Singles & Dating - 19 December 2006

i guess hes my boyfriend now...we just because exclusive a week ago but weve been dating for a month or so. and i dont know if i should get him a present. first it was just sleeping together and dates and such n i thought we were jus friends with benefits but now he says he wants to b exclusive. so i dont know if i should get him a lil smthing. what would u do? and what if he dosnt get me nething but i get him something? thanks in advance!

2006-12-19 15:53:45 · 23 answers · asked by sara ? 3

2006-12-19 15:53:13 · 3 answers · asked by Sean 3

2006-12-19 15:52:49 · 9 answers · asked by the next Lebron James 1

I was with my bf for 2 yrs, hes 23 and im 19, we were livin together for the last few months, away from parents. We were talkin bout our future together, where we gonna move to, kids the whole lot! then he goes home for a night to his parents place and comes back the next afternoon, really distant. We got into a fight and he ended it sayin he needs to be alone and that he 'cant' be with anyone right now. he said his parents arent happy about us,they dont like me cause im quiet and they thought it was rude! the thing is he never once let on to me that he was feeling like this and acted as usual around me. i love him so much and would do anything to have him back but he just says its how it has to be like someone is holding a gun to his head. im so messed up about it all i even took a heap of pills the other night, stupid i know but thats how depressed i am. i just dont understand how one day things can be fine or at least he can act like they are, then dump me!

2006-12-19 15:52:20 · 6 answers · asked by Onie 4

No matter what I get her, she ends up returning most of the gifts to the store, or never using them.

Everything she wants is either not her size or not availble.

2006-12-19 15:51:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

.......Ususally girls would come in and talk to me and stuff, but i know this girl feels something for me though, what would be a good way of getting that girl to start talking to me?

2006-12-19 15:51:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lately, I have had several experiences where unmarried guys have touched me or talked to be a bit too affectionately for comfort. I wouldn't be sensitive about this if I knew the guys were married or had girlfriends. One of these guys works where I am at and is a couple of decades older than me!!

Have other men had such experiences? How do you deal with it without hurting the guy's feelings (especially if he is not gay!!).

Also, how many heterosexual men are finding more success in attracting men than women?!

2006-12-19 15:49:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

just curious as to if there were any people from South Texas---or more precisely, the Rio Grande Valley on here? anybody a Valley girl or a Valley guy?

2006-12-19 15:48:59 · 2 answers · asked by K.D. 3

so there is this girl and we dated almost three years ago but then i was retarded and cheated on her so i couldn't live with what i did and couldn't tell her so i broke up with her. now we are talking again and will probably end up getting back together, should i tell her or should i leave it alone. My only concern is whats right, if it ruins my chances so be it, but i dont want to hurt her just to clear my concience. also i dont want to not tell her so as to influence her decision on us? plz help any advise would be appreciated

2006-12-19 15:47:35 · 7 answers · asked by skytzo ! 3

...so, there's this guy in my class. I don't really like him that much, but sorta. I'm pretty sure he likes me, 'cause he's always looking at me and stuff. Today, we had this math quiz thing and one of the problems was to get 8/15 into a percent. I knew how to do it, but he didn't. While I was passing him, I whispered how to do it. Now, he's acting weird around me and looking at me different. I don't know what to do. I know that I do a bad thing and I shouldn't have, but I just couldn't resist. Does this mean that I like him a lot, or not? Is it that he doesn't like me anymore? I saw him whispering with his friend and then look at me...does this have to do with anything? I don't know what to do! Should I keep acting normal or tell him something? Thank you for your help!

Peace out!! Rock on!! Happy Holidays!!!

2006-12-19 15:47:15 · 12 answers · asked by chaos causer 5

what do u do? use details

2006-12-19 15:45:15 · 13 answers · asked by suzie. 5

My boyfriend bought me my christmas gift, and it's something I don't want. While we were at the store i was trying to hint at him but he didn't seem to catch it. I don't want him to waste his money on something for me that i won't enjoy and i hate acting excited because its not who i am and i hate being dishonest with him. Normally i would jsut tell him that i dont want it but he's been discouraged about getting me a gift because he didnt know what to get and the last thing he almost bought me i owned already and he didnt know. plus he was upset that he went over budget with all his gifts so i dont want him to think he wasted money.. i told him to not buy it and get me something after the holiday and he didnt catch that either.

now it's at my home...
should i just take it and pretend i love it or tell him? and if so how.. i dont want to upset him i think that his heart and mind was in the right place it was just not the right gift.
Thanks.

2006-12-19 15:44:55 · 30 answers · asked by attila 6

She expressed that we should not spend TOO TOO much money on eachother since we have a lot of other family to get gifts for...but I'm looking for something she will be amazed at. Something unique, and something interesting.

26 Year old girl.

2006-12-19 15:44:36 · 9 answers · asked by RelentlessArrogance 2

from the UK to live. We hooked up coz I didn't think it would go anywhere & I've just come out of a long r'ship. (By the way, I learnt I can't do casual...) Things were really great (not boyfriend/girlfriend) but we agreed to be monogamous. 4 wks ago, he told me (b4 he knew me) he'd made plans for a UK ex-fling to come out for Xmas & that he hadn't known me long enough to cancel. He said he couldn't promise he wouldn't sleep with her & he'd like to see me in the new year after she left, however doesn't want to see me in the interim. He said didn't want to hurt anyone. I've swung from telling him 2 leave/not call me to txting him asking if he wants to catch up (I haven't seen him for 4 weeks). He's feeling a lot of pressure & doesn't like it. I know I managed it poorly, but have I ruined any chance now? We had plans to go to a concert in Feb - but won't contact him again. If he does phone in Jan, should I even bother with him? I really like him & want him to chase me? How do I do this?

2006-12-19 15:43:55 · 5 answers · asked by basement_chix 1

If a good friend of mine lied to me, but later came out and confessed , should I still be cautious about my friend? He isn't the person TO lie, and I know it wasnt meant to hurt me, but the fact that he did it made me upset. Trust him again or drop him?

2006-12-19 15:42:05 · 10 answers · asked by LiL JoJo Sneakers 1

does not the only thing matter is that your toes curl and you reach an orgasm by the time the session ends??

I have heard that 87% of women only reach orgasm by clitorus stimulation....is this true

2006-12-19 15:41:59 · 15 answers · asked by thatsmystory&imstickin2it 1

Hey girls, what do you think about a guy who is shorter than you? Traditionally girls are liable to pick a guy who is about 3-6 inches taller. What if he is a little shorter than you? Does this change how you think about him at all? Please give some feedback.

2006-12-19 15:41:55 · 19 answers · asked by BadAssBilly 2

he still lives in his state and i moved far away ...going to college. he has a child from another woman. he wants marriage, kids,etc. i dont. he says he loves me. My feelings are soo confusing right now. i dont want to move i dont want a husband i dont want any bio kids. he knows all this but doesn't listen. He keeps thinking im moving there, but he told me that if i dont move, the relationship is over. I think that i should be worth fighting for..dont you? ive tryed..but i think we are both heading in different directions. what do you think? HELP!?!?!?! i love him i do..but everytime we try to get together something goes wrong..but i think fate is trying to get us together yet something goes wrong. Plus i found half naked pics of his ex in his email..and i got him lying to me about them. god!! I need outside help with this one!! Thanks everyone!!

2006-12-19 15:41:20 · 4 answers · asked by YEP THAT'S ME.. 3

Whats the best thing you can do with a guy or girl. That will get you in the mood? i.e. Touching, Kissing, Feeling, Rubbing, Ect..

2006-12-19 15:40:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

a guy who really loves me asked me out a few weeks ago and i sed yes (im 15), but to be perfectly honest, we havent "gone anywhere." hes 2 years older than me and im not allowed in a car with him cause he just got his license.

this stinks cause i never have a ride anywhere and this leads to why we havent gone anywhere. recently, ive found that hes getting agrivated that we havent been out and all we do is hang out at sschool between classes, after, and online and on the phone. he's realy mad now.

i think he actually mite break it off with me because of this and i say im really sorry but im ALWAYS busy and since my parents also make me go places like SAT preps or parties with family friends and stuff, i cant hang out with him.

if we break up, is it ALL my fault??!!! we really like eachother...but his patience is getting lower no matter how sorry i am!!


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2006-12-19 15:40:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend is highly religious (Christian) and I'm not. We agree on most things, but there are some things that we just can't seem to agree on! Can our relationtip work, and if yes then how?

2006-12-19 15:38:38 · 13 answers · asked by eug 1

How many men think this is hot looking ? My man loves
legs and butt in pantyhose and it is better than stockings which
leaves the butt uncovered in nylon. The crotch can always be cut
out when needed for activity.

2006-12-19 15:38:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have feelings for this guy that i know for a year. he refuses to be my boyfriend cause he likes the single life. i do meet him on and off like once in a two weeks. most of the time when i see him i get this stupid nervous feeling that sometimes i have to go throw up in the bathroom. i dont know what's about him that makes me feel this way? what do you think?

2006-12-19 15:38:09 · 16 answers · asked by ani 1

hey...im on the phone w/ my gf and i have NO idea on what to talk about!! i need an answer quick!!

2006-12-19 15:37:49 · 14 answers · asked by routonboy 1

I'm a shy girl, but there's this guy i really really like. He likes me too for sure. I really want him to kiss me first (on the lips). I don't want to say anything to him, I just wanna show that he should kiss me. thanks! ; )

2006-12-19 15:37:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok I've been friends with this guy sonce like 5th grade but now I'm starting to have feelings for him and I don't know how to ask him out and I only see him in school

2006-12-19 15:36:23 · 4 answers · asked by Redhead*_* 2

im a gal. 19. i stay wit one of my aunt's place for convenience of college. one of her couzins also stays wit us, a guy..24. he has a grlfriend,, thier relationship was kind of serious but shz not the ryt type for him, i felt. smetym back, i fell in love wit him,, no matter hw hard i tried, i just cudnt forget hm, besides we stay at one place, i never told hm my feelings but i feel like hz started to like me mor n mor. and they have problems btwn them now??? i know hs started to like me coz i made him to... u know, flirty talks and stuf like tht, but i also dnt want to spoil another gals life,,, wat should i do?.

2006-12-19 15:36:22 · 6 answers · asked by ms pepper 1

tell me your funniest blind date story.

2006-12-19 15:33:51 · 5 answers · asked by storminnormin 2

Nowadays, fewer women cook and most are quite agressive in their pursuit of what they want. A lot of women are also loud, obese, and trashy (e.g., Britney/Paris/Lindsay/the new Miss America).

Are more men attracted to other men than in the past because of this? Are men more sincere and more sensitive and more into "love" versus materialism/confidence etc... that women fancy?

2006-12-19 15:33:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

well, i hope this question wont make u feel sad or mad or anything negative.

i asked this question is because i need help from you guys.

recently, i found out that i dont prefer my own race when choosing BF/husband.

i know this may sounds a little racist. i am not racist, and i dont want to become one.

i think my preference of not wanting my own race to become my bf/husband is because some guys of my own race have cheated on me before. as a result, i found them totally non-trustable. i know that every race has both good and bad ppl. and i do know that there are a lot of good ppl in my race.

however, every single time when i see them tried to approach me. i just feel threatened.

i do have friends from my own race and i love them. they are cool and good and i am so proud of them.

1) so what do you think?
2) should i force myself to try to "prefer" them too?
3) or i am fine with this?
4) do anyone of u feel the same as me too?

2006-12-19 15:33:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous