me and my girlfriend love each other.. but we both are just 14 and we think itss true love... her mom came to know and she is ok with it but her mom says it infactuation and at 14 years of age love doesnt come.. is that true... if yes then whats the right age?
2006-12-07 23:55:30 · 12 answers · asked by nihal k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I thought i was in love with this boyfriend of mine, we were inseperable, I was so blinded by this strange feeling, and i was 16. Since then, i have had two more great loves of my life, and that first one will always be in my memory, but life around me changed my course and i am not disappointed about where i ended up. I realized that i must not have been in true love with him because i got older, i changed to who i have become now, which is not what i was then. So dont rush things being so young.It takes a while before you know what you really feel, just go about your life normally as if she isn't there, what i mean is finish school, go to colledge, even if its very far from her, get your carreer going and if you and her are still together after all that, than i gotta say, it is meant to be. and that is when you will know.
2006-12-08 00:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, there is no generalised definition of what true love is. If what you're feeling seems like true love then it could be. Don't let people belittle what you're feeling. Admittedly, you're young so a lot of people out there think that love at such a young age is probably not true love. They could be right or they could be wrong. Its all about what you and your girlfriend are feeling. Maybe it will last or maybe it won't but make the memories last because when you get older and you guys are together or probably not together you can look back and think that at 14 I found true love with this girl. Life and love are all about the moments. Enjoy yours.
2006-12-08 00:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever the girls mom is saying is true.. this is just infactuation.. i dont think true love ever comes in school days.. even in college u ll never find true love... i think after 18 yrs all of us definately fall in love... anyways in ur case its good that that u know the girl from such a small age... u ll have to know abt her in a much better way.. and when will spend time with each other at that time u will really be in love wid her.. its that time in life when u ll be able to do anythin for her... best of luck for ur future..
2006-12-08 00:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by tanmay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what her mom is saying is that you haven't been around enough to know what true love is and, she doesn't want to start raising your babies while you two are still going to school. She doesn't want to be tied down again, like she was raising you, raising your family because you can't get a job, you can't find anyone that will hire you, your wife will be too young for anything.
Get a grip on life, slow down now, I would if I were you and think about things, nothing I can say here in a few minutes is going to change you.
2006-12-08 00:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i imagine that genuine love can come into your existence at any element, you could not administration once you'll fall in love. some human beings meet the affection of their existence at 14, some meet them at 27? it somewhat relies upon. A courting between both ought to very last continuously, yet even though it may not. yet in the journey that they are you're genuine love you'll adore them for a lengthy time period (properly thats whats got here about to me)
2016-11-30 07:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is sticking to each other through thick and thin, especially during the hard times. It means sacrificing for the sake of the one you love, to put their needs ahead of your own.
2006-12-08 00:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by WC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it is not all true i think you could be in love you just have not dated alot of girls so you dont know for sure love comes all sorts of age of shape size it really dose not matter
2006-12-08 00:01:47 · answer #7 · answered by murphy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, yeah it's true. You and/or her will change your minds when you both decide that your individual paths in life clash later on down the road.
2006-12-07 23:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how old you are, if you're really in love and it feels right. Just listen to your heart.
I wish you the best.
2006-12-08 00:02:54 · answer #9 · answered by amandarosallyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is not love is lust. the age could be 20
2006-12-07 23:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by sweet girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋