i really like this girl and she seems bored with my topics i tried to tell her that shell start a topic. but she wants me to start one. well get to a conversation for a while then shell be quiet for a time. what should i do? please someone help. thank you.
2006-12-17 20:22:30 · 4 answers · asked by Karl G. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to know her personally. What's her style like, her interest in life. Is she like music, or movies, or history, or travelling. Based your topic on what she likes best and pick it up from there. True, it has to come from your heart.
You can tell by looking at her body language wether the topic interests her or not. Silence, fidgetting, small movements of her hands... These are all signs you could watch out for.
In fact, some people enjoy just silence. Take her to a place where you can just sit, watching people go by, the beach, a park, a coffee shop in the midst of the hustling and bustling of people. Then you could just silently enjoy each other's company.
Good luck!
2006-12-18 00:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by Aleckii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask questions indirectly. i mean instead of asking her favorites (what's your favorite color?) how about asking if she wants the color red? do it in that manner so you'll get to know what her interests are..it takes time though.
2006-12-22 12:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by warrior is a child 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should ask her about her and talk to her and take her out do something fun.
2006-12-18 04:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by MFC 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make her laugh or some jokes if she stop of what you are telling of..you can make it...
2006-12-18 04:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋