She tells me everythin' from wanting to have kids, to getting married, to living with each other, to meeting her ugly parents. Well I already "hit it" so I am done with her, hey, she wasn't that great anyway. I lead her on for a while and now I am regrettin it. I feel bad for acting fake towards her, but truth is she has no looks or personality. Not even in my league!! Well I am trying to figure out how I tell her, in a nice way, that I am through with her?
2006-12-12 03:33:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's horrible...well you got yourself in this situation you get yourself out of it.
2006-12-12 03:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. You are not currently interested. You lead her to believe that you were interested when in fact you are not. You regret it and you are sorry but that doesn't change the fact that you aren't interested. I would leave out the part about her not having looks and being out of her league. Hopefully you have learned that it isn't nice to treat people this way and in the end you will end up hurting the other person. Also make sure there is no confusion about your not being interested so you don't continue to lead this person along.
2006-12-12 11:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by LLL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like you give all the other good guys bad reputation!
I hope you will like some girl and she will mess with you! Remember what goes around comes around! Thats not nice to refer to other people's parents ugly. You might think you are good looking, but just reading your question is making you absolutely unattractive. Just tell her and save her the headache.
2006-12-12 11:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by smiley710 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't possibly tell her in a nice way. You used her, and she's going to be hurt, period. You have to make it very clear, so she will be able to mourn and then get on with her life. Tell her you never had feelings for her, that you just wanted to have sex with her, and now that you've done that you're moving on and you hope she has a nice life.
2006-12-12 11:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta end this quick, like right now. Pick up the phone dude, and just be honest with her, not things about how she doesn't have the looks or personality, just tell her that you are at a point in your life that you don't want any commitment, and you want to work on yourself, which you should. you shallow SOB!
2006-12-12 11:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by Evangeless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she tells you everything I would be a bit worried seems like she's fallen for you. The best way to let her down is to tell her you don't tihnk it's working out and it's you not her and she can do alot better. Then try and avoid all contact with her.
2006-12-12 11:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you heard a thing called Karma. Because you knew before you hit it you didn't want her like that. Whether she's ugly or not, no personality or not. You chose to sleep her. In the long I bet you she gonna be the who you begging to get back.
2006-12-12 11:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by Gail S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really no nice way to say it. If you're really fed up, whatever way you're gonna choose to break it up, do it ASAP. It'll be the best thing for both. Needless to say you won't get pushed into something you'll regret for the rest of your life. I know what I'm talking about and it's not cool.
2006-12-12 11:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by guicho79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha! Sounds familiar. Just tell her it was fun while it lasted but that you feel you guys are on different pages. Tell her that you're not looking for something serious right now and are just looking to have a little fun. She can't blame you for that ;)
2006-12-12 11:39:11 · answer #9 · answered by Elizabeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her.... And if you are going to tell her then don't compliment her first.... it would only make her feel worse afterwards.... go directly to the point but in the end tell her she's a great person but she deserves someone who's better than you..... (no offense)
2006-12-12 11:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by â?¡Jei-Jeiâ?¡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its best to tell her now and be done. I have to ask why would you say "her ugly parents" if you haven't met them? You are very full of yourself and remember what goes around comes around.
2006-12-12 11:41:24 · answer #11 · answered by kelleyann_p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋