Singles & Dating - 17 December 2006

I know that school society is difficult. It is full of clicks and the poplular kids get all the good stuff and you are just trying to be liked. When you graduate life is nothing like school. Usually the nerds make all of the money. The jocks end up losers. Beauty fades in all of us. In other words life after school is much much better. Hang in there.

2006-12-17 18:24:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you know why I ignore you this few days. It's because a girl cheated me twice. She told me that she liked me and she said she don't like racist like malay. My friend told me that she and the racist holding hand and yesterday they almost hug. If she had told me earlier, I would not go and busy body. I like her too but is it too late?
I think I am not handsome. I was thinking for this few days that i don't want to talk to her anymore. You know why I liked her? It's because she support me more than my friends do. That's why I'm very angry and sad. Then you ask me to be happy. How am I supposes to be happy like that?
If she is my best friend, she must continue to love that boy, if she didn't I would stop to talk to her. Please excuse my english.(have tried to change some mistakes)
This is secret and don't tell anybody.
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the letter was from J to me...Is the 'she' in the letter, me?

2006-12-17 18:22:10 · 11 answers · asked by LotsaQs 1

when girls start to love and when boys do?

2006-12-17 18:18:22 · 8 answers · asked by Naima M 1

2006-12-17 18:16:49 · 10 answers · asked by ridemyharley2000_08 2

Me & my girlfriend had been going together for 2 years, Two weeks ago, I caught her red-handed making out with another guy,
I knew she had been intimate with him, because when I caught
her in the act, at her apatrment, she was wearing the see-thru
lingere I bought for her last Xmas. So I'm wondering if I should take her back, she's been calling me, wanting to aplogize, but I've been giving her the silent treatment.

2006-12-17 18:15:57 · 27 answers · asked by Lorenzo A 2

2006-12-17 18:14:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok my birthday is March 17(st.patricks' day) and that is when we have Spring Break. Well my boyfriend(who i have dated for a year and a half) is taking me to Cancun, Mexico. We are both still virgins and I really want to lose my virginity to him, he says he wants to lose his to me too. The problem is that I dont know if I should do it on my birthday, or on his birthday. His birthday is a few months after mine. He told me that he was gonna give me something really special for my birthday(other then the trip) and I really think he wants to have sex with me on my birthday, I could be wrong but I really think so. But I want him to take my virginity on his birthday since he is taking me to Cancun. WHAT SHOULD I DO? I really ♥ this guy but i dont know what to do. Should we have sex on my birthday or on his birthday? (if on my birthday..then what should I get him for his birthday..even though I am giving him something more than sex)

2006-12-17 18:10:05 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Miss Breanna♥ 2

Me and my ex broke up after about 12 months ...wed drifted apart because he kept blowing me off and not bothering to call...then wen he dumpd me it didnt come as a suprise..(although i had been denying it) it is his birthday and xmas coming up...is he regretting it...he has been bad mouthing me at work and im fed up...he also has been braggin that he left me for another girl...a friend of mine told me that she dumpd him 3 days later...he added me on bebo and now has blocked me after i left him a commnt wishin him a merry xmas...i thought he had grown up an was ready to be friends but hes just stabd me in da back...we had planned to go away for a week together before his b-day . I have started working at his work but ive only seen him once for like 3 secs in the 5 days i have been working there so fa...i only got a job there at a last resort but he dusnt kno that..should i ignore him or get payback ? y is he bein vindictive after all HE was the 1 that dumpd me..im sick of da lame games

2006-12-17 18:08:54 · 13 answers · asked by strawberyskitl 1

Okay, I've been seeing this girl--no, woman, and we're a pretty unlikely match really. But we mesh very well in a number of real ways, and I don't just mean sexually... We've had this screwy off and on again thing for several months. We can't seem to stay away from each other. But I feel like we may ultimately be doomed. The details are too numerous. It's tough because from the moment I first saw her I KNEW she was important. ****, I just don't know what to do. We can't go a week without some kind of problem. At the same time, we feel like we may be "it" for each other. Very difficult... What do you intelligent people think?

2006-12-17 18:06:24 · 16 answers · asked by 670000000mph 2

We've been a couple for three months, and I've wanted to tell him that I love him for at least two weeks!

The problem is, I hear horror stories about girls who confess their feelings to their man and scare them off completely, so I'm extremely apprehensive.

I (21) am my boyfriend's (22) first girlfriend, so I expect a certain amount of confusion. For example, when we started dating, he already expected that we were a 'couple'.

Do you people have any advice for me? What should I say?

2006-12-17 18:04:13 · 10 answers · asked by sachi 1

I've been f***ing up in my relationship a lot recently....and it's all because of little things that i don't think are a big deal. But my loverly lover is getting hurt by it. If I f*** up again, I'm not sure if he's gonna stay with me.

what can I do to make things better??

I want him to be able to trust me completely....

2006-12-17 18:02:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a bf online and i love him so much. actually we started as friends and never did i expect us to have gotten this far. we chat, exchange emails and talk over phone. he is very far eaway from me but both of us are holding on to what we have. i treat him like a real bf, everyday emailing him, texting him, but, he emails me once or twice a week only and texts me rarely. but there are times that i can feel he is not leading me on or somethin since he told me he has no interest in other woman but me. he tells me he loves me to death but he cant find enough time to communicate with me. am i just being too much or im becoming demanding already? it is because for me, if you love a person, no matter how busy you can get, you will find time communicating to him/her, it may not be every second of everyday but at least, you will exert effort just to show your loved ones that you care and love him/her even in a little way or a little note.

i hope you can advice me concerning this. ty!!!

2006-12-17 17:58:49 · 10 answers · asked by chocolate 1

like taking me out for shopping,

2006-12-17 17:54:47 · 28 answers · asked by PRISCILLA N 1

my friend once told me that there is always someone that thinks about someone else is this true or just a load of bs? seems to me as it is bs as no one likes me

2006-12-17 17:52:23 · 11 answers · asked by confused 2

my friends think i have attitude problem and im way too moody and demanding.. which is not real me
everyone in my group has a boy friend i wud love to have one but im not desperate and im waiting for the right one...many guys proposed me till date they were all good looking n all but i didnt feel they r best for me.. i dont know whts wrong wid my friends but these days all my friends(girls specially) think tht if i will keep rejecting all these guys i will end up alone i have to adjust n no one can fit in my idea of perfect man ....well i dont think so but still shud i pick one or wait for the perfect match.....

2006-12-17 17:52:17 · 13 answers · asked by sonali 2

2006-12-17 17:52:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sex before marriage is alwiz scary as we might feel guilty or get pregnant by accident. Isn't sex after marriage more pure and full with love & satisfaction?

2006-12-17 17:51:28 · 19 answers · asked by cute 1

I seem to be stuck. As with most guys, I have my taste...my type of woman if you will. Its a biological thing, we all seem to be programmed with a certain type and we can't help but be attracted to that look. Mine, is blonde hair, blue eyes, cute, thin and a nice...well, upper area. I have acted on that instinct my whole life but for whatever reason any girl that looks like that has turned out to be TOTALLY CRAZY and self centered with bad values. Aren't there any good girls out there that fit this mold??

2006-12-17 17:51:10 · 18 answers · asked by allcharm97 2

And would rather have it mean and hard?

2006-12-17 17:51:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so it was my birthday yesterday and I asked my boyfriend to come to the movies with me ( we've only been going out a few weeks ) and he said ok. So when I got to the movies I called him to see where he was and he said he was "grounded". He does this all the time. Is he lying to me for some strange reason? Help???

2006-12-17 17:49:06 · 5 answers · asked by female optimus prime. 2

besides snacks what other ideas do you have?
and do I need to wrap it up?how?

thanks!

2006-12-17 17:48:26 · 6 answers · asked by anne 1

So I have been seeing this guy for almost a year now. We live together and I have two kids from a previous marriage. A girl from his past that he hasn't talked to in over a year has been trying to contact him at his parents house. We live together, but his parents have given him the messages from her. He knew about this a few days ago but just told me today and I feel weird about it. When I ask questions he is very vague but he insists they were only friends...Should I be feeling jealous or strange about this or just let it go? I have no problems with him and girls...just her for some reason and don't know why...

2006-12-17 17:47:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I screw up everything with girls, they like me and I get shy then they quit talking to me eh.....My job is making me even more depressed because I see couples which hurts, because I have nobody myself. But right now there is a girl I like and she likes me, we've known each other for about 2 months, I need to talk to her to get to know her better but I know it's not gonna work, so I'm gonna give up and probably disappear from everywhere....

2006-12-17 17:45:15 · 15 answers · asked by Khaos 2

Myhusband died 2 years ago in a car acident that killed him instantly and left me in a coma for three month and damaged my hearing.I havent been on a date since.My mother knows this guy and kind of set up a blind date for us.When she told me about it i freeked.But she said that i should start dating again.I know life goes on but Ryan was my life and how do i go on a date with out thinking about him the whole time.I dont think I am ready for this.I was talking to Ryans family about this and they all think that I shoud move on with my life.I have to say that I dont agree.How do you replace some one that ment every thing to you?

2006-12-17 17:45:11 · 6 answers · asked by x 1

She is a girl and they use to date. He deny's anything happened but she says he told her he wants her back????? I really love him what do I do? Believe him or her? We have been together for a little over a year.

2006-12-17 17:43:35 · 1 answers · asked by thompson j 1

Ok so the other night my friend and I met up and had dinner and were going to go to a movie. However, he had to be somewhere else and the movie wouldn't be until late - so he suggested taking me somewhere that he described as "somewhere you would take your boy/girl fried" then he took me to look at christmas lights and when I was talking to him about all the neat places my dad takes me when I go visit him (my dad lives in a big city) my friend right after that took me to a coffee house bought me a hot chocolate and told me that he thought of this when I told him about my dad - then before we split for the night he wanted to make plans or else it would be another two weeks before we see eachother again - I'm confused - does he like me or is he just a nice guy? We are really close friends and I wouldn't want anything to ruin it - but I think I might like him...

2006-12-17 17:43:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

um... im only 14 but guys are always taking advantage of me. i have been sexually harrased more times than i can count, and it turns out that my ex didnt even like me in the first place, and he just asked me out cause he was desperate, so i dumped him. i am really nice, and i just feel like i will never meet someone who actually cares about my feelings and doesnt use me. please help.

2006-12-17 17:42:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey,
ive been dating my girlfriend for like 6 months now and she says she loves me more than shes ever loved any one, but she broke up with her boyfriend of 3 1/2 years about 3 months before we started dating. everytime i think about her ex in any way, it really upsets me. they dont even ever speak anymore and she swears she hates him. im not sure if im jealous or what my deal is, but whenever i think about him being with her and her saying she loved him it drives me crazy...is this normal? what do i do??

2006-12-17 17:40:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-17 17:40:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

which do you prefer? Persian or Asian? and why

2006-12-17 17:39:54 · 8 answers · asked by confused 2