Singles & Dating - 17 December 2006

I have an issue with my boyfriend that he gets sex when he wants it, but when I start trying to have sex with him...he changes what we are doing. He will do anything to stop it.This has been a problem since the begining of our relationship,but I dont know how to handle it.I did of course speak to him about how that made me feel.I told him that I thought our relationship should be equal and that I have sexual needs that he is treating like they dont matter.He usually responds to me,"sex isnt the most important thing in our relationship,right?"Then what do i say?When we do have sex, the sex is great!I hate to say it, but every time he has ever tried,I have never been able to say no.I just love him,and long for that connection we do have during sex.I dont want to be one of those sad girls that will just take what she can get when she can get it,but sadly I really have been.I want to feel like a sexy woman that can turn her man on!This has broken my selfesteem a lot! What should I do?

2006-12-17 20:43:21 · 8 answers · asked by LadyAlysse 1

am quet as others suggest about me, and kind sensetive hard worker honest, and have got a baby face. and short as 1.55 cm

2006-12-17 20:42:34 · 2 answers · asked by bechegna 1

I have been dating this guy for 3 months now and I really like him and he really likes me. i just want to make sure I know him good enough to start a relationship with him.

2006-12-17 20:41:35 · 9 answers · asked by Shajazz 1

I havent told my b/f i just figure since he's like 90 he'll die soon enough but its getting out of hand what should i do

2006-12-17 20:40:44 · 14 answers · asked by Lisa 1

i am ironical,,carin..and sincere wen it cums to friendship

2006-12-17 20:39:58 · 6 answers · asked by ashok r 1

there's this really cute boy i'm going with and some people say he's cute and other people say he's just plain Ugly should i listen to other people to break up to other people to stay with him he's really nice he's getting me somtheng for christmas we try to call each other once a day?

2006-12-17 20:35:25 · 37 answers · asked by Princess L 1

Are there others out there like me who have almost no dating experince almost no relationship experience. I my self have been in one relationship and it ended with me being cheated on on newyears. I turn 23 on the 21st.......

2006-12-17 20:35:19 · 9 answers · asked by Matthew K 2

just wanna kno this..

2006-12-17 20:34:47 · 22 answers · asked by ashok r 1

Many times ive heard it said that girls like to get head rather than regular sex.

2006-12-17 20:32:56 · 8 answers · asked by Lorenzo A 2

24, Shes been with a bf for 4 yrs but he wont marry her?
She has a 3yr old w.him.
He stays with her sometimes in her parents house and pays money for the daughter but he has no plans to marry her.
She is open to flirting and seems interested but
Im thinking its a bad idea?

2006-12-17 20:30:47 · 19 answers · asked by Peter X. Long 2

ok i work at dillards right and me and the other girl we are the only two that are black and those that are mexican think they are white but me and the other girl belive so much that the manager does not like us she acuse us of so much like stilling hours and say we missed so many days and then look at us like we stole somthing (like we took a sandwitch from her fat ***) and we cant go to the bigger boss because they are friends so should i quit the next time she says something or curse her out cause i want to do both ?

2006-12-17 20:30:20 · 8 answers · asked by =Ya Girl Star= 1

Need help ASAP

2006-12-17 20:27:06 · 11 answers · asked by deepak d 1

Hay!!!!!! Put something that come from ur heart......

2006-12-17 20:26:04 · 10 answers · asked by Rohit India 2007 1

2006-12-17 20:26:03 · 9 answers · asked by khizar_k13 2

we have being staying together for seven month, his kind but not as caring as i expected. he even beat me up when i did nothing to him he letter ask me to leave his house when i refuse, he left the house for me that he will only come back when i leave, i finally left and he letter call and text me that he want me back, i was jobless then now i work, i even treaten him that it was over and he almost died of thinking which made me feel guilty and call him for reconceliation, we are back again but am afraid if his present actions are not just make believe for he sound so caring and wanting me to marry him. wont he change after we are married? he dont like assisting financially, that does not bother me much but am not sure if he is my kind of man and i truly love him , should i accept his proporsals.

2006-12-17 20:24:41 · 12 answers · asked by BEKES M 1

I am in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend does not take calls or reply my emails on weekends. Weekend is the only time we can talk for a long time cauz we are both working during the week, but he decides to not answer his mobile or switches it off. He always come up with an excuse for not answeringand promising to answer it but he never does.What is his problem?

2006-12-17 20:22:48 · 11 answers · asked by Nayi 1

i really like this girl and she seems bored with my topics i tried to tell her that shell start a topic. but she wants me to start one. well get to a conversation for a while then shell be quiet for a time. what should i do? please someone help. thank you.

2006-12-17 20:22:30 · 4 answers · asked by Karl G. 3

When you have a lack of any quality birth control around, what methods have you cleverly engineered to help prevent pregnancy? Anyone who says abstinence deserves to be shot.

2006-12-17 20:17:58 · 10 answers · asked by Leo 2

I used to care a lot about what people thought about me. I couldn't care less now a days. I have a great personality, a great sense of humor, good looks, high intelligence, common sense, charisma, and am extremely talented. I say all of that to say this: I do not have a problem with my self image.

I just don't give a rip if I go on dates. I haven't seen someone I've been attracted to in years. When I do go out with women, it's more of a friendly nature. I don't really want to kiss, hug, or cuddle. I'm there for coffee and ready to go home alone. Anyone else feel like this or am I the only one?

2006-12-17 20:17:45 · 14 answers · asked by Wisdom Guru 3

needed sometime bcoz we hardly knew each other.then finally he told me2stop liking him.but sometimes i feel like he likes me2but he'sjuz not saying it.then he also said that sometimes guys entertain girls even if they dnt like the girl.its like he's making it clear he doesn't like me.but i still want him so badly.i dunno wat2do.how do i make him fall in love wit me?how do i make him see the good in me?i know he's not involved wit any girls.i know i stand a chance,but how do i win him.i wont take no for an answer.i really want this guy so badly.dnt ask me y.i juz want him.i'm really in love with him.somebody tell me how do i make him fall in love with me......without seeming desperate or cheap..

2006-12-17 20:16:42 · 10 answers · asked by mini 1

wife taller than ( very much taller, not just 1cm or 2cm)husband?

2006-12-17 20:14:05 · 5 answers · asked by ilovethomas 2

2006-12-17 20:12:30 · 8 answers · asked by Soulla 2

I have Insomnia, i get maybe 1 hour sleep a night and my girl friend hates it for some wierd reason, she tells me to get rid of it, because she doesnt like going to sleep but then im not asleep next to her, how do i get rid of insomnia, or at least get my girl friend to realize i cant and its not my fault?

she is really angry about this : /

2006-12-17 20:11:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

1 : me watching porn ,

2 : the loser who gathered others to watch me watching porn ,

3 : the manipulating mastermind whom started all these mess
thus having to laugh at us all secretly without getting caught ?

2006-12-17 20:08:59 · 10 answers · asked by always true & always nice : ) 2

ok like this guy i likes told my friend he likes me he thinks im funny and sweet and i know he knows i like him alot besides the fack that i hint it each tme i talk to him we talk all the time on the phone and make each other laugh but he says he doesent want another girlfriend because of the last one but we play around like we gonna get together and never deside on a day but i gusse what im trying to say is should i wait for him to decide to wanna go out or should i ask him out ?

2006-12-17 20:08:45 · 2 answers · asked by =Ya Girl Star= 1

Been with her for 4 years. Last month was the 4th anniversary. Last Friday she cheated on me with another man from her office. She's working while i'm getting my degree. We're of the same age. Then she went out with me on Sat like nothing happened. Sunday i confronted her cos' i got the gut feeling. She confessed and says she's confused. She says she wants to be single and not tied-down (but she cheated on me!). And she's afraid she cannot commit to the r/s (after 4 years!).

But i love her too much. I told her to choose she didn't want to. I asked her if she could break it off with the other guy but she kept mum. She said she wants some time alone.

What should i do? My life has revolved around her all these years. She is perfect in my eyes.

2006-12-17 20:07:51 · 19 answers · asked by looooooooooooooooooooooooserrrrr 1

I'm a virgin and i've had period since i was 9 so sexual health isn't new to me but I feel i'm being left behind, i'm the only one left in my group who hasn't had a real relationship with a guy.
I'm a bigger girl and i do have a very strong and dominating personality, any tips to help me with my love life?

2006-12-17 20:07:31 · 9 answers · asked by Emily D 1

okay so ive been hngiout with this guy that i really like and he met my mom and all that and she thinks hes nice and likes him ..and me well im crazy about him ..hes so sweet..but ne way the only problem is my mom thinks hes UGLY AS **** (which hes not honestly lots og girls like him) so anytime we tlak about him shes liek yea hes nice but hes soOoO ugly omg i would never let you date him and she just goes on and on about how hes not good 4 me and i need a guy with goals and whos going places ..and sense im not 18 she said she can tell me who i can and cant date and if not that she has the right to not let me do jackshit! ...which she would do cause shes evil like that ..my moms really cool though she lets me do alot but i don tknow what to do b/c if she doesnt approve shes not gunan let him come over all the time and shes gunna not let me do anything but i really REALLY liek the kid and i wanna give it a shot more then anything but i have no idea what to do b/c of the way my mom is

2006-12-17 20:04:51 · 5 answers · asked by Natalie 1

i have applied for BBA and BIT. in both disciplines i have got admission but now i can not decide which one to join.

2006-12-17 19:59:13 · 1 answers · asked by banyamin12 1

2006-12-17 19:58:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous