i guess hes my boyfriend now...we just because exclusive a week ago but weve been dating for a month or so. and i dont know if i should get him a present. first it was just sleeping together and dates and such n i thought we were jus friends with benefits but now he says he wants to b exclusive. so i dont know if i should get him a lil smthing. what would u do? and what if he dosnt get me nething but i get him something? thanks in advance!
2006-12-19 15:53:45 · 23 answers · asked by sara ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wasnt going to give him nething but then some of my friends told me i should
2006-12-19 16:00:30 · update #1
Ask him if he wants to exchange gifts for Christmas. He says yes - you buy a gift. He says no- you buy yourself a gift. On second thought...either way, buy yourself gift too.
2006-12-19 15:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Adrienne C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person who gives a present is not supposed to be expecting a gift back. Especially if the gift was from the heart. So to tell you the truth, it doesn't sound like your even ready for him to be your boyfriend, because if you were, you would want to get him something inexpensive with no expectations of anything back.
2006-12-19 16:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. YES. YES. YES. YES!!! you are going out and he deserves something.
The first step to a relationship is to tell him you care. What better thing to do, than give him a present? If he doesn't get you anything, who cares? It's not about the presents.
If he doesn't and he apologizes and opens your present and is just like, "Oh, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you!!!" then it won't matter if he did or did not.
If he's just like, "thanks." then maybe it's time for you to find another boyfriend. Good luck!!
If you need ideas on presents here are some:
~A frame with a picture of you two in it
~Chocolate
Peace out!! Rock on!! Happy Holidays!!! Good luck!!
2006-12-19 16:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by chaos causer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think you should get him something small. Maybe like a x-mas card, sees candy, a DVD, dont go all out. You shouldnt expect anything but if you think it might be weird giving him something and not getting anything back just give little hints. Like oh i already got your x-mas present its nothing big just a little something. That way he knows you got him something and he'll probably get you something too. But it should just come from your heart if you feel like getting him something go for it. Remember its the thought that counts.
2006-12-19 16:04:20 · answer #4 · answered by LD82 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get him something thoughtful but small so when he sees it he remembers you. Dont go out and spend 500 on some Jordans or anything like that cause you are gonna get used if you do.
2006-12-19 15:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by DJ C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would buy him a little something nothing expensive maybe something in the clothes area. If he doesn't end up getting you anything you can just tell him that you just wanted to get him a little something for the holidays and don't expect anything in return.
2006-12-19 15:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... if you have been with him for a month... and already slept with him... and if you have any feelings for him....it would be a good idea to get him a lil something..... and if he doesn't get you anything you might get a hint on where his feelings towards you might be.... that can let you know if he wants to take the relationship to the next step or he just wants fun
2006-12-19 15:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Christmas is about giving and not receiving. If you feel like you want to give him a LITTLE present, then do so. It shouldn't matter whether you get something or not.
2006-12-19 15:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by JB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah get him a present :). If he doesn't get you anything then, Oh well. Just be grateful to see a smile on his face when you give him that present --that smile will all be worth it even if you don't get something in return :)
2006-12-19 15:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should get him something small and inexpensive.. if I were you, I would just make him something, like a CD or cookies.
2006-12-19 15:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by maggielynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋