I have a friend that just told me she was asked by her boyfriend if it would be okay to have one of his friend's watch them have
s e x....I have done something like this back in my youngin years and she was asking what did I think....I already told her my opinion what do you folks thing...should she or should she not...
2006-12-12 02:43:28 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They should just have a threesome instead.
2006-12-13 01:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by ICARRYABIGSTICK 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it is honestly up to the couple. If she is comfortable with doing that then she should go ahead however, if she doesn't want to have someone watch something so private and intimate then she should tell her boyfriend NO! Why did he ask this - was it out of the blue or were they talking about maybe doing it someday?
Anyways, hope I answered your question and Merry Christmas!
2006-12-12 02:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO--absolutely not! And I agree with someone else who has already posted an answer that said they'd break up with the boyfriend. I hope she isn't trusting enough to go along with this idea. Maybe the boyfriend and his friend can have sex together instead in her absence since they want to share so much.
2006-12-12 02:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on how she would feel having some seedy guy checking her out while his friends ploughs into her?
I can't think of many girls who'd be too flattered at the prospect although I do know some that have done it regardless.
Personally, I'd tell her to steer clear and question why would her guy want another man to see her being screwed? Sounds odd to me.
2006-12-12 02:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
His friends....male or female? Either way it isn't healthy. If it is a male friend, he'll probably let him pile on you as well. Yikes, maybe he even charged a fee for the show? If it is female maybe he wants to compare notes with her as to your performance? Ask yourself, why would I or should I subject myself to a side show as the main event?
2006-12-12 02:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on if she thinks she would get into it. I would love to have people watch me, because i am a great performer :)
But some people it would not be cool. If she does agree to it, she needs to set guidelines - i.e. is he allowed to participate or commentate? If she is asking your opinion and didn't just reject it, she will be into it.
2006-12-12 02:48:33 · answer #6 · answered by cosdogg11 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd personally say don't. It would make me extremely uncomfortable and I think it is inappropriate. If the guy wants to get off on watching, he should get some porn.
But it is up to her... Whatever floats her boat.
2006-12-12 02:48:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My ex wanted that but he wanted me with another man, to me this was a fanasy that could turn into a night mare. But if your just with your boyfriend and both want it go for it
2006-12-12 02:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by martha g 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first off datz twisted and what exactly is this other guy gonna be doin while you guys are at it and dont you think seeing you not juss naked but having sex he's not gonna hit on you. dont you think you gonna end up cheating on ur bf, but well what can i say if you are the type that loves gropies then itz up to you and ur bf.
2006-12-12 02:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by camden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT. Don't do it. Never do anything you "question" in your mind. You will regret it later if you do this. Your boyfriend sounds as if he does not respect your relationship if he is willing to share such a private and intimate moment.
2006-12-12 02:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would he want someone to watch? So they can give them advice? There's nothing wrong with it if everyone agrees, but I don't understand the motive here.
2006-12-12 02:46:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋