so there is this girl and we dated almost three years ago but then i was retarded and cheated on her so i couldn't live with what i did and couldn't tell her so i broke up with her. now we are talking again and will probably end up getting back together, should i tell her or should i leave it alone. My only concern is whats right, if it ruins my chances so be it, but i dont want to hurt her just to clear my concience. also i dont want to not tell her so as to influence her decision on us? plz help any advise would be appreciated
2006-12-19 15:47:35 · 7 answers · asked by skytzo ! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you truly love her and swear that you'll never gonna break her heart again then it's better to have a relationship with her again.
2006-12-19 15:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First smack yourself across the face and swear that you will never cheat on a girl again. This kinda stuff could kill a girl it could really hurt her. If i were you id leave all that behind. If you tell her your relationship wouldnt really go any further unless this girl is very understanding and trustworthy to forgive you you should tell her the truth. For now you should reliy on your coscience no one can really tell you what you should do its your choice do what you think is the best.
2006-12-19 15:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by kassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the reason u broke up with her before, and say that, if you two started dating again then you wouldn't be able to live with that on your shoulders and you understand if she doesn't want to be together after hearing your news. At least you're being honest and responsible for your mistake.
2006-12-19 15:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by LMDDMLM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think shes the one then tell her because your relationship should be based on honesty. You'll know if shes really interested in you if shes willing to talk things out and give it another try. If she doesn't want anything to do with you then move on and don't cheat next time!
2006-12-19 15:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by jamie kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. It will probably come out one day, anyway. Better now than later when you think your relationship is going great. It is always going to be hanging over you if you don't!
2006-12-19 15:51:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no--never tell her. You are back together now, so start with a clean slate
2006-12-19 15:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by Pythonette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES DUDE, IT'S NATURAL. SHE WASN'T YOUR WIFE. WOMEN CHEAT TOO. DON'T BE SO HARD ON YOURSELF. KEEP IT TO YOURSELF, IT'S NOT SUCH A BIG DEAL. TELL YOUR CONSCIOUS THAT YOULL BE FAITHFUL THIS TIME AROUND.
CHILL DUDE, LIFES SHORT
2006-12-19 15:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by godzillasagoodman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋