Lately, I have had several experiences where unmarried guys have touched me or talked to be a bit too affectionately for comfort. I wouldn't be sensitive about this if I knew the guys were married or had girlfriends. One of these guys works where I am at and is a couple of decades older than me!!
Have other men had such experiences? How do you deal with it without hurting the guy's feelings (especially if he is not gay!!).
Also, how many heterosexual men are finding more success in attracting men than women?!
2006-12-19 15:49:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-19 15:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by Tori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know what your laws are there, but here in Australia it would be classed as sexual harassment in the workplace which is not tolerated (sexual harassment being unwanted/invited/inappropriate touching and/or comments, bearing this in mind as the others have suggested just let them know that you are not interested in a quite and polite way as you can't risk causing a scene at work especially if it was entirely innocent.
2006-12-20 00:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by polynesiachick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you are a man...I am a woman and lately, I have been getting hit on big time by women...I dont' know what the deal is or why women feel the need to approach me...I have even been invited to join a woman and her boyfriend for a menage trois...WTF.
2006-12-19 23:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a heterosexual myself I wouldn't call that success! It is true that they are getting more pushy. Even if he had a wife or girlfriend his advances wouldn't be acceptable to me, but that is just me.
2006-12-19 23:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do you know for sure they're gay? They might just be more touch-oriented than you are... if they are gay, maybe they're getting some vibes...
2006-12-19 23:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hug him really tight and whisper that you love hin in his ear. He probably won't do it again...
2006-12-19 23:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by sammie.leigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are metro.. very carefull about ur looks? or no/. otherwise... just tell thim sorry ur not interestied i think theyll undersntand
2006-12-19 23:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with them and take it as a compliment that you are attractive to everyone...male and female...
2006-12-19 23:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋