Singles & Dating - 7 December 2006

Two of my guy friends (friends only) who are very honest about how they feel about me. These two do not know each other but told me the same thing -they are obsessed with me and my voice- they call my work number at night and listen to my vm when they are doing their thing. What also freaks me out is my customer did the same thing and told me about it. It's been a year and these guys are still calling me at least once a week (caller Id log) when i come in to the office. I feel so bad for telling them to quit it. They told me their problem and the only thing they need is to hear my voice. Any suggestions?

2006-12-07 23:56:29 · 11 answers · asked by Friv 4

2006-12-07 23:56:29 · 14 answers · asked by mr_steve_ellis 1

I frequently review my daughter's on line journals without her knowledge scanning for situations that may be trouble. I have discovered correspondance and attempts to hook up with males she has met on line over 18, plans to be somewhere other than where she told me she was going etc. I never confront her. I just try to work it into one of those life lesson talks. I don't consider it snooping since it's on the net for all to see (if you have access) and look at it as another tool to give her more informed direction. What do you say?

2006-12-07 23:55:30 · 10 answers · asked by father of 4 husband of 1 3

me and my girlfriend love each other.. but we both are just 14 and we think itss true love... her mom came to know and she is ok with it but her mom says it infactuation and at 14 years of age love doesnt come.. is that true... if yes then whats the right age?

2006-12-07 23:55:30 · 12 answers · asked by nihal k 1

i really like this guy n its seens like he likes me but i am gurl so am i suppose to act shy around him or wat i want to ask him out but don't no how tell me how to act around him n wat to say to him

2006-12-07 23:55:01 · 3 answers · asked by lostgurl 1

i need help figuring out what to do its like i can't make important decisions for myself i broke up with my bf of 2 years last night then i called him back saying im sorry i didnt mean to do it...but then i just completly dropped all my reasons for doing it...my reasons were because i still feel like i can't be myself around him and im curiuos still of whats out there he said i cant just let him go and expect him back at my convenice, and that every single gf he had broke up with him the way i did thankin him 4 everything he has done then leaving i feel like the damage is done n i ****** up his head n now it won't be the same, but im not sad i just kinda feel like i cant think or feel i odnt know weather to get him back or move on he told me on the phone im loseing the greatest thing i ever had and he wants me to feel bad for breakin up that really made me think cuz he is an amazing guy theres just something about him that pushes me away its his confedence n attitude towards everythin

2006-12-07 23:54:40 · 6 answers · asked by Big Dawg 1

Last time I asked I don't think I gave enough details. The guy I am seeing is in his early 40's and I am a good deal younger than him. The problem is he has a live in girlfriend. I don't think they've been together to long (his wife died in '05) but long enough I feel bad sneeking around (I usually go see him while she's at work 2nd shift) but I do care about him and sometimes I feel like I can't help myself. We met in July and our relationship started in augest. I was supposed to go over there today but it's raining (that was yesterday today it's relatively clear) and the dreary mood got me thinking. Technically I'm not cheating anyway, right?
I know what he is and how he is I just can't keep myself from going back (I've only had sex with him twice). And as for my age I'm young enough I shouldn't be haveing this problem. I know there's a large chance he only wants one thing from me but sadly it doesn't bother me. (Also, I heard she was cheating on him) I just don't know what to do.

2006-12-07 23:54:25 · 7 answers · asked by AJ 2

But i like to have free sex without condom. So how can i select a boy with out sextual disease with out asking him to go for a medical check up .

2006-12-07 23:53:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-07 23:52:05 · 13 answers · asked by Tom 1

2006-12-07 23:51:53 · 9 answers · asked by Waineo G 1

I come to work from other country, currently renting a room with my roommate(bestfren), I am in a dilemma whether to leave her alone (she doesnt have many frens here). And I worry that once I move in i'll have to stay with his parents for long-term which I try to avoid.

2006-12-07 23:51:34 · 5 answers · asked by Yilin 1

i meet girls and they say they dont do this and that and the when i hook up with them 2 weeks later they do what they say they dont do.

2006-12-07 23:49:59 · 8 answers · asked by Dr. love 1

i love a sweet boy n he also loves me but i m feared about him i think when he found a better girl than me he will leave me .... but i know he is so nice person n before me he has also 3 girl frnds ...... n he is a honest person he tells me her past life truly i love that thing but i dont know y i think like that ............

2006-12-07 23:49:06 · 7 answers · asked by fizajatts 1

she has chipped black nails as she writes a song
about a boy who in her heart belongs
but he doesnt reconise her and couldnt care less
dosent even notice when shes dressed her best
she cant take it anymore!
heart is messed up than ever before
she cant remember the last time she was happy
nobody knows but deep down she feels crappy
tired of living tired of breathing
tired of spending all night greiving
you see this girl has never been liked
not even when she tryed with all her might
tell her shes beautiful
tell her you care
stop lying to her its not very fair
make her feel happy
make her feel strong
make her feel as if she belongs

2006-12-07 23:48:01 · 16 answers · asked by you. 3

he won't leave me alone and he makes me look bad in class
he's cursing out every one even me

2006-12-07 23:46:57 · 12 answers · asked by kiki howa 1

Do u tolerate a guy who is arrogant , a guy who brags about his money and all that stuff. I think it's unacceptable . What's ur view on this.

2006-12-07 23:46:16 · 3 answers · asked by mommy2be 3

Last night my bf said that ONLY White dirty wh*res or white trash would sleep with black men. He continued to say that he, wouldn't ever date or even touch a white girl, if he knew that she had slept with a black guy, neither would all his white male friends. Do all white men think the same?

2006-12-07 23:46:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this girl at my work, and recently i told her i liked her and asked her out on a date. she said she liked me too, but didnt want to upset her friend Anna because she said that she had "claimed" me first. what should i do...i dont even know Anna anyways.

2006-12-07 23:45:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-07 23:43:46 · 3 answers · asked by Fujinakawa 1

Ok why do guys try to act tough and uncaring when their around their friends? You see when my boyfriend and me broke up he always treated my like crap when his dumb friends were around but when it was just me and him, he would tell me how much he loves me and how much he wants me back!! It bugged the hell outta me and now I want to know why he treated me like that!! Why do guys do things like that when their friends are around?

2006-12-07 23:43:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 10 years and I have been faithful but have grown bored. I want to have an affair. Any tips for how to find a partner and keep it discrete?

2006-12-07 23:43:30 · 16 answers · asked by joe 1

2006-12-07 23:40:36 · 21 answers · asked by deepa 1

2006-12-07 23:40:28 · 11 answers · asked by devildog_3025 1

Please can others share their view, am in wrong in believing that a woman can love a man very much ,but if this man takes this for granted, everything is all one way, never really feeling that she is good enough and always trying to win approval yet they still have fun but when another man comes along and shows interest ,understanding and a willing to be there when needed, should both parties take take responsibility that there have been reasons why an affair may have happened or is all the womans fault and she is branded a cheat liar and disloyal for the rest of her time with him

2006-12-07 23:38:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-07 23:37:27 · 17 answers · asked by lost_alone05 1

2006-12-07 23:37:26 · 12 answers · asked by william j 1

I'm bassically the really shy girl but once I get to know someone I talk a lot. I'm sort of serious like I don't like it when people joke around like Oh my gosh i'm just gonna kill myself or I feel like killing someone. or stuff like that. I'm also kind of emotional, I put myself in the shoes of people in movies and in real life. like i'll just bethinking 'could you imagine the pain?what about their family? Oh my gosh it would have been freaky seeing that.' and stuff like that. I can never seperate myself from stuff like that. I'm sure a lot of guys don't like serious people like that but that's how I am I guess...so please give me tips on anything to get boys to notice me...and please nothing perverted...i'm in highschool.

2006-12-07 23:33:55 · 15 answers · asked by DreamfullAngel 1

2006-12-07 23:33:47 · 13 answers · asked by lost_alone05 1

Is it the first love that is real love or the last? How many times can a person really fall in love??

2006-12-07 23:30:21 · 6 answers · asked by petra 1

Been with him for around 6 1/2 months now, and even though the love is there- the spark isn't. I was depressed for a while and that had a big impact on the relationship including and now that i feel that im getting over that hump- everything is more apparent.
I have no real sexual desire anymore, the relationship is going stale because he isnt working and we never go out anywhere except to see his relatives or back to mine and watch TV. When we do go out, I end up paying for everything- while not a big problem, it does annoy me when we go to a restaurant and i'll have a salad and he'll have an entire chicken platter.

He also expects me to spend all my free time on him, doing the above or he feels like im indifferent about seeing him or that I dont care. He's constantly needing reassurance and affection to the point where he's missing me after a couple of hours or a day.

It's not like i dont love him, but im feeling suffocated to the point where i want to avoid him...Any advice?

2006-12-07 23:29:56 · 12 answers · asked by Peachy 2