it hurts me.? and plz dont tell me all men look because its a difference in seeing people and staring at them.

2006-12-27 18:22:18 · 13 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4

penetration,does he get as excited?

2006-12-27 18:21:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why don't those same women take a moment ( or two ) and look at themselfs and try to see why they are not dating more responsibily? Some of those men should have not even been allowed in their ' airspace '. Women have a responsibily to take a keener look at men before they open themselfs to the more 'classless' men.

I'm a woman who adores and values men and I personally grow weary of women complaining of men saying men are ' creeps ' and can't be trusted.

Men are not ' creeps ' . . . an individual person is a 'creep' and maybe can't be trusted . . . but don't take what one (or more) man has done and blanket it to all men.

I say . . . women, take a look at yourselfs and know your own personal level and quality and don't date men below the standards you set for youself. ' Scan ' these men with your heart ' attenias ' before opening yourself up to them before you know more of them.

Why don't women take more responsibility for looking after their own heart environment ?

2006-12-27 18:20:57 · 9 answers · asked by onelight 5

2006-12-27 18:18:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm the only black person in a group of friends. Sometimes I can't help but feel like I stick out no matter where we go and I become moody and depressed, and other times I feel like they don't want me around or that I'm useless to them. I don't really understand why I feel like this sometimes but it happens alot. It's not at all that I won't hang out with people of my color, it's just that I've been friends with these girls for a really long time. One of them for almost five years! Should I just cut all ties with them, and make new friends? Or give up altogether? Or should I just tell them how I feel?

2006-12-27 18:18:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-27 18:17:32 · 8 answers · asked by anthony f 1

If love somebody,how can you explain?

2006-12-27 18:13:06 · 10 answers · asked by goldenboy 1

2006-12-27 18:12:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I`m not necessarily your average teen. People tell me that I fall for older guys because i`m fairly mature. The guy I`ve fallen for is twenty. I really do honestly love him. He`s my first thought in the morning and my last thought at night. I don`t know how to tell him I love him. I have no idea how he`ll react. I guess what I really want to know is if you all think he`ll care about the age difference. I just want a chance. A chance to show him i`m so much more than my age. It`s making me crazy.

2006-12-27 18:11:45 · 13 answers · asked by mariee 1

my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 months. his ex-girlfriend is kim. tonight at dinner, my bfs dad called me kim 3 times without realizing it, and never did. do i have any room to be upset? how realistic is it that hes still seeing her and im the only one that doesnt know it?

2006-12-27 18:11:36 · 3 answers · asked by ashkro 1

okay this doesnt make sense to me. My bf of 3years broke up with me 3 months ago wanting me to be single and alone. Before i know it hes trying to get at 3 other girls!!! and just recently he hooked up with a co-worker. Is it just me, or like does it seem like something is definitely wrong with a person who quickly gets with other people after a break up and people are aware that he seemed quite different and gloomy when we ended. Could he really be over me so soon?

2006-12-27 18:10:48 · 16 answers · asked by LT 1

Not that you pervs...........I mean like body In general.......Cause I am really thin.......do girls go by looks or can personality take the place?

2006-12-27 18:10:36 · 11 answers · asked by Tree 2

Hey Guys...I have a problem.I had been in love with someone for almost 3 yrs now.I absolutely adore this person.This person is quite stable and reliable.This person stays on mind all day long even if out of my sight.I can do anything for this one person...But i don't feel sexually attracted to this person.Just like an year back i had meet this other person..who is commitment phobic/Unnreliable blah blah blah.But I am very much attracted to the second person,when this person is around.I HAVE NOT DONE ANYTHING WITH EITHER OF THEM.is something wrong with me?Who is right for me?

2006-12-27 18:09:23 · 11 answers · asked by Blessed 1

and where were you when you heard that and
did it actually work? :)

2006-12-27 18:06:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my gf have been dating for 3 months. When were around people she is kinda mean to me when were out in public. I really like her and she says she really likes me back what should I do. (P.S. She has a tendency to flirt with other guys when I'm not around)

2006-12-27 18:05:47 · 32 answers · asked by Your best friend 1

2006-12-27 18:05:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

How should I tell this //guy// I like him????
I really want to ask him out!!!!

2006-12-27 18:05:24 · 6 answers · asked by KiKi 1