2006-12-27 18:29:44 · 18 answers · asked by fantsy_face2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Normal fetish. Lots of people are into domination; once you begin to get comfortable with it, you can look into BDSM. ;)
2006-12-27 18:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rape is a control thing. Apparently you have a desire to be out of control. To have someone else in control to be dominated. Its a fairly normal fantasy. If it has never happened to you though you might not feel the same way if you are ever raped. It, I am told, is not an enjoyable experience.
2006-12-28 02:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you're differentiating between submissive fantasies and fantasies of being raped? I'm certain that being raped has nothing pleasurable in it while submissive fantasies are another story. Rape is violent and terrible, women can suffer considerable damage both physically and mentally. If you fantasize about bleeding and extreme violent acts performed on you then it is perhaps good to seek help. but most probably you are just using 'rape' as another name for fantasies about being dominated, in play, and honestly, as long as you're willing and you're absolutely certain no harm will come to you, there is nothing wrong with what goes on in your bedroom.
2006-12-28 02:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by papaya tree 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not all that unusual. Don't worry about it too much. It means you're extremely submissive and passive, and like the guy to be in control.
Some guys go for that. Personally I prefer a 50/50 situation.
2006-12-28 02:38:02 · answer #4 · answered by bata4689 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Angela, hon. Fantasies are fantasies. Whatever works for you. I used to have the same fantasy all the time & it doesn't mean that I wanted it to actually happen to me. I still fantasize about it but not as often as I used to; I've replaced it with new fantasizes.
2006-12-28 02:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by Judith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're actually not alone. It's a pretty common fantasy among us ladies to be swept off our feet by a sexy stranger out of nowhere. While actual rape is a horrific act, don't let a fantasy bother you.
2006-12-28 02:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by dolce 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Angela. It's common and normal. It's a far cry from the real thing. You are prob. fantasyzing about a gentle rapist who desires you so much he must have you. He overwhelms you, arouses you and "has his way" with you. It's only a fantasy. Don't worry about it.
2006-12-28 02:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is in fact a normal thing, it's not being raped by a stranger but the lust for man control . your alright just need a controler in bed.
2006-12-28 02:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by luvbug_16101 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It bothers ME that you fantasize about being raped!
If you were ever raped in your life i GUARANTEE you would not fantasize about it but you would have NIGHTMARES about it for the rest of your life. You need some major help!
2006-12-28 02:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
because you want to be f*cked without worrying about being a sl*t. If someone forces themselves on you, it's not like you gave them consent, even though its what you really wanted. You just want to experience raw physical pleasure without having taking responsibility for it. Thats why.
2006-12-28 02:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by three6ty 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋