Now be honest people...sometimes..if your in love does it bother you that you may never sleep with another person again?? Can sex stay that fresh for years on end with the same person..what do you do to keep that way? Be totally honest!
2006-12-12 02:22:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OOhh...this ones hard to be honest on...
I love my hubby w/ all my heart, but yes, sometimes it bothers me that I'll never have sex with anyone else....
Sometimes I find myself attracted to someone else sexually, and I know it can never be more than a fleeting thought...
Also, yes sex w/ the same person, regardless of love can get old...especially when you fall into the routine of doing the same thing everytime.
For me, I allow myself the fantasy of other men... I remind myself of how damn sexy my hubby is, and i keep myself in good shape, because the sexier I feel in bed, the better the sex is.
2006-12-12 02:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by Shakira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the fact that you sleep and have sex with the same person each time is something very special. It shows and tells the person who you're with that you truly respect and love them and that all you need is them. That nobody else makes you as happy as they do.
With that said, if you have a trusting and strong relationship, you may want to ask each other if you'd both be willing to experiment and try new things TOGETHER, by maybe including another partner in the group once in a while.
If that's something you'd be interested in. But you BOTH have to agreed. If one of you doesn't want too, you respect they're decision and don't push the matter.
2006-12-12 10:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin . 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If ur in love...how cld u ever think of sleeping with another person? If u do, that's not love at all fyi. Yes...to me i can be faithful to one person for life...so it depends on ur partner as well, whether he/she is really committed in the relationship...and you can't find any ways to hold a person forever...people change and like i said...it depends on ur partner...if like me, i can do it but she can't....who knows maybe down the road after a few years she left...there is nothing u cld do right? And u did not plan it too, of cos u try to get her to stay but she insist on leaving...so to answer ur 2nd question....the answer is NO. To keep it that way, both must be compatible, understanding, trusting, give n take in all arguments...and try to solve any problems either/both encounters during a relationship. Hope this helps!
2006-12-12 10:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IHAVE BEEN MARRIED TO THE SAME MAN FOR OVER 28YRS OUR SEX LIFE IS GETS BETTER EVER DAY BECAUSE WE TRUELY DO LOVE EACH OTHER FOR ME HE HAS BEEN THE ONLY ONE I CANT IMAGINE ANYONE COULD PLLEASE ME SO WELL HE IS TENDER AND CARING AND SOMETIMES HE IS WILD AND DARING WE GO AWAY ON WEEKEND TRIP EVER NOW AND THEN TO GET THE REST OF LIFE OFF OUR MINDS WHEN OUR 3 SONS WERE YOUNG IT WAS HARD TO FIND TIME TO BE ALL THAT WE WANTED TO BE BUT WE STAYED UP LATE OR WOLE UP EARLY AND FOUND THE TIME FOR ONE ANOTHER THE WAY I SEE IT WE ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN EACH OTHERS LIFE AND WE BETTER LET EACH OTHER KNOW WHAT WE WANT AND WHEN AND WE BETTER LOVE EACH OTHER ENOUGH TO HAVE THE DESIRE WE NEED TO ENJOY EACHOTHER IN AND OUT OF THE BED ROOM WE HVE NEVER MESS AROUND OUT SIDE OUR MARRIAGE OR DO WE HAVE THE DESIRE TOO WE FILL WE ARE BLESSED TO HAVE EACH OTHER
2006-12-12 10:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 2 years. and with him about 7 years... yeah there has been times to where I felt that there wasn't enough excitement in our love life... especially after having a baby... But with Love comes Trust... and we have both learned to be completely honest about what we want in bed... We like to change it around every once in a while: different position, toys, and surroundings! It seems to work great for us... My favorite is when we go on a "Drive"... and park in the middle of nowhere! Try it.. Good luck!
2006-12-12 10:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt bother me at all, I honestly dont want to sleep with anyone else apart from the man I love. I slept with someone else once when we broke up and its my biggest regret. Sex with someone you love is so much better and if the sex is great then why would you want to sleep with anyone else anyway? I like the idea of just being with one guy for the rest of my life, I think its a nice idea.
2006-12-12 10:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL, IT WAS BOTHERING ME BEFORE I MET MY HUSBAND. OUR SEX IS THE GREATEST- IT'S REALLY A LOVE MAKING, NOT PLAIN SEX. EVEN IF I COULD SLEEP WITH OTHER PEOPLE WITHOUT HURTING HIM, I DON'T THINK I WOULD! IT WOULD BE JUST SEX, AND I HAD ENOUGH OF THAT! IT'S SO MUCH BETTER WHEN THERE ARE FEELINGS, REAL FEELINGS BEHIND IT! IT'S THE MOST DEEP AND INTIMATE WAY TO SHOW TO YOUR BELOVED ONE THAT YOU LOVE HIM!IN THAT CASE BOTH OF YOU FIRST THINK OF THE OTHER'S PLEASURE, NOT YOUR OWN, LIKE IT IS USUALLY IN THE CASUAL SEX. I ALSO KNOW THAT I WON'T FIND ANYTHING BETTER THAN MY HUSBAND, ANYONE THAT WOULD KNOW WHAT I LIKE MORE OR THAT WOULD WANT TO SATISFY ME MORE OR WHO CAN SATISFY ME MORE. FOR ME THE THOUGHT OF ME HAVING SEX ONLY WITH HIM IS REALLY GREAT! AND I AM SURE THAT INSTEAD OF GETTING ROUTINE OR WORSE IT WILL ONLY GET BETTER AS LONG AS WE BOTH WORK ON IT.
2006-12-12 10:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by Stella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it doesnt because w/the same person you really get to know each other and what they like. You try differant things together and you understand that person. Its easier to read the signs if they like it by how they are responding. Just because its the same person doesnt mean it cant be a differant adventure.
2006-12-12 10:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, I'm in love with my boyfriend of 2 years and we're not even close to getting bored with eachother or regret that we can't see other people. Maybe its cause we're so great in bed together and we keep it wild... sex should be fun, not work!
Once you find that person you can truly be sexually free with, where there are hardly any boundaries, then you won't miss the fact that they're the only person you'll be with :)
Good Luck!
2006-12-12 10:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by kisme86 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly: Two people that are truly in love, willing to be a little "creative" (not involving others) and uninhibited with eachother can actually have even better sex as time goes on.
2006-12-12 10:27:49 · answer #10 · answered by T S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋