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My girlfriend and I are fighting right now over something that has no big deal whatsoever, seriously its nothing. BUT...yesterday was my birthday and she didnt call me or anything. I JUST GOT A TEXT AT 11:30 PM!!! 30 minutes before midnight (the next day). What should i do? I know i have a right to be mad, but in what way? Besides the stupid arguement do i have even more of a reason to NOT talk to her? What would yall do?

2006-12-12 02:45:49 · 26 answers · asked by Stuart P 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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If you don't know if you want to walk away, just walk away. Life goes on, and it's gotta go on with a sense of self control and impathy for the other party. You will more than likely bump into this girl again some other time in your life, and then you will know what to do in that situation.

2006-12-12 02:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by J Brewhah 2 · 0 0

I guess it partly depends on how far into the relationship you are?? well maybe... Did she know it was your birthday....did you make some sort of mention about not wanting to celebrate///acknowledge the day of your birth? BUT if these are not true and she did know about your birthday and you did want to celebrate and she wasn't in some sort of personal crisis I would be, I think, shall we say, slightly more than mad...well maybe more like hurt, unimportant, worthless...I don't know if i would go to worthless; I would just dump the girlfriend (boyfriend 4 me) first. But she will probably come up with some reason..some something and make you think that its all alright......so I guess the question is what do you want? Sometimes you do have to worry about yourself first or at least a little bit where you dont let ppl treat you like a door mat.. Best wishes and a merry christmas season and happy birthday late.

2006-12-12 11:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by rainsparrow 4 · 0 0

you still have not stated clearly the reason why you and your girlfriend are fighting, or who sent you the text. Assuming that it is because she did not call you at 12:00am or after that time to wish you Happy Birthday, there is no great need for you to be mad.

Yes, there is a reason to be angry with her. People do forget at times. Just talk to her when you are calm. Ignore her birthday the next time around and see how she reacts.

To feel better, treat yourself, go out to watch a movie or have a succulent lunch or dinner, pamper yourself, you deserve it.

2006-12-12 10:57:25 · answer #3 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0 0

hmm... You should be a little bit more optimistic. Both of you are having some arguement. She might be in a mad too but she did text, which mean she still care for you. Although it is your birthday but you could try to forgive her. You should ask her out and try to tell her how the problem affect your relationship with her. Good luck =)

2006-12-12 10:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by Confused123 1 · 1 0

look the argument may be silly and it mean a lot 2 u but perhaps ur girlfriend has been really affected. perhaps she wants u 2 end the argument and patch up with her. maybe she forgot it was ur birthday and got reminded late or perhaps she wants 2 impress u or make u think that she doesnt care 4 u but in fact she cares. maybe she just wanted 2 play a prank and see that if she doesnt wish u, then would u txt her?! she just wants 2 see how much u care 4 her

2006-12-12 10:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well arguement or not she should have been the first to call u not text u half an hr before its over.but thats jus me.maybe the arguement was worse than u thought at least to her.try aologising first then maybe she will apologise for not calling u.

2006-12-12 10:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by lilcharm7 3 · 0 0

being mad really only hurts you, it is your feeling. why do you want to feel mad for an event that was not really serious?
tell her it made you "sad" not mad that she did not call you on your birthday.forget about it. maybe she was afraid to because she felt uncomforatable because of your misunderstanding.
Call her up and move forward with your relationship. after all she still texted you . she could have not texted at all.
good Luck

2006-12-12 10:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Picking fights over nothing and ignoring birthdays are a clear sign that she has lost interest. I would ask her if she still wants to be in the relationship and go from there.

2006-12-12 10:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by bluechick 5 · 1 1

ouch .. it mustve been something more than a stupid argument for her not to see u at all on ur birthday! did she give u a present or anything? i would probably go see her and sort this out if its over nothing.. lifes too short to spend it fighting

2006-12-12 10:51:08 · answer #9 · answered by tu_sweet189 3 · 0 0

sounds as if she was trying to get out of spending your birthday with you. For whatever reason?

at the same time, maybe she didn't want to intrude on your day, and was waiting to hear from you, showing that you wanted to spend time together.

could go either way. you need to find out from her, and then proceed accordingly.

2006-12-12 12:21:09 · answer #10 · answered by Mikez Bad Girl 3 · 0 0

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