Singles & Dating - 12 December 2006

OK..me and my first love have recently broke up..and i thought that we were finished, so i started talking to someone else. Now he wants to get back with me and I still like him of course, but i like the other person too. And right now im so confused i dont know what to do. Because i like them both almost the same but not really. I think my ex-boyfriend only wants me back because he knows i've found someone else. What should I say or do?

2006-12-12 03:44:32 · 12 answers · asked by lyssa a 1

Heres the thing me an my ex haven been on the best terms in about a year because while i was pregnant with his child he cheated on me, but we worked tings out for a while until after the baby was born he cheated again with the same girl and got her pregnant, So i ended it with him for good this time and haven heard from him in iver three months. now all of a sudden he texting me an calling me telling me he misses me and still loves me but in a way i think he just telling me all this **** just to get back in my pants. He ia still with the other girl i hear the baby due any day now. I was with him six years. he never asks about our baby when he calls its always about us an trying get me to meet him somewhere. Im very confussed about all this. What should i do. I am 22 an its all so hard on me very stressfull!

2006-12-12 03:42:45 · 10 answers · asked by Christy R 1

this one girl. I met this girl on facebook. She has never seen me or known me before. I messed everything up in the conversation. I did not put my photo up on facebook when i talked to her. Although, it does say my first and last name on facebook. She doesn't want to talk to me in person because of what i said online. I want to know if she would know i am the guy online if i talk to her in person and only give my first name? This one girl said i was going to be a deceptive liar if i did that and shes right, but I can't seem to get over this girl problem and i have a crush on her. What should i do? This is how the conversation went online. I talked to her 2 times online.

1. I said i wanted to meet her

2. I told her she didn't know me

3. I said because you look attractive

4. I told her I fantasized about her holding me (that was a no no)

5. We got into a fight

6. I told her i hope you never find a man

Next time i talk to her online

7. I'm sorry

2006-12-12 03:42:23 · 4 answers · asked by chris d 1

2006-12-12 03:42:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-12 03:41:46 · 1 answers · asked by prey_cat 1

my man sneaks to be on my sapce as soon as I leave for work in the morning since we work different hours . I just want to know am i exaggerating about him being on my space ?

2006-12-12 03:41:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My situation is nightmarish...My heart and soul are crushed.
Please read my post on the linked relationship forum....

And post a reply here... I'm most desparate for opoins... All people that read and post will get Thumbs up... and Maximuim Points.

http://www.relationship-forums.com/showthread.php?t=11542

2006-12-12 03:41:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my cat has started talking to me it started with a meow, now she starts abusing me, last night when i got in from the pub, she run over and said wheres my ***** food! let me out i need to go toilet!
iam starting to get really scared. am i crazy?

2006-12-12 03:40:17 · 9 answers · asked by yellow 1

be detailed if you want. Height,weight skin color...job, whatever!

2006-12-12 03:37:38 · 21 answers · asked by City slicker 5

Went out w/ my ex for the first time since he broke up w/ me 2 months ago.

At the end of the night he gave me a really, really long hug. I started to cry, when I looked up at him he was teary. He just looked at me and we hugged again. I told him I missed him, he said he missed me too. I asked if he was upset, he said "a little". He kissed me on the head and then hugged me again.

He told me to call him any time....I told him the same. We said we would get together again soon.

What can I do to keep his interest and get us back together?

2006-12-12 03:36:19 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

in a way you never thought possible till now?

2006-12-12 03:35:20 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3

that if a guy is animated while talking to you he is interested and also if you are talking to someone else and he steps in and enters into the conversation.

2006-12-12 03:34:46 · 8 answers · asked by debra 2

Ive been dating this guy for a while now. I just got out of a relationship that lasted almost four years. This guy says that he's been liking me all the time I was with the other person. I really like him too so I thought that after awhile we would try to see if we could actually work. We're not together but we've tried to become intimate. This guy gets sexually aroused by me but when it's time to do it, he's not able too. I'm very attractive so that's not the issue. Guys, tell me what is? For all you guys that are getting ready to say something smart, I have good hygeine and I'm beautiful. Even he says that. We'll start kissing and then he'll just hold me or something. I like it but why can't he have sex with me. PLz help. I asked was it someone else and he said no. Have any of you been through similiar situations? PLease tell. Maybe I'm being too aggressive huh? He'll start like something is going to happen and then he'll just lay there.

2006-12-12 03:34:12 · 11 answers · asked by Brownie_baby 3

my friend has 2 kids. she is dating another guy. She knows I am inlove with her. I basically asked for a break in our friendship, its hard for me to see her with the other guy. I tried to stay nuetral, but its hard. I asked for a break this past wkend. She says Ok, but I realized I have gifts for her 2 kids, I bought it before our I break up the "friendship" with her. I bought it for them, at least the kids can have an extra gift to open. What should I do? I need time to get over those feelings for her and not look like a jerk. Its a mess!

2006-12-12 03:34:01 · 3 answers · asked by smiley710 1

She tells me everythin' from wanting to have kids, to getting married, to living with each other, to meeting her ugly parents. Well I already "hit it" so I am done with her, hey, she wasn't that great anyway. I lead her on for a while and now I am regrettin it. I feel bad for acting fake towards her, but truth is she has no looks or personality. Not even in my league!! Well I am trying to figure out how I tell her, in a nice way, that I am through with her?

2006-12-12 03:33:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-12 03:32:35 · 9 answers · asked by ashley 1

Why do you do it? Their are so many pathetic questions on here saying "why are all lads like this" "why do you do this boys" etc etc, but what makes us different from girls? Nothing, I think its just being stubborn

2006-12-12 03:32:05 · 16 answers · asked by <-tom-> 3

Does my crush like me?

Her n i have been eye flirting for over a year now.
She gets jealous when i talk to someone.
She waited for me after class, so her & I can flirt.
She smiled at me when her n I were flirting
Aftetr the flirting session, she waits for me to leave first before she leaves.

Negative assumptions---
She's not shy talking to other people but she never talks to me.
She's really hot and she can get anyone she wants, mayb she's not used to making the first move.

2006-12-12 03:31:34 · 13 answers · asked by dnice 1

My friends bf said that he loves her but is not IN love with her? What does that mean?

2006-12-12 03:30:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-12 03:30:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay...so guys have this big thing with wanting to touch and play with everything....especially boobs...but do girls really like it...or is it just like...come on....quit playing with 'em and do something else??? And another thing....what do you like a guy to do to you the best.....(short of sex...that's a too little obvious)

2006-12-12 03:30:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Women in the last 3 weeks. What is the worst that can happen to me?

I feel fine and nothing has fell off. These women were generally quite easy.

2006-12-12 03:29:58 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been dating my bf for the past five years..he left abroad this october...since then we have been in touch thru calls and mails..he used to call me everyday and chat with me for long times..now these days he says he's gotten lil busy coz of his exams and stuff..so he is not able to keep in touch frequently..somehow i feel like he is taking me for granted..

today he did not even leave me an offline msg..he called me whn i snt him an sms..and started shouting at me saying i dont understand and i behave like a kid..he said he didnt have time to leave me an offline msg..however when i chkd his inbox..i noticed that he chkd all his mails..when he has time to chk his mail..he shud also have time to snd me one offline msg that he is gonna be busy..!

i dont know what to do..he is taking me for granted these days..should i break up..its a 5yr relationship..may be he's really too busy..i dont know

2006-12-12 03:29:34 · 3 answers · asked by sweetiepie123 1

several days ago I did the nasty, now I itch, I have used the sprays and creams at the drug store, but man it really itches on the side and down the sack
what is it
should I worry?
help please
as far as I know she is real clean....

2006-12-12 03:29:14 · 12 answers · asked by david s 2

lets call it the "real world" for lack of a better term?

2006-12-12 03:28:35 · 2 answers · asked by ? 3

Ive done the marriage thing.Its not for me.Im perfectley happy doing what i do but it seems to be fine for a man to sleep with alot of women but not vice versa.Why?

2006-12-12 03:28:08 · 57 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4

2006-12-12 03:27:49 · 7 answers · asked by kimmie 1

ok i went on a date with this guy and afterwards he ignored the couple of casual messages i sent him. i guessed he wasnt interested and was trying to give me the cold shoulder hoping id take the hint.but the thing i dont understand is, hes not blocked or deleted me off messenger. surely if you never wanted to speak to anyone again and were trying to get rid of them that would be the first thing you'd do, especially as we're both on there a lot.i know it might seem like hes not interested but he hasnt cut off completely and thats what i dont get. what does his behaviour mean? serious answers only please, and please dont be rude as i really do need advice/opinions over this

2006-12-12 03:27:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

im trying to get a guy but i need to know what they look for. im kidna meen and a little hardcore. i need to know so i can change.

2006-12-12 03:27:35 · 3 answers · asked by ne-ne 1

To men that is. They would label women that. i know im not a skank. Everyone ive slept with is because we had a connection in some way and i actually like that person. But men don't understand that so im just curious. im 23 ive had 35 partners.

2006-12-12 03:27:25 · 10 answers · asked by just me 2