my bf of 3 years broke up with me 3months ago and we havent talked since then. I want him to talk to me, i mean 3years c'mon we could at least be friends. Why doesnt he talk to me... not even greet me a merry Christmas! geez
2006-12-27 18:25:37 · 16 answers · asked by LT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He needs some time to get over you and the best way to do that is no contact.
2006-12-27 18:29:33 · answer #1 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 07:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes....this is something i don't understand either.
Some people find it hard to communicate with their exs, maybe because they were hurt,still have feeling that cannot hide or because they hate each other.Depending on the reason you guys broke up you can understand why your boyfriend avoids talking to you even as a friend.
My ex doesn't talk to me since the day we split up because he has true love feelings about me and he can not accept me only as his friend.He says he will be hurt even more and he prefers that we don't talk at all.I don't like it that way, but am going to wait for him whenever he is ready to see me just as a friend.
2006-12-27 18:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by Soulla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is much better this way..talking to each other will bring memories and u will both feel bad...forget about him and move on...after some time u might see him accidently in a place or something and it will be easier to talk.
2006-12-27 18:29:17 · answer #4 · answered by gala-day 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is a git do not even bother, chances are that he is got himself hooked up wid another girl. Guys are like dogs they wag their tail only when they see a bone, he left u cos he got bored of u, hunny get practical, i might be sounding like crude but that cud b the reason which i jus spoke
2006-12-27 18:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by Rachna S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's best to put these things behind you. He might not be ready to talk to you, or not ready for you to talk to him.
It's my understanding that it can be pretty hard to remain just friends after a relationship and that it's usually best to just not go that route.
If he didnt' say "Merry Christmas" or "Happy Holidays", I think it's pretty clear what his feelings are.
2006-12-27 18:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by Bookworm 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's not common for guys and girls to be friends after a relationship that lasts a long time, so don't count on talking to him. Guys don't feel comfortable talking to their ex-girls so just forget about him and find yourself another friend and another guy!!
2006-12-27 18:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by cute_chica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have no promises or obligations....maybe that's what he's thinking.
Maybe he's moved on. Was it a painful breakup?
My boyfriend hates remembering the past, especially all the painful parts.
Could that be what you're boyfriend feels?
2006-12-27 18:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by JILL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes an x won't talk to you because they still have emotions towards you and fear that you may also have them and that if they where to talk to you again then perhaps you two might get back together again.
It's usually this or maybe someone else doesn't want im talking to you :(
2006-12-27 18:35:26 · answer #9 · answered by ihuixaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you played him bad, or he's just not interested in you anymore. That's why you can't never be too too nice, you never know how people can turn their backs on you. Well Good Luck. Email him, text him, just be like "hey how's life amigo!?"
2006-12-27 18:29:38 · answer #10 · answered by Candy_T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋