why do I get this nervous feeling when i see him?

Question

i have feelings for this guy that i know for a year. he refuses to be my boyfriend cause he likes the single life. i do meet him on and off like once in a two weeks. most of the time when i see him i get this stupid nervous feeling that sometimes i have to go throw up in the bathroom. i dont know what's about him that makes me feel this way? what do you think?

Answer 1

You like him...a lot. It's normal, if he likes you back he will feel like that to. Looks like you might be in for love. :)

Answer 2

Everybody gets nervous. Rather than trying to combat it, realize that it happens and go from there. Johnny Carson was asked about whether he felt nervous when he went on stage. He said he always felt nervous. Confidence might help to cure all the other things that make one feel nervous.

Answer 3

It's love...! I'm so sorry to hear that he refuses your love...You feel like that because he knows that you love him and you want him to love you back.

You are trapped in this vicious cycle and it is where your heartache come from.

If you are confident enough to win his love or forget about him but still stay friends with him...you can keep seeing him. But if you are not confident...you shouldn't see him anymore.

If you can win his heart, you will have less chance of getting hurt...but if you are going to be just friends with him or leaving him, that chance will increase. But time will fix everything...it will take time, but you'll be fine in the end.

Good luck and take care of yourself! I hope everything will get better for you.

Answer 4

Its possible that you still have feelings for him so if you do you are just botherd by the fact that he put you down or its also possible that you feel uncomfortable around him because every time you come around him he feels kinda freaked out because he thinks u still like him. But trust me hun dont worry hes just a guy there will be many more to come.

Answer 5

It's hard to explain, I'm in the same boat myself, except I don't throw up. But I get really nervous around him, and sometimes I do or say really lame things because I'm scared and I'm trying to hide it. I know that it's mutual, because a mutual friend said he told them so, but sometimes he does funny stuff too, like he blushes when we talk, and sometimes he says really dumb stuff and I guess it's just the way we are, we go really haywire around people we have the hots for. Don't question it, just enjoy it while you can.

Answer 6

Because you have a burning desire to say some thing but you have fear it's only a matter of time before you end up with soar throat so but better say what you want to,have no fear just do it remember he is human just like you.picture him doing some thing silly and this should should give you more courage.

Answer 7

Listen. I told you I do like you, but I like the single life too. Why don't we just have fun for a little while longer and see where life takes us?

Answer 8

I think you like him .....a lot. You never know, he might get sick of the single life one day and want to settle down.

Answer 9

Pay more attention to him see how it goes or maybe it isn't the right place this may be the nervous feeling youget unless this is the one xross yo finers.....

Answer 10

you be having anxiety. or because you get excited to see him it makes you nerves.if he doesn't want to see you more often he might be taking advantage of you feelings for him.thank about what you feel and what you are thanking about when you see him.Good luck and god bless.