Singles & Dating - 7 December 2006

A large guy one year ahead of me in school, grabs my butt almost everytime I pass him. He does this to ZERO other girls at school. He usually wants hugs from me too, and he always picks me up when he does and sometimes he even swats my butt or asks me to wrap my legs around him (we're in SCHOOL for God's sake!) Today when he saw me, he hugged me, as usual and lifted me high into the air (he usually just picks me up) with his arms outstretched. I'm 5'2 and 110 lbs, he's about 5'11 250 lbs, about twice my size and before he claimed that he likes picking me up so much just because I'm small, but there are plenty of hott girls at my school who are my size. Now he says it stimulates him. What exactly does he want to do with me and why does he keep picking me up?



I am aware that this is sexual harassment and I do plan on confronting someone, but what is he trying to say to me when he does this? What does he want from me? Why is he picking me up? To show off?

2006-12-07 16:00:34 · 7 answers · asked by susie q 2

Will I get the record number of answers for my question above?

2006-12-07 15:59:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

4 yrs ago my guy left me, and the very next day began a serious relationship with a girl he had stopped dating to be with me. (They're still together and getting married in a few months-this news has made the following feelings) I've been married to my hubby (whom i love) for 2 yrs & I have a beautiful 16 mth old baby, but I can't get over this feeling of wanting my ex & his girl to be unhappy. I just feel like I want him to go thru what I did, I never thought they'd last because their relationship started out dishonestly. Where is justice? He was my life, then one day it was over. I wanted to die. I was in & out of the hospital for panic attacks & put on suicidewatch. For 2 yrs ALL i did was go to work & home. I was messed up. Im mad because I suffered & want justice. Where's karma? So now I just want to get over this & forgive/forget & get rid of those scars my ex gave me. I'm shaken up over how much this is effecting me, I want to cut that time of my life out of my mind

2006-12-07 15:58:36 · 6 answers · asked by no one 2

2006-12-07 15:57:15 · 12 answers · asked by violet46 3

I dated this this girl for 3 years. Lived togather for 2 years we been split up 2 months and i havnt moved on. Our relationshup had alot of jealousy issues on both of our part Is it normal to let your gf go out all night with friends and bars cause i didnt let her i kinda feel like she has a life too. Other hand she wouldnt let me do it either so we broke up. She still calls mme but usuallygets mad cause i tell her that i miss her she says if i want anything then i need to not be so jealousand controlling. I understand what she is saying do you think she really wants to try again??

2006-12-07 15:57:13 · 10 answers · asked by Confused 1

My darling husband died last year after months of fighting lung cancer He was the love of my life and I have been very lonely without him. I don't know if I am ready for a relationship yet but I do know I do not want to spend the rest of my life alone. I would like to find someone to love who would love me back, or maybe I just want some company. Is it too soon to feel that way?

2006-12-07 15:56:17 · 14 answers · asked by CindyLu 7

ok. So I started going out with this guy, Chris, back in May. And I've liked him since the first time I met him back in 2002. But he was going out w/ this girl for 6 1/2 years and they were engaged for a year and a half. Well, once they were done, we hung out and became involved. Well, we went out for almost 5 months and the first 2 1/2 months were GREAT and we loved each other. And than he came to me and told me that he cheated on me w/ his ex and this is when he became distant. And stopped hanging out w/ me and seeing me as often. Well. I told him that if he was willing to work on this relationship, than I was, and because he came to me about the situation right away, I gave him a second chance. And we went out for another month and a half or so. And than all of a sudden, back in September, he broke up w/ me. And I'm crushed because I love him so much and don't understand how things could get so bad so fast. I want to know if he'll come back to me. I feel he's the one.

2006-12-07 15:55:52 · 14 answers · asked by Justine M 1

Exhibit A: about 3 years older than me, in a rock band, part of my social circle. We've sort of dated off and on for about a year, but never with the title... he's still very unsure that he wants to commit to us. We're both aware that we may never get together "officially." Yet we're both very attracted to one another.

Exhibit B: A new interest, sort of... little less than a year younger than me, involved in the same activities. He recently got out of a relationship, but we're both attracted. We're good friends and work together... we're just not sure whether we want to date or what.

2006-12-07 15:55:28 · 14 answers · asked by centralwimusic 3

also, why was this question removed before?

2006-12-07 15:54:55 · 24 answers · asked by lovelyladypoet 3

Have you ever sat on someone's face who you were not friend going out with?

2006-12-07 15:52:43 · 2 answers · asked by Pep Streebeck 1

Last week i did this prank to the guy i liked. I left a thong (never wore it) in his car antena with a letter saying to meet me there the next night cause i wanted him to fu*k me in his car. So i told him to meet me at 11pm. So i went and hid, i wanted to see if he would actually go. About half an hour went by, but no one came. SO i left with my cousin, she was there with me. Then i went to my house and wanted to go back. i wanted to pass through his housed. So we went and were standing right next to his car when he walked in. Me and my cousin were shocked and just moved to another car, he was there like for 5 minutes and then he left. We never meant for him to know it was me. Should i talk to him, or no, i really like him. Once he said how come i never said hi, and after that he never said hi to me Does he like me, or what?

2006-12-07 15:52:01 · 3 answers · asked by lizx002 3

This guy that I've been dating for 10 months and known for 3 years has still not told me that he loves me. He has never had a serious relationship before. He calls me all the time, will send me text messages in the morning saying "Good morning, beautiful" and messages at night saying sweet dreams. He even started to take me hunting with him, which is his ultimate passion! His parents took and picture of us in our camo and he got them developed and gave me one of us in a frame! I told him that I loved him about a week ago and he just told me that he "definitely cares for me a lot" What in the world?? Oh he has also told me that I was "growing on him"!!! Even his friends talk about how crazy he is for me and ask when we are getting married. Do you think he loves me by his actions and is just afraid to say it?? Keep in mind that his mom told me that his dad did not tell her he loved her until their wedding day!!! What should I do, is it worth hanging in there for?

2006-12-07 15:50:36 · 17 answers · asked by missinghim 1

If not, mail me i shall introduce myself ....

2006-12-07 15:50:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-07 15:50:07 · 38 answers · asked by diamondg4u2c 3

youknow who you are tell me you love me......you are the greatest thing in my life and i love you .
anyone else out there in love like me?? if so tell them here how you feel...

2006-12-07 15:49:32 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2

with me for christmas?

2006-12-07 15:49:30 · 7 answers · asked by diamondg4u2c 3

Ok, so me and my girlfriend have been getting along pretty well but as of lately shes been a little distant, so i asked her what was wrong, and she said that our relationship is straying away from the way it used to be. At first me and her we really good friends and id joke a lot but not she says that is going away and that she thinks that i see her just as a girlfriend now and not a friend anymore. How do i fix this?

2006-12-07 15:48:37 · 3 answers · asked by Tom F 1

my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 months and hes 20 and im 16 i really want to get him something great for christmas but what should i get him?....also his birthday is coming up one the 31 what should i get him for that? i really want to get him something that makes him say wow she really does care?

2006-12-07 15:47:56 · 12 answers · asked by Princessbrj 1

k heres my problem my ex we went out for about 10 months and we really had something you know but her family and friends do not like me at all. because of this she broke up with me and for about a month or two we have been going out off and on she tells me that she loves me and no matter what she has said that she does and breaking up with me was the biggest mistake of her life. k heres some more to add on she now has a boy friend and she said that he treats her badly and all he wants is sex. and she is wanting to go out with me just as friends but not tell him i dont know i what to do should i go back out with her or will she just dump me again as soon as i trust her

2006-12-07 15:46:00 · 10 answers · asked by jbird 2

so my boyfriend and i been dating for a long time. we r starting to get sexually bored. what can we do to spice it up. please nothing too nasty and we want tastefull suggestions. thank u

2006-12-07 15:45:19 · 8 answers · asked by jess 1

I recently met a guy that I really like. He's funny, smart, ambitious, generous, and we have really good conversations. He's crazy about me, and I feel good about him too. The only thing is that I'm not crazy about his looks. He dresses nice, he has great personal hygiene, but I'm just not attracted to his face. I know that sounds mean, but it's true. He's just not my type, physically. Aside from the looks though, the brotha has it going on. In my heart, I feel that I should try to make it work with my ugly man, but some people advise that I should not be with someone who is not attractive in my eyes.
I've dated handsome men in the past, but they were either jerks, cheaters, broke, or on the downlow. This guy seems different, but he's just not a looker. So, my question is: Is it necessary to be physically attracted to someone in order to be or stay with them?

I appreciate your answers.

2006-12-07 15:45:13 · 15 answers · asked by clf224 1

Help the condom broke again i just took plan B yesterday all help would be great?
Help asap it is about plan B birth control?
i took my second plan b tablet yesterday because the condom broke the other day i just had the condom break again i have really bad luck i guess do i need to go and get a new set or am i ok. I just dont know if it is still in my system i am expecting to have my period on the 13th so i do not even know if i am ovulating all help would be nice even if you only know a little info on the subject thank you

2006-12-07 15:44:40 · 8 answers · asked by mia j 1

Help me out pls

2006-12-07 15:44:21 · 15 answers · asked by Peter X. Long 2

I’m 20 and I have this friend who’s 23, I’ve known her for like 2 years and I’ve always found her extremely attractive. But recently I've been unable to deny that I am completely in love with her.
We spend lots of time together and got along “partner in crime” style and she’s ******* HILARIOUS.
I’ve hit on her a couple times before and she always responds well, like she giggles and twirls her hair and such (that’s good, right?).
I know that she my very good friend. but does she love me back? How do I tell?

I know people are going to say “just tell her!”, but there are PROBLEMS.
She has a boyfriend who’s 33 that she’s been dating for like 3 years and she gets along with him super well (so do I actually). On top of that IF I were to tell her and she didn’t feel the same way not only I would be DEVISTATED but I know that we may not ever be able to get along the same way we do now.
I cannot deny the fact that I love this girl, so "letting it go" is no good.
HELP ME PLEASE!

2006-12-07 15:42:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really like this guy at my school. He's in 2 of my classes and I talk to him a lot. I really like him, but he has a girlfriend who goes to a different school. It seems like he likes me back.

I want to go to senior ball with him in Febuary(he isn't taking his girlfriend). How do I ask him or give him hints to ask me?

2006-12-07 15:41:57 · 13 answers · asked by Jeni 1

Do you mind your wife or girlfriend is not virgin when first meet her?

2006-12-07 15:39:22 · 5 answers · asked by Boat 1

The 1st time he told me he loved me i said ***** no u dont and he was like yea i really do. the second time he told me i said what evea and blew it off the 3rd time i said it back cus i do luv him but im not in luv u feel me but he's inluv wit me. i dont want to hurt his feeling's and retell him that i dont luv him in the way he luvs me cuz now he gon feel like i was playing with his emotions or just telling him what he want to her . i know i should'nt have done what i did just help!!!

2006-12-07 15:38:48 · 20 answers · asked by dimples74106 1

my last two serious boyfriends told me that people tell me I am beautiful just to be nice or for sympathy. Is this true and do you walk up to people (strangers) or go out of your way to tell a girl that she is beautiful to be nice to her or sympathetic?

2006-12-07 15:37:08 · 14 answers · asked by tramany77 2

My boyfriend and I've (we're both 19) been together for about 2 months now, and my parents know that I've been "hanging out" with him. The thing is, my mom in particular keeps telling me to not take everything too seriously, and she keeps telling me to just be good friends and stuff. How do I tell her that we're actually serious with each other when it seems she still doesn't want me to have a boyfriend? Also, my parents are the traditional type, and quite over-protective...

2006-12-07 15:36:27 · 17 answers · asked by Crystal 2

because he have other that i know about.

2006-12-07 15:34:26 · 19 answers · asked by cherishme 1