Why do you do it? Their are so many pathetic questions on here saying "why are all lads like this" "why do you do this boys" etc etc, but what makes us different from girls? Nothing, I think its just being stubborn
2006-12-12 03:32:05 · 16 answers · asked by <-tom-> 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
'Lost In Love', grow up
2006-12-12 03:35:08 · update #1
maybe because a lot of us have had bad experiences with men. remember just because you treat women properly doesnt mean all guys do. There are some a**holes out there just like there are some horrible girls. Girls and guys are very different, dont fight it just accept it.
2006-12-12 03:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG, what makes you different from girls.. try almost everything other then physical appearance. I Know I will catch slack for this but generally (and there are always exceptions) girls run off emotions 75% of the time. We act first and think later when it comes to our hearts and feelings.
Boys tend to not want to be emotional and tend to think with a different part of their body.
Is this difference bad ? NO WAY. In a relationship you can balance each other out. However girls are much more likely to come to a place like this and ask for help because they want to see how things sound outside their head.
Also take into consideration that those asking about "why are boys like this" are probably coming off a bad relationship and are going to put out the blame.
Don't take it personally, some of us enjoy the differences between girls and boys, and find discovery can be very interesting.
2006-12-12 03:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ticia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason guys are lable as "being the same" is because alot of the time, they are. A guys mind is simple to understand usually(not saying guys are simpleminded, just easy to understand!). The guys mind is on the same things all the time. Money, sex and territory. So when one guy does something, that's the same thing that your typical guy would do.
Woman on the other hand, we have alot more on our mind. Woman are nurturing and compassionate. It's easy for us to get our feelings hurt, or hearts broken. So when we get hurt enough times b the same thing, even though it's from different guys, we think that guys are all the same. Experience has taught us that.
It's not very often that you meet a guy that can fill a womans physical, emotional and spiritual needs. So when we find one, we think he's already taken, or he's gay. So we don't look at him in that "special" way.
All that, and the fact that we want to hear I'm sorry, or some sort of comfort from the guy. It makes us feel wanted, and loved when they say they're sorry, even if it wasn't their fault.
It's just one of those things that you're going to have to get used to, get over, or go gay. LOL I'm sorry to say. I'm not tryin to be mean, but it's always going to be there.
2006-12-12 03:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by Pluto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my lad, the whole truth is most of the lads are always a problems. Now, I did not say all lads are problems, I said most, so you might be in the minority that aren't problems. And aye, I am a stubborn lass! Have a great one!
2006-12-12 03:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by JD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women have a need to vent more than guys. So, it often seems like women have more complaints. Which could be true. We feel the need to have our feelings validated, and by that, we need to talk to others about them, and usually our problems are with what we love most. Either shoes or men!! Dont take it personally!! But there are most likely more women in here, than men, and most men's problems with relationships and feelings they keep to themselves. Men as boys are programed to keep their feelings hidden (boys dont cry), and they then have a hard time opening up and talking about them later on. They dont feel like their feelings will be listened to, respected and/or validated. That is why you hear so much bagging on men. Society sucks, and men dont get treated and respected nearly as much as they should be. They are wonderful works of art, and fantastic creatures... we only have complaints because we are trying to perfect them!! Because we love them that much!! (eg. that old beat up classic car, you love it, you want new parts, fine tune the engine etc etc.... all because you love it!!)
2006-12-12 03:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by thelaundryfairy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If men knew how to act right there would be nothing for us to blame you for. And with that there are 2 things you can do, keep doing what your doing (and men you know what you do), or man up and act right for a change!!!
2006-12-12 03:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by aries6604 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys dont put as much thought into anything like girls they;re totally different a girl cares abotu everything and everyone and guys look out for them selfs first
2006-12-12 03:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
purpose they taking the handy way out... traditionally the girls people that do arent mature sufficient to computer screen what they're doing incorrect and verify in charge each physique else... i think of a relationship is approximately communique and working concerns out between the two, if theres a prob it incorporates each and each not in undemanding terms one:)
2016-12-11 07:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, its a true fact that men and women are VERY VERY different
its what makes the combo so potentially nice , also what is so d amn frustrating about it
they mostly blame us cuz its too hard to blame themselves, or even see their faults , we do the same thing
2006-12-12 03:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lads? What country do you live in?
2006-12-12 03:34:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋