Last time I asked I don't think I gave enough details. The guy I am seeing is in his early 40's and I am a good deal younger than him. The problem is he has a live in girlfriend. I don't think they've been together to long (his wife died in '05) but long enough I feel bad sneeking around (I usually go see him while she's at work 2nd shift) but I do care about him and sometimes I feel like I can't help myself. We met in July and our relationship started in augest. I was supposed to go over there today but it's raining (that was yesterday today it's relatively clear) and the dreary mood got me thinking. Technically I'm not cheating anyway, right?
I know what he is and how he is I just can't keep myself from going back (I've only had sex with him twice). And as for my age I'm young enough I shouldn't be haveing this problem. I know there's a large chance he only wants one thing from me but sadly it doesn't bother me. (Also, I heard she was cheating on him) I just don't know what to do.
2006-12-07 23:54:25 · 7 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think u should get ur self a man, dat will be der for u and want u for everything ur worth
2006-12-07 23:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ree Ree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make him a ultimatum he ether leaves his girl friend for you or you don't see him any more, if his not willing to leave the girl friend then the more time you spend with him the harder it going to be for you. Your the only one how going to get there heart broken. I would think twice before going there again. your young and there lots of fish in the sea.
2006-12-08 00:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lara <:(((>< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since i have been there, i can lend this advice to you, i would say if i were you i think you should break it off while you can and arent so attached since he has the live in its obvious what he is after and if he really cared as much as he might say he does he wouldnt lead you both on and whats to say if they split and you were to move in he might do it to you.i think you should find someone who is going to put you on top of things and not make you 2nd best you deserve more than that. good luck and hope this helps.
2006-12-07 23:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by ladybug7172004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you going for such an older man?.... thats the first problem. First get rid of the problem, which is him, you just a lay to him and apparently you say you don't care, which shows your a slut(no offense) and try going to clubs and finding a REAL man thats worth keeping thats around your age.
2006-12-07 23:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Iceman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you are not cheating...your just the other woman, in what Im sure is a long line. Leave the guy alone, and find your OWN man.
2006-12-07 23:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't only want one thing from you. He wants two or three.
You know you're sneaking around and you know you're not important enough to him for him to be with you openly.
Move on :)
2006-12-07 23:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater... you should stop seeing him cause at last it will devastate you..
2006-12-07 23:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋