he still lives in his state and i moved far away ...going to college. he has a child from another woman. he wants marriage, kids,etc. i dont. he says he loves me. My feelings are soo confusing right now. i dont want to move i dont want a husband i dont want any bio kids. he knows all this but doesn't listen. He keeps thinking im moving there, but he told me that if i dont move, the relationship is over. I think that i should be worth fighting for..dont you? ive tryed..but i think we are both heading in different directions. what do you think? HELP!?!?!?! i love him i do..but everytime we try to get together something goes wrong..but i think fate is trying to get us together yet something goes wrong. Plus i found half naked pics of his ex in his email..and i got him lying to me about them. god!! I need outside help with this one!! Thanks everyone!!
2006-12-19 15:41:20 · 4 answers · asked by YEP THAT'S ME.. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont do it... you may be in love with the guy you thought you knew from 5 yrs ago. But he probably isnt the same guy any more. When you are truely in love with someone, they will be willing to compromise at least. It dont sound like he is willing.
It sounds like its his way or no way. What kind of love is that?
2006-12-19 15:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by mcdermond3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right you are going the opposite directions..i don't think that you are meant to be because you want completly different things in life and like you said, evertyme you get together something goes wrong... amybe that a sign saying that you are not meant for each other. I think that you should move on, YES I KNOW THIS WILL BE SOOOO SOOO SOOO HARD, but i don't feel that it will work out.....
2006-12-19 15:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont belive your own eyes on what you found no one here can make up your mind on him when he had a child by another woman as well what you saw there is your answer leave this person alone you will only get hurt in the end . in my opion?
2006-12-19 15:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT YOU JUST NEED TO BE HONEST WITH HIM AND
LET HIM KNOW WHAT THE DEAL IS, BOTH OF YOU ARE
LOOKING FOR DIFFENT THINGS, HE WANT CHILDREN AND
YOU DONT, SO DONT JUST DO THIS TO PLEASE HIM
OR YOU WILL NOT BE HAPPY DONT SETTLE. SO IF HE
CANT UNDERSTAND THAT, THEN IT TIME TO MOVE ON.
AND IF HE LYING THEN YOU NEED TO LEAVE IT ALONG.
2006-12-19 15:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋