Singles & Dating - 7 December 2006

What's wrong with me?

2006-12-07 17:09:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dated my girlfriend for nine months, and yes i am young to be worrying about these things, regaurdless, i've fallen in love and I would do anything to get it back. We tried things back together for a little bit, but she said it just wasnt the same. There isnt any other particular reason she broke up with me. I always surprised her with things i would make and flowers, I kept things fun, we hung out once a week. and the past month she seemed really irritated with me, but things still seemed to be going ok. I know i am a nice guy, because i've never cheated on her, and im quick to forgive her about anything, and i'd give her anything to make her happy. I just want her to know that, and i've told her, but it still hasnt sunk in. She wants space, but its very hard for me. I love this girl to the ends of the earth, but she says she doesn't see us back together in the future, just as good friends, and she said that last part very inconfidently. is there something i can do to get her back?

2006-12-07 17:08:00 · 5 answers · asked by Alex 2

he just crushed my love sick heart.. how do i put it back together...?

make me feel better...

2006-12-07 17:07:51 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

does that make any sense?

2006-12-07 17:07:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. how to explain this on a web page:
this guy that i was totally in love with and was the best girlfriend to betrayed me and i found out by one of his friends. after i broke up with him and confronted him about the infidelity...after that he proposed to me. i declined the ring and told him that i would contiue to be his girlfriend. within the next month i was breaking up with him and then getting back with him and was treating him like a yo-yo. and during a break he met a girl. however i finally told him that i was ready to be with him and i was going to forgive and forget. HOWEVER, i found out he continued an illicit relationship with her after he asked me to move in with him and once again asked me to be his wife... we went for weeks without talking and he called me yesterday and asked to be my friend., however he asked me out on a date again and wants to obviously be with me once again. oncef a chaeater, always a cheater? please sombody have an answer to my problem!

2006-12-07 17:05:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

The law of large numbers argues that, when a large enough sample is drawn, the sample value is closer and closer to the true value as the sample size and frequency increases, so therefore, could it also said to be true that, in order for you to find the counter part or your other half can only be closer to the true counter part by dating more?

2006-12-07 17:05:03 · 3 answers · asked by sunsetconmartini 2

My gf of 3years broke up with me over 5-months ago. It was rocky towards the end; constant arguing. I wasn't perfect; overprotective and smothering at times. I never thought she would end it. But she did-claiming she had enuf and didn't want to be in a relationship with me or anyone. Initially, she stopped all contact with me. However we ended up seeing each other a few times and were intimate. That has all stopped. She has now asked me not to contact her; I struggle with this. I can go a week with no contact, then I go on a binge. I contact her repeatedly, phone, text, email, she doesnt respond, but I do this anyways. It;s been 5mos. and I'v been on a few dates but nothing sticks. I'm plaugued with thoughts of her. I barely get through a day without being upset. Through friends I have found out she is socially active, partying a lot, but not seeing anyone. I clearly am still not over her; but she is way over me. She's not comin back. But I still feel compelled to hear her voice. why?

2006-12-07 17:03:15 · 10 answers · asked by jackrabb1616 1

I 've been going out with this boy for about 2 weeks and I think i'm fallin for his best friend...How should I tell my bf I wanna see other people?

2006-12-07 17:02:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-07 17:01:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'd like to give something very romantic and special for a girl that I really like.

2006-12-07 17:00:21 · 12 answers · asked by love 3

A guy I was dating asked me the following:

Do you think people can make love to one person but be thinking about another?

I said: I think it's possible, sure.

He says: I could never do that.

What is he trying to tell me here? That he could never cheat or that he can only think about the person that he is with at that moment? Or is he just asking weird questions? What do you think because I thought it was kinda weird...

2006-12-07 16:59:31 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2

i already got her a ring and i plan on proposing but i need more. i dont wanna jsut give ehr that.

2006-12-07 16:59:18 · 30 answers · asked by joslynndenny 1

Ok...this guy I met is everything I ever wanted. We are really good friends, but he has no clue I feel anything for him. Aaand...here's the other problem. Much bigger problem. He has a girlfriend! NOW WHAT. *sigh*...

2006-12-07 16:57:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother seems to think that having sex in relationships is what they should be about. He doesn't understand that there's more to it than just doing the beast on two backs... anyone's opinion is greatly appreciated....

2006-12-07 16:56:13 · 17 answers · asked by g13player 1

How do I ask a girl to be my girl friend? What should I say? And how should I say it? What if I'm not confident to say it face-to-face?

2006-12-07 16:55:50 · 14 answers · asked by Jared C 1

My partner and i both work in manager positions so are pretty flat out yet i do 90% of the cooking/cleaning. How should i approach this issue? thanks

2006-12-07 16:55:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

In movies and even ice skating and real life, guys are seen many times lifting and carrying girls, not because they are demanded but just for fun it seems.I'm only in high school, and for no reason at my guy friends will just come behind me and pick me up for no reason. When I was sitting in my guy friend's desk, he wanted to sit there so he simply picked up the ENTIRE desk (the chair I was sitting in was connected to it) and moved me across the room to free his spot. He could have just asked me to move. This is not only done with teens, grown up guys will run and pick up their wives when they have good news or something. Do y'all enjoy doing this? Why or why not ? Why do guys enjoying lifting girls in the first place? Do you pick up girls alot?

2006-12-07 16:54:41 · 9 answers · asked by susie q 2

I really like this guy n i think he don't like the same way i do. I just feel like my heart is broken into little pieces. dunno how to cope with it. Because lately i've thinkin but i might not to give up on guys because i've liked guys n most don't feel the way.

2006-12-07 16:54:27 · 9 answers · asked by LiL'BiNt 3

I met this guy a little over a year ago and we dated for 8 months so I guess we were in a relationship but things had gotten too intense and his expectations were very high, I was very busy with school, work, and being a single mom, we also live two hours away each other, we remained friends and talked occasionally. There were hurt feelings he basically resented me. This past summer I was accepted to a nursing school near where he lived and I thought maybe we could start over with me living closer but I feel like he is using me since I have been here. We are talking but it is not consistent, its off and on. When were together its all good, we have fun, we have good sex but then sometimes he doesn't return my phone calls, not all the time but once is enough! I dont think that he trusts me. I have told him how I feel. It has not made a difference, I was just over his house 2 days ago. Now he is not calling me back, but when he does call he acts like nothings wrong. Is he using me for sex

2006-12-07 16:54:15 · 6 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4

I mean she not be able to date anyone until she is 18

2006-12-07 16:52:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think of them? Are they wife/girlfriend potential?

2006-12-07 16:52:45 · 9 answers · asked by panicky25! 2

The last time I talked to my boyfriend we had a great conversation and we even talked about my next visit (we live in different places). Nothing seemed out of the ordinary and he told me he loved me, etc. But since then (two weeks ago) he has not called me or answered any of my phone calls. Two weeks isn't too big of a deal for me except for the fact that I left three messages, one even asking him to call me back.

Background: We just had a rough patch for about a month with communication and he thought that I broke up with him, but I had thought that we resolved it. About a month ago we resolved the whole misunderstanding though. He did say he needed to think a little bit though (which I understand due to the circumstances)...and I think he is the type that needs space for that...does that seem okay or should I be worried about now?

What could be up? In the past he has mentioned me moving to his city in the future and in the last convo even hinted at marriage...I'm confused...

2006-12-07 16:51:51 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2

Ever since I got pregnant by him, things have changed. We used to go it all the time. Now he tells me that he isn't much of a kisser. What is going on? please help!Why doens't he want to french me anymore? It's not like I have bad breath or anything. I always make sure that I'm fresh.

2006-12-07 16:50:33 · 19 answers · asked by natasha m 2

Look into your heart and tell me what you see.
Am I still on your mind; are you thinking of me?
Do you wake in the night and let out a sigh?
Do you whisper my name and wonder why;
I can't be there with you tonight?
With you in my arms, holding you tight?

Do you believe in the miracle of Love
Do you believe in you
Do you believe in Love
Do you believe it could happen to you

Take me in your arms, don't ever leave
With you in my arms, I'll make you believe!
I believe in Love, always and forever.
I believe in us, you and I together.
I can't believe Love is pain,
You have everything to lose and nothing to gain.
Tell me you believe and look into my eyes...
Do you believe... I'm not like the other guys?

Hold on tight, for I've given you my heart;
Heart and soul from the very start.
For your Love, I'll wait forever
With all my heart, I believe we'll be together.
Tell me you believe Love is bliss,
That you can believe in the magic of our first kiss.
Answer me one question, now, before I leave...
Tell me, Do You Believe?

2006-12-07 16:50:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

We talked about being more and decided definitely to remain friends. She has been a friend of mine for years. Just lately she has become a good friend, but she made a joke with some kids about me being her boyfriend. She also said that she was glad she had "less competition" when I mentioned I do not know many girls near where I live. Tonight, at a meeting though, she touched me more than ever. At the end our legs even started touching, and she leaned into me so that our hips and body were touching. She was also touching my upper leg a lot as well. What does she want?

2006-12-07 16:50:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my mom are having our "differences" and not seeing eye to eye now and it's really affecting my relationship with my girlfriend. We talk about what we wanna do over the weekend and both our parents say ok, but when the time comes around for it to be done, my mom "coincidentally" has some other event, sale, or shopping she has to do. Then after she's done, she'll ask me if i still want to go when whatever we were going to do would be about over or too late to do (like the movies, the mall, even hanging out at her house). I know my gf's pretty mad over this but I don't know what to say or do to my mom. I try to do what she says and get decent grades(A's, B's, very few C's) so that i can go on the weekends and not have anything else to do but it never works out. What else is there to try? It's not like i can sit down and talk to her one on one because she's not that type of person you can do that with and not end up raising our voices, so i'm stuck.

2006-12-07 16:48:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seeing this guy for 5 months now and tomorrow is his birthday. I am trying to think of something sweet to do for him. I have bought him something already but I was thinking about sending him flowers.. But, do guys actually like getting flowers?? And if so what kind??? Or does anyone else have any other suggestions I can do for him while I am at work and he is home, he has the day off tomorrow. Thought it would be nice to have him open the door and see flowers or is that something only a girl would wanna see??? Please help

2006-12-07 16:48:09 · 28 answers · asked by HLyn1681 1

2006-12-07 16:47:44 · 14 answers · asked by DJ Spinbadd 1

I luv a girl since 5 years, ya she also luv me, but she always does things she like to do. Now a days she talks 2 me lees than previous, she says she was busy(i high school girl is so busy that she had no tym to talk with me!). A lot of guys became friend 2 her. I feel insecure just bcoz I luv her n I can't live wothout her, I can do anything 4 her. she is not beautiful but I luv her, I don't know y?
She says to trust her, ya I trust her, but her behaviour is changing, now a days she stops me to luv her(physically), how can I trust her?
She never feels sorry after hurting my feelings, still she says she luv me more than I do.
Once our relation was so good that every couple felt jelous watching our relationship. But now she also believe that our ralation going to destroy coz we always fight with small things, How can I tell her that the small things of life and luv are so necessary.
I wanna get her back, I wanna make our relationship like everbefore, plzz tell me wht should I do plzzzz

2006-12-07 16:46:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been dating with the sweetest guy ever... we were friends before for 6 months. i like him more than a friend, i thought i love him, but when he started to kiss me and hug me i felt wrong, i didnt feel happy, i felt like he was using me (even if i still liked his touch) and i started to questioning my feeling for him, suddenly i didnt feel inlove. I dont know whats wrong with me, or maybe i feel the burden that his love for me is loads bigger than mine for him.

2006-12-07 16:46:02 · 8 answers · asked by liana 1