what do i do?

Question

okay so ive been hngiout with this guy that i really like and he met my mom and all that and she thinks hes nice and likes him ..and me well im crazy about him ..hes so sweet..but ne way the only problem is my mom thinks hes UGLY AS **** (which hes not honestly lots og girls like him) so anytime we tlak about him shes liek yea hes nice but hes soOoO ugly omg i would never let you date him and she just goes on and on about how hes not good 4 me and i need a guy with goals and whos going places ..and sense im not 18 she said she can tell me who i can and cant date and if not that she has the right to not let me do jackshit! ...which she would do cause shes evil like that ..my moms really cool though she lets me do alot but i don tknow what to do b/c if she doesnt approve shes not gunan let him come over all the time and shes gunna not let me do anything but i really REALLY liek the kid and i wanna give it a shot more then anything but i have no idea what to do b/c of the way my mom is

Answer 1

well mom is being mom. She is going to find something wrong with any guy you bring home. Mom is not comfortable with the idea of ur sexual maturity. Guys only want one thing is often cited. Well, maybeso, but girls have it.
I'm sure the guy is all you want and need, but it could turn into a battle w/ mom. Think of guys in ur neighborhood.

Answer 2

First off, is there some truth to what your mom is saying to you?
If so, step back and try to see it from her perspective. If you can't, maybe try and talk with her and let her explain her stance on the situation.
If you feel that she is wrong and you can't see her side, maybe get another friend to talk with her and see if between the two of you both of you can figure out exactly what she is trying to say to you.
Sometimes we don't realize what a parent is trying to tell us is really for our own good. We sometimes think they are trying to take away our freedom and our lives and trying to tell us how to live. In actuallity they are not doing that at all, they have only our best interest at heart and have a certain set of standards for us. They also have experience and sometimes a great insight to what is really going on in certain situations.
I wish you the best with this adventure. Don't do anything that can and will wreck your relationship with mom, she'll be there long after the boyfriend is gone.

Answer 3

Mom's have a great sense about stuff like this. I know you like him, but you have to trust her instinct. Find someone better.

Answer 4

Whatever you do, don't date him just to spite your Mom.

She may be out of line, but don't force the issue to prove a point.

If you like him, date him.
(You're gonna do what you want anyway).

Just don't do it out of spite, or to "show" your Mother.

Chances are, you will thank your Mother later for her comments.

Answer 5

well, obviously, you are too young to date anyone, due to inability to make sense.
stick to the english classes, use your spell check, and stay away from the boys.