a guy who really loves me asked me out a few weeks ago and i sed yes (im 15), but to be perfectly honest, we havent "gone anywhere." hes 2 years older than me and im not allowed in a car with him cause he just got his license.
this stinks cause i never have a ride anywhere and this leads to why we havent gone anywhere. recently, ive found that hes getting agrivated that we havent been out and all we do is hang out at sschool between classes, after, and online and on the phone. he's realy mad now.
i think he actually mite break it off with me because of this and i say im really sorry but im ALWAYS busy and since my parents also make me go places like SAT preps or parties with family friends and stuff, i cant hang out with him.
if we break up, is it ALL my fault??!!! we really like eachother...but his patience is getting lower no matter how sorry i am!!
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2006-12-19 15:40:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's not your fault your parents don't let you ride with him or give you rides somewhere. It's not your fault that they make you do other things. It's not your fault that he gets mad over things you can't help. If he gets mad and breaks up with you just because you can't go anywhere with him yet, then he probably just wanted to get in your pants and wasn't worth it anyway.
2006-12-19 15:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not your fault. Sounds like your priorities are in order, actually. SATs are super important, and so is family get togethers this time of year.
If your guy is losing it over this, imagine what he'd do if something really serious happened. You don't even have anything to apologize for, like blowing him off for another guy or something like that. Any spare moment you've got, you give him, and yet you're following your parents rules. You're the one playing it smart.
It's your boyfriend who can't handle it.
Perhaps your parents might include him in some family events. That way, he might feel better. After all, it is the holidays. But be warned, relatives looooove to embarrass you!
On a more serious note, just a few days ago, a 16 year old in our town died from being thrown from a car, and so did its 21 year old driver. So you really are making a smart move until he has a bit more experience behind the wheel.
2006-12-19 23:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by mithril 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, no its not you fault. If anyone says it is, they are a complete idiot. If he can't wait for you then thats not really a relationship. Also, if "gone" anywhere means what i think it means. Thats a horrible relationship and once he gets what he wants, he'll move on. It's nopt your fault, but what i would do is talk to him next time you got the chance and tell him that you are worried...don't ask your friends for advice. its always wrong, believe me i've learned the hard way. Talk to him about it, its easiest and a lot less complicated. i'm 15 as well and you should be happy enough to see him every day. My gf recently moved to Miss. and i live in Tenn. We can only see eachother every other weekend and if we're to busy then we have to wait ANOTHER 2 weeks to see eachother. But whenever we do, we never get in an arguement and always make the best out of it, no matter what is going on at the time. We try our hardest to make eachother happy, and that is all that should really matter.
Need any help..just leave me a message or sumthin...^_^
Evan Routon
2006-12-19 23:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by routonboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try asking him to come over to your house to watch a movie or something that way your parents will be okay with it and you and him will get to spend some time with each other.............if you try this and he is still losing patience he's not really worth worrying over bcuz a good bf needs to have understanding and patience in knowing that one day ya'll will be able to go places...if ya'll do break up it is not your fault being a teenager is very very hard you don't have much time for anything and as hard as it is to swallow you might not have time for a bf.........don't worry you are only fifteen and you will have more relationships with other guys maybe with one who will understand your predicament...
2006-12-19 23:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by jamie_lynn_1109 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well is obvious if u dont hang out much he will break up but maybe you should talk to him . find a day he & u r not busy . then instead of going somewhere invite him ova. introduce him to ur family & show them he is responsible & just talk to him bout saivin ya'lls relationship.. : )
2006-12-19 23:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too good for that jerk! He's also too young to really love you (sorry) so don't worry about it. I would break up with him first and find someone new and nicer.
2006-12-19 23:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by jamie kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok yea hes mad.. but if he really likes you he won't break up with you.... so if he breaks it off he doesn't really like you... and if you want this to work out you should find so time to actually go out with him.... make time...
2006-12-19 23:46:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously if just cause he dose`nt get to go out with you hes gonna break up with you that probably means he dose`nt like you that much
2006-12-19 23:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL YOU ONLY 15 SO I CAN UNDERSTAND HOW
YOUR PARENTS FEEL.BUT AS FOR HIM IF HE REALLY LIKE
YOU THEN IT WOULD NOT MATTER IT . SOUND LIKE HE
WANT IT HIS WAY, SO IF THAT THE CASE, THEN LET HIM
GO.. AND IT NOT YOUR FAULT.IT SOUND LIKE HE DOES
NOT HAVE THE FEELING THAT YOU DO SO HIS LOST NOT
YOURS.
2006-12-19 23:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to your house so your parents can get to know him.
2006-12-19 23:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋