I am in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend does not take calls or reply my emails on weekends. Weekend is the only time we can talk for a long time cauz we are both working during the week, but he decides to not answer his mobile or switches it off. He always come up with an excuse for not answeringand promising to answer it but he never does.What is his problem?
2006-12-17 20:22:48 · 11 answers · asked by Nayi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's so not worth it! If you're putting all the effort into the relationship, forget it! Who cares about his reasons and excuses? He's stringing you along!
Don't downgrade yourself for this guy, you sound nice enough. If you're doing all the calling and he's ignoring you, what does that say about what he thinks of you? I know it's hard, since you seem to really like this guy, but break it off, he's not worth it, trust me!
Hope I helped a little! Good Luck! x
2006-12-17 20:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by ♫ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, but if this is habitual than you would be living the very reason why long distance relationships don't work. I hate to be the one to tell you this, but he has moved on to something else. He really should be more of a man, and just tell you. However, this is pretty typical behavior for boys, and when you find yourself a true man you will come to realize why I say boys. So get a backbone, and lay it on him tell him it is over. Show him what being a man is all about because men hate this. When a woman reminds a boy of what a real man is like their world just folds in on them. Anything you can do to hurt his pride is going to benefit you, and even him (in the long run). Then move on with your life, and this time set your standards higher on this one. Remember anything less than a man is something you don't need, and by the way do not get confused with men & age. Men can be "men," and still be young you just gotta know what to look for. Like a car, good steady job, clue, and most importantly confidence in himself to stand solid on his own two feet. That honey is a man, and anything other than that is a waist of time. Take it from a gay guy I know what is important, and this boy stuff is just something to bother with when your bored & need a pick me up. Nothing more...Remember this, and hopefully you will be successful in your next relationship.
2006-12-17 20:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by foxy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not 2 be funny but i think he is spending his time wit somebody else on the weekend the reason he is not talking to you. If you really want it to work y'all need to have a long talk and see if the relationship is worth saving if not let him go and find someone that stays in the same city or some what closer to you.
2006-12-17 20:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by Shajazz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My daughter texts her dad when she is with me, and she does when she is with him to me. He and i agreed that if she wants to text or call that is fine, if it makes our child feel more at ease then that is ok. It is NOT undermining either of us. You must look at this differently. The more you demand "your ways" on your kids as far as the "LITTLE" issues the more you push your child away and alienate them from you and it is no one else's fault but your own (not the x). I suggest thinking long and hard about how you would like to raise your child. It is either (your rules, your way, military) or raise them (loving, caring and open hearted) towards you AND your ex both. You cannot put your foot down with texting for heaven sakes, it is just texting the other parent, not a big deal. Good luck.
2016-05-23 03:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear, in your heart you know the answer, dont you. the only reason the cell phone remains off is that he is with somebody. there is no doubt in that. you can explain once or twice, but you cant expain every single week end.
if a guy is really in love with you or cares for you, he will never be too busy to call you or never be too busy to take your call. he will never be too busy to go that extra mile for you. you deserve to be the most important person in that person's life. get that S-hole our of your world. the world is full of guys who really are worth the feelings. enjoy your life girl.....
;)
2006-12-17 20:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by Gia 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's got someone else.You are not the only one.Drop him quick because you can't hurt him back,you can only be hurt more.Cut it off ASAP before he does and it will hurt more.If you beat him to the punch,he'll feel like the jerk he is.There is no other reason he would do this to you.It's someone else.Sorry,but you will heal,but move on....
2006-12-17 20:29:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He does not want to. People do what they want, if he wanted to talk to you he would.
I agree with alles, he is with someone else.
He doesn't really like you, it bites but you need to find someone who will hunt you down to speak to you.
... and stop calling him.
2006-12-17 21:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by zhi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes probably cheating on you, if he really cared he would do all he could to keep in touch, i would call it quits and find someone who lives closer
2006-12-17 20:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by batts1030 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's seeing someone else.
2006-12-17 20:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by Frenzy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
HE'S OUT HAVING A GOOD TIME.
WHILE YOUR HOME ALONE DOING NOTHING!
2006-12-17 20:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋