needed sometime bcoz we hardly knew each other.then finally he told me2stop liking him.but sometimes i feel like he likes me2but he'sjuz not saying it.then he also said that sometimes guys entertain girls even if they dnt like the girl.its like he's making it clear he doesn't like me.but i still want him so badly.i dunno wat2do.how do i make him fall in love wit me?how do i make him see the good in me?i know he's not involved wit any girls.i know i stand a chance,but how do i win him.i wont take no for an answer.i really want this guy so badly.dnt ask me y.i juz want him.i'm really in love with him.somebody tell me how do i make him fall in love with me......without seeming desperate or cheap..
2006-12-17 20:16:42 · 10 answers · asked by mini 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he's stringing you along, and if he is, he's really not worth it. That hint about guys entertaining girls even if they don't like the girl, is a definite don't go there!
You can't make someone fall in love with you, believe me! I tried for a whole year to make this one guy like me back. I changed so much! When he started dating this other girl, I got incredibly jealous and wished her dead, and I changed to be like her so he would like me! He knew I liked him and he didn't do anything about it, so it sounds like you have pretty much the same dilemma as I did. When I loved this guy, I didn't notice any of the other nice guys out there, You have to move on!
Just be yourself, and forget about him! He's really not worth it!
Hope this has helped a little :) Good Luck!! x x x
2006-12-17 20:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by ♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he says sometimes guys entertain girls.. that's exactly what he was doing.. probably making fun of you the whole time with his buddies. I am not trying to sound mean, but this guy obviously doesn't like you in the same way you like him, and judging from your grammar and the way you worded your question, you sound too young to be so obsessed anyway. Get over it, move on and leave the guy alone. He couldn't make it any clearer. HE DOES NOT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU...
2006-12-18 04:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by Michele A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys just like to flirt around like that. He's right. Most of them though...because deep down inside they're chick-ins. For now you shouldn't worry about love because all guys are looking for at their age are a nice *** to stair at and stuff.
You're not in love. If you wanna get his attention though just wear some tight *** jeans or something to make your *** look good. And likely you'll get other guys talkin to you too.
2006-12-18 04:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that is really a tough one. Just try to ignore him. I mean you should be carefull not to look at him in a friendly way. just act normal. You can have just a talk with him but try to do some thing extraordinary. when guys are ignored there is a high probabily that they would be interested. Just be cool around him as nothing happened.
Good Luck!!
2006-12-18 05:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See,from what you have written i feel that you are deeply in love with him.but alas,he does not seem to be interested in you.This may be because of somehow he does not know very well about you and that's why he is somehow a bit backfooted.So try to get close to him just as friend and spend some time so that he can know about you.Once,he comes to know about you well he will get comfortable with you and easy also.once he is esay with you,i believe if then you propose to him he may accept you,and even better ,he may propose to you himself.
2006-12-18 04:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by Avijit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let him go cuz he is just dragging you along. You cant make nobody love r like you it jus has to come 2 them. So maybe give it about a week and he don't come along leave him alone. while you wasting your time wit somebody that don't want you , you could be wit somebody that do want you
2006-12-18 04:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by Shajazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already seem desperate. I can only help you w/ some of this. Hopefully you have a basement, or he does. Then u put some chloroform in a hankie and cower down in the backseat of his BMW. You take it from there toots.
2006-12-18 04:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear miss,
I red your story. I can learn to you the best way that you can reach to your dream actually if you realy do that.
you should show to him in reverse. it means each time when he need to you for entertainment you should say now i have work. if you can avoid to him for speaking, entertainment, speaking, with low answering to his questions without excityng. His brane will be busy little by little for you and your behaviors. when you can increase for capture all his mind, dreams, brane you will reach to heam. Because of all male humen if they cann't easily reach to a girl for entertainment they will resist to get her and they will take place under pressure and they will realy love to her.
I'm male too.
B.B.W.
2006-12-18 04:35:12 · answer #8 · answered by bambooly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough but I think you should leave it alone, you can't make people do things.
2006-12-18 04:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by gbgnick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN'T MAKE HIM LOVE YOU, HE THINKS YOU'RE A PSYCHO!
YOU SOUND DESPERATE THAT'S WHY HE'S BACKING OFF!
2006-12-18 04:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~ISABELLA~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋