Singles & Dating - 11 December 2006

2006-12-11 17:16:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been together for 1 year and 4 months. He cheated once and REALLY regretted it. Trust me on that one. Im trying to give background info because I hate the girls that post '0Mg iS hE cHeATiN Bc hE KisSd Mi fRiENddd??' that give you no other info. Anyways, he really regretted cheating, but a few days ago I checked his email (to find a sent one and make sure it went to the right email address, not to snoop) and there were emails from fling.com, and adult sex dating site. He has an account on there, he had for about 2 days before I found out. Its not really active at all, no pictures or info or pretty much anything. I made a fake account and messaged him to see if he would answer back... would you consider that as cheating? Or conspiring to cheat? I dont think he would again, but that really makes me mad he has this. I really love him, but I dont want to get cheated on. Was messaging him as another person wrong in your eyes?

2006-12-11 17:16:25 · 31 answers · asked by Bibsy 2

i'm hot and i'm nce. do i just spend too much time working? I admit i don't socialize much. what's up?

2006-12-11 17:16:10 · 5 answers · asked by luvspiritnature 3

One of my gal friends recently told me that she logged into her bf's email. (BF of 10 months). There she found emails to another girl. They said things like "damn your hot" "we should hang out" and "what do you do when you hook up?" she's really depressed over this all. Does that make him a jerk?

2006-12-11 17:15:58 · 6 answers · asked by JJ~girly girly 1

Hey what is some good music to listen to? I mostly like Rock, Punk Rock, Emo, Rap, Hip Hop, R & B, Pop. Some bands like

Evanescence
Chamillionaire
U2
P. Diddy
Christina Aguilera
Kanye West
Twista
Green Day
Nickel Back
Weird Al
Black Eyed Peas.....

a lot really...but anyway wat are some good songs i should download cuz i need sum good songs to listen to.


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2006-12-11 17:15:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I get really hot to the thought of other hot girls, but I don't feel very attracted to girls in person. I have fantasies, but now about specific girls. I love boys though, so am I a lesbian? I just get so hot when I get off thinking about girls.. Is something wrong with me?? Please answer and be specific.. I WILL CHOOSE BEST ANSWER.. Thanks!

2006-12-11 17:15:14 · 15 answers · asked by Janelle 1

Help! I don't want my best friend to know I like the same guy she likes 'cause that would totally ruin our friendship. I've liked him for 2 years and have managed to keep it a secret that long, but I just can't be quiet anymore! What would you do?

2006-12-11 17:12:48 · 13 answers · asked by Kristina 1

My dad recently moved out of our house and filed for devorce. He went and got himself a new mustang almost immeadiatly. He also has had two gf's in the past 3 months. Also he watches porn non stop. Is he a player?

2006-12-11 17:09:57 · 15 answers · asked by JJ~girly girly 1

Me and my guy been together and our sex life has been GREAT...but i left for college and came back two months later and we made love i mean everything was perfect...the atmosphere music and no one was home..and then i went back to college and came back home about two weeks later and we made love but this time it wasnt so great like the other times. It was still the perfect atmosphere, perfect music and everything but he couldnt stay on hard...do u think its because he cheated on me? He wasnt going through anything at the time that could make his mind roam...what is it

2006-12-11 17:09:43 · 15 answers · asked by Joi J 1

2006-12-11 17:08:40 · 23 answers · asked by Farshin Bintte M 1

i've had a crush on ,my best friend for awhile, we've known each other for 9 years. she wasn;t interested in a relationship, she didn't like me like that, but she did ask me to sleep with her. i don't f*cking get it.(i said no by the way) but she did break my heart, about 1 month ago i ended our friendship, doing my best to get over her. i know girls are attracted to confidence but i can't help it, or fake it. the guys she's attracted to are the a*ss holes, the woman beaters, the one's where my tax dollars will be paying for their prison cell. i loved her so much but she felt nothing for me, i knew. i'm not shy to meet other people but i just lack a sense of self-esteem and it's driving me F*cking nuts. last week i was just diagnosed with manic depression. i'm in a self destructive pattern now. i cut my wrists, (i also bite my wrists, make me bleed, i have abnormally sharp inscisors) i have like NO energy...(con't)

2006-12-11 17:08:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

One of my closest gal friends has confided in me and told me about her relationship problems. She wants to break up with her bf and move on but then again she doesn't. She likes her bf's best friends better than she likes him. She hates him at times and he treats he like crap sometimes. He makes her cry alot and he is always depressed around her. When he's with his friends he's fine. So whats your opinion what should she do?

2006-12-11 17:07:22 · 7 answers · asked by JJ~girly girly 1

2006-12-11 17:06:32 · 38 answers · asked by The Babe 2

2006-12-11 17:05:38 · 3 answers · asked by deni 1

We've been going out for 6 years. She has some serious confidence issues. She was made fun of growing up in school and hasn't been able to shake herself free from people taking advantage of her.I try my hardest to stick up for herself and to be her own person. And please understand, I'm not someone who gives up on people easily. But over the past year I've started to question whether we're meant to be together. I don't think I can help her anymore, the scars are too deep and my patience too short. I think it's awful that we argue now. Arguing because the frustration gets to me.
Citing examples would be make me out to be a fool. Because most of the things she does are mistakes that a six year old child would know to avoid.

Please help me.

2006-12-11 17:05:36 · 10 answers · asked by Seeking Guidance 1

Tomorrow is my boyfriends and i's 1 year anniversary. But I am not happy, he is to codependent on me and I have no friends, but I love him. He is nice and cares for me he just does not listen, change, think about things, or even consider what I want. I stay with him every night and i just sent him home crying cuz I dont know what to do. Somethimes I think it is just me.... some one out there with similar problem? My whole family likes him and I like his family, I think we just need some space, what to do? Help?

2006-12-11 17:05:27 · 1 answers · asked by rosesjkm 1

ok so i know ppl already sent me answers that abstinence is the best way
obviously i know that but if me and my gf were serious about it i want good opinions on good ways becuz despite what you might think im not stupid im not gonna get her pregnant. i want to find a really good way that works so we both dont regret it later
what really works good?

2006-12-11 17:04:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I have a boyfriend who's totally in love with me but I don't feel the same way about him. and there's some other guy I like that is really cute but I don't know if he likes me. I've been thinking of breaking up with him but I don't want to break his heart, but i'm not happy being with him either. How can I handle this? I'll take any advice.

2006-12-11 17:02:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-11 17:01:31 · 11 answers · asked by thisoneg1rl 1

my friend from abroad is saying tha he loves me too much and he cant live without me he says he will be unmarried for the rest of his life if i dont marry him but the main problem is that i dont love him how should i tell this to him he thinks that i too love him but thats no true

2006-12-11 16:59:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

He said his friends dragged him there, that he didn't have a good time & he was thinking about me the whole time. I asked him if he got dances, said no, but he tipped the girls.

Is he throwing me a load of crap? I found this out the day after, and I have no idea how to react. Should I let it go? Or should I be concerned?

2006-12-11 16:59:23 · 27 answers · asked by 8675309 1

Every one says that i am perfect, even too perfect. Ive even seriously been asked if i was a real Angel.

2006-12-11 16:58:48 · 5 answers · asked by samurai18wizard 1

I cant say that we were dating... the plan was to wait a year to ask her out when she turned 16. So until then we developed a really strong relationship that grew without any force. I'll admit she was perfect, now, though every one has their downs! We were both attractive and attracted alot of attention, though I made it clear that I only wanted to be w/her or that i'm taken. She would let the boys hang around her. I didn't have a prob w/ this until she made it clear that she was tryng to make me jealouse! (I stoped talkn to her.) There's more to the story, but. I still like this shorty, maybe more than just like cuz we were too close! I dated another gal and she stopped talking to me. Though I wanted to still be her friend. we havn't really talked in a year yet see each other alot. How should I let her know that I still care for her and that I want to continue our relationship. My mind says You cant get back w/her. I may say that Im over her but my heart cries out to her

2006-12-11 16:56:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this wonderful fiance named Mike. I love him dearly and he;s the only man whoever made me truely happy and special. He proposed to me onlyafter we dated for two months, and while some people might think that weird I really don't because my parents did it and they're still together 20 years later, Anyway we're not even getting married until late 2008 so we canmake sre we're meant to be and for other reasons. The problem isn't him or even my family, it'smy friends.
I've known these girls for years and everything I've done they supported unconditionally and vice versa for me.
They hate him, and they don't even really know him! And they will not make an effort to get to know him. One night they even ganged up on me in a resturant telling me he was no good for me and that I should dump him and I'm dumb for saying yes.
It hurts really bad to hear them say these thing about him. But yet they want to be part of the wedding and all that stuff. what should I do? Thank you

2006-12-11 16:55:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this girl right?...well she pretty much knows i kindda like her right?...but she told my ex-girlfriend she couldnt like me because she(x-gf) told this new girl that i was her first love and due to that(new girl) she has "respect" for her and cant like me, but i get this small feeling that shes kindda digging me. i dont know what i should do without risking our friendship...(new girl and me)
Please Please PLEASEEEE, I Beg A REAL ANSWER.
:(

2006-12-11 16:53:04 · 2 answers · asked by calvtjeremy15 1

The past year or so, a guy friend of mine has been very...friendly, to me. I was having a hard time so I didn't want to start a relationship or anything, so we were just friends. Lately I've been really starting to like him a lot more...but he's shorter than me. It looks kind of funny... what do you guys think? He's my best friend and we have a really strong connection. We're also pretty young. I'm done growing but I'm not sure about him. It's just kind of uncomfortable at times. Think it will still work out?

2006-12-11 16:51:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey I'm going out to a club this weekend and I'm not sure what to wear. I was thinking just jeans and a tanktop ... any suggestions?

2006-12-11 16:50:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

k i love my bestfriend. he said he likes me too but he also likes someone else. he refuses to tell me who though. what should i do?

2006-12-11 16:50:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many guys would want a genuine, long-lasting relationship with a girl who is saving her virginity for marriage? I'm a girl who is 21 years old, and I think that it will be very hard for me to find a guy who will be willing to make a geunie commitment to me since he would know that he ain't getting sex. I've dated guys but they seem to end it after a while, making up some excuse when I know that it's becuase of the no-sex thing.
Guys what do you think? Where can I guy who will want to commit to me?

2006-12-11 16:47:59 · 13 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1

is there a such thing as to much sex? im only 18 and ive been dating this girl off and on for almost a year and we have sex soemtimes up to 6 or 7 times a day or night sometimes only 1 but we have sex atleast once a day but is that to much. i actually lost my virginity to this girl when i first met her and ever since we jsut dont ever stop having sex. we never wear condoms ( I KNOW ITS TERRIBLE ) but when i first had sex with her we used them for the first couple times and thats it. she hates tehm and complains that either it hurts her or doesnt feel good at all. so of course i would cu*m real fast and i figured it would change after i had sex more often.. but really it didnt that much it went form about 5 minutes to only about 30 in a few months? i feel i cant satisfy my g/f becasue i cant have sex for hours even if i want to. and its real hard for her to have an orgasm unless we have sex a few times or for a long time.. would less sex help or make me Cu*m in a few minutes again?

2006-12-11 16:47:00 · 13 answers · asked by Josh 1