Singles & Dating - 12 December 2006

My girlfriend and I are fighting right now over something that has no big deal whatsoever, seriously its nothing. BUT...yesterday was my birthday and she didnt call me or anything. I JUST GOT A TEXT AT 11:30 PM!!! 30 minutes before midnight (the next day). What should i do? I know i have a right to be mad, but in what way? Besides the stupid arguement do i have even more of a reason to NOT talk to her? What would yall do?

2006-12-12 02:45:49 · 26 answers · asked by Stuart P 2

i have a question that id like to be answered really soon becuase i have this girl i like and i see her next period and i was wondering if i should talk to her or not pay as much attention to her becuase of my last questions said that sometimes this girl is interestes but other times she doesnt talk

thank you

2006-12-12 02:44:42 · 15 answers · asked by JoE 1

I have a friend that just told me she was asked by her boyfriend if it would be okay to have one of his friend's watch them have
s e x....I have done something like this back in my youngin years and she was asking what did I think....I already told her my opinion what do you folks thing...should she or should she not...

2006-12-12 02:43:28 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a guy is taking the initiative to make himself happy and get the most out of his life, regardless of his standing with women, why is he considered so bad? Can't you just focus on serving others with what you ARE good at, and not worry about what you are NOT so good at?

2006-12-12 02:43:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just wondering what men prefer - I wear makeup when I go out however I like to have a natural complexion - what do you think?

2006-12-12 02:42:36 · 27 answers · asked by ? 4

2006-12-12 02:42:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-12 02:41:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 and half years. He recently got offered a great job on the other side of the country and wants me to go with him. I asked him of our future about getting married and he says that he is never getting married. We are only 23 years old so is it that he is young and immature, not ready, being stupid? But should i leave my friends, job, and family for this man?

2006-12-12 02:41:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of 6 months, Doesnt think I need guy friends. I guy I was talking (hanging out, talking, not dateing, but it was open to maybe soon) to when we first met emailed me. He is just a friend. It was nothing more and I dont cheat on my boyfriend. I havent talked to him in a few months. When me and my boyfriend got together I tlaked to him a few times around my boyfriend just so he saw I wasnt "hiding" him. I dont want to hurt my boyfriend and talk to this guy if he doesnt want me to but know my boyfriend thinks I will just talk to him behind his back.

2006-12-12 02:39:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I sent my crush a msg saying that we should hangout sometime, since that time, a friend of his wrote a comment to him on a site saying to make a move on me. He sent me a msg few days ago and said "i just got out of a long relationship and right now i'm not looking for any committments, i'm enjoying the single life right now cuz of the space and freedom. Sorry"

Does that mean we might hang out later on? What is the deal here?

2006-12-12 02:37:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Both of us are in 7th grade (b4 i tell u anything else.) I like this guy, and he usaly only goes for popular people. Popular is rich,PRETTY(big part of popular), nad has so many friends u cant name them all. Now he is only semi-popular, like me. SO he likes to go for the girls he has NO chance with what so-ever. But he obviously doesnt know that so he asks them out, to the dance, ect. And he has also known for a year that i have liked him. And i am practically in LOVE with him, he is all i evr think about and talk about. But since i am not rich that makes me not 1 of those popular kids that he likes. him not likeing me.....Thats just one problem. The other problem is EVERYTIME i think he is starting to like me (he would talk 2 me say good things bout me, practicly stare at me in choir class, ect.) he asks one of those popular people out!!!! And it hurts me beacuse i really like him and i am not sure if he will ever like me unless sombody threatens him......thats not gonna happen! LOL.

2006-12-12 02:36:50 · 11 answers · asked by ilovebrooks3112 1

He is really into BDSM and it was fun for awhile, but I don't know that I want to do it forever...also, I found pictures of his ex girlfriends on his digital camera (naked ones) and he is very clingy and possessive and insecure. He is also a pig (his apartment is so messy, I wouldn't be surprised to find Jimmy Hoffa under the piles of crap in there!). I also just got an e-mail from one of my ex's (who broke up with me just because of bad timing) and he wants me back. What to do?

2006-12-12 02:36:31 · 17 answers · asked by landime9 2

sorry but this part 2 of my other question.....

im in 10 grade and i like this girl alot and i know i cant make her like me but i wish i could get her more intersted...

i have talked to her before and asked her to go places and sometimes it seems she likes me and other times she saids she has to do something like i just asked her to go see a movie with me this weekend ans she said she doesnt know

so i was wondering if i should continue to like her and try to get her to be more interested or if i should just let it go or ignore her or something

i would like the advice
thank you

2006-12-12 02:35:33 · 5 answers · asked by JoE 1

Partner expressed interest in me taking pole dancing lessons. I think it would be fun and would add an element to the bedroom.

However, when I suggested he also take the lessons .... conversation went into the dumper.

I would love to see him work his magic on a pole ..... why is this such a foreign concept to him.

Guys --- Would you dance for your lady
Ladies -- Would you enjoy your man dancing for you

2006-12-12 02:35:17 · 9 answers · asked by cdnponygirl 3

i had a party and made out with this gurl and i am the first gurl she has ever kissed and she told me she liked it well i had her over last weekend and she told me she liked me and i like her a lot. she is everthing i want in a gurl only one problem i am 20 and she is 15 almost 16 she told me that she loved me to. i have been threw what she is goin threw befor i fell madly in love with the first gurl i kissed and we dated on and off for bout a year well i asked her if she was absolutly sure bout her feelings and she made it a point that she was she ****** told me i stole her heart and i can tell that she is telling the truth by the way she looks at me well i figured that she is just goin threw a phase so i wont get to close i will let her figure out who she is but i do like her she is really cute and has a great personality. i have asked others and some tell me to let her down easily but i dont want to break her heart cuz she said she has never felt this way be4 what do i do????????

2006-12-12 02:34:21 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am getting attached to him i know i shouldnt but i cant help it..hes sooooooo sweet like when i was in culinary w/ him and i was crying cuz a girl i knew died in a car accident, he looked like he was gonna cry b/c i was...and he asked if there was anything he could do to make me feel better..and i said i needed some ******* ice cream...so he went to the kitchen and got an ice cream scoop, and said its hard to believe they dont have any ******* ice cream here....and he kisses me as much as possible when the instructors arent looking....and maybe i should get attached...but i worry hes just foolin me like the rest....guys only want me if there desperate (theres no way HE could be) or if they want sex (which the learn they will not get) and i worry and i told my self i wasnt gonna get hurt again...but im falling for him and i dunno whats wrong with me...why do i like him so much? he makes me laugh and smile so much it hurts and he listens when i talk why do i feel so strongly for him??

2006-12-12 02:33:37 · 21 answers · asked by So over-used 2

I was wondering, do women like hearing foreign accents during phone sex? I am an Australian and for some reason I really like american accents and some European ones. Although I havent actually done this much, a woman's voice with a foreign accent really does it for me, and I wondered if the same thing happend for ladies?

2006-12-12 02:32:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

thats what i would like to know

2006-12-12 02:31:37 · 14 answers · asked by jewelzlovesfalloutboy 2

Guys, could anyone tell me why (some) fully grown men want you more after you kick them to the curb? They don't treat you right when they have you (even if you're not "easy"), but when you leave they want you back and can't stand it when another man pays attention to you?

2006-12-12 02:30:36 · 23 answers · asked by Cutie girl 1

I have an ex who turns up all the time and then texts me to say he won't come round again.

I have asked him to meet me this time as i'm fed up of the yo-yoing.

He won't meet me to do it properly. He says if he see's me that he won't be able to do it.

I suspect its more that he has no intention of stopping turning up!

What do you think?

Can you tell me if you are male or female if you do me the honour of answering my question

2006-12-12 02:30:12 · 21 answers · asked by kiku 4

2006-12-12 02:29:56 · 29 answers · asked by SunShine 1

An an ex guy of mine that I have seeing for 6 months on and off have just broken up. As he keeps changing his mind about what he wants? and I don't think it is fair on my behalf One minuted we are commited and are officially together he is the nicest and kindest person ever the next minute he is not to sure if he wants that type of commitment right now in his life, but cares alot for me. When we do break up for a couple of days he always calls me to say that he does want to keep seeing each other. Very fickle!! He told me yesterday that right now he can't commit with anyone at this moment as he is not in that frame of mind. Where not on bad terms but I just want to move on really, I wanted to say goodbye for good when he told me this again, but he is getting angry and dosent want this and says that he will be deeply and extremely sad if we were to let what we had be destroyed and that he still wants to remain close, even if it is just as friends. As we gel so much.. What do I do?

2006-12-12 02:28:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

There was flirting, kissing, e-mails, and then all of a sudden, nothing. Men always think that women are confusing, but hello!! I'm attractive, have a strong personality, could I have scared him?

2006-12-12 02:27:06 · 14 answers · asked by 2knowmeis2luvme 2

I have been dating this man who is older then me for 2-3 months... things keep getting more serious... and i keep wanting to leave more and more... but he is impossible to leave and separate from... and is very difficult to argue with.. what do i do? this morning he even asked my father if i could stay over his play for a few weeks to help him get his business back off the ground bc he was in surgery... im scared it is getting too serious i need help. please. i feel like this is hopeless for me.

2006-12-12 02:27:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

She had a dream that I cheated on her and then she had sex with her ex-boyfriend. I'm a naturally jealous person, so what can I do to act rationally?

Does the dream really mean anything?

2006-12-12 02:25:22 · 13 answers · asked by Needing some answers 1

this is a little off topic of my previous questions... but

when we first met, my bf asked me how many guys i had been with. we weren't dating or maybe we had been for a day, but i told him 5. I have been with more but we've been together for a year and he hasn't asked. He looks at porn(f***ks other girls in his head) but i have been with more guys than him physically. Do i have to tell him. I mean I have always been safe, and i had been checked before and after we hooked up. so....

I guess i don't really see a problem with not telling him but if it's being dishonest then maybe i should. It was before we met so... But then i think he is being dishonest because he does the whole porn thing like many guys do and he tries to hide it.

2006-12-12 02:25:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i been with a man for three months we talk to each other on the phone every night he live milwaikee and i live ny i visted him twice and afther the second visit i rather see him darily than talk to him over the phone we talk about everything and now it hurts i love him he's 32 and am 20 what sould i do tell him how i feel or just continue the relationship how it is

2006-12-12 02:24:23 · 7 answers · asked by darkangel 2

Now be honest people...sometimes..if your in love does it bother you that you may never sleep with another person again?? Can sex stay that fresh for years on end with the same person..what do you do to keep that way? Be totally honest!

2006-12-12 02:22:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello everyone,
I have recently used this board for reference with relationships, and have found it to be useful. I am having a bit of a crisis as of now and I need your help.

Background information:
I am 19 and she is 17. I am currently enrolled at a university that is decent. She is dually enrolled through her high school. I am a bit of a partier but also studious and dilligent. She is extremely studious and does many school oriented activities, such as: quiz bowl, model U.N., and German club. She admits often to being a "nerd"

At about the end of October, I started to get a crush on this girl in my German class in college. We had never talked, but I was wowed with her intelligence and ambitions. On Nov. 8th, I walked her out of class and talked to her a little bit. She told me where she wanted to go, what she wanted to do, hobbies, recreation, etc.

I then started talking to her after class and walking her to her car (parents were dropping off and picking up)

2006-12-12 02:22:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think the main reason i broke up with my bf is because he is still studying, while i've graduated and having a career. he kept on saying he wanted to ease my burden of having a jobless bf which i totally disagree.how can this be a barrier?

2006-12-12 02:21:35 · 13 answers · asked by sarah7 1