A large guy one year ahead of me in school, grabs my butt almost everytime I pass him. He does this to ZERO other girls at school. He usually wants hugs from me too, and he always picks me up when he does and sometimes he even swats my butt or asks me to wrap my legs around him (we're in SCHOOL for God's sake!) Today when he saw me, he hugged me, as usual and lifted me high into the air (he usually just picks me up) with his arms outstretched. I'm 5'2 and 110 lbs, he's about 5'11 250 lbs, about twice my size and before he claimed that he likes picking me up so much just because I'm small, but there are plenty of hott girls at my school who are my size. Now he says it stimulates him. What exactly does he want to do with me and why does he keep picking me up?
I am aware that this is sexual harassment and I do plan on confronting someone, but what is he trying to say to me when he does this? What does he want from me? Why is he picking me up? To show off?
2006-12-07 16:00:34 · 7 answers · asked by susie q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, honey, I think many men see tiny girls, petite girls as penis ornaments. They invision pinning them against the wall of walking around holding them, which is probably why he asks you to wrap your legs around him.
You sound flattered by this but it really is very inappropriate for school and nobody should be picking you up or touching you at all without permission.
2006-12-07 16:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well its unfortunate that he is picking on you cause that never feels good, But my guess would be he wants exactly what he is grabbing....you butt. Younger guys have such a weird way of showing affection. Either he wants your butt (you know what I mean) or he likes the attention. Either play along or make a scene in front people so he sees exactly what he is doing and how it makes you feel. I am not going to tell you to ignore it because my guess is this guy won't. If you like it, grab his butt :P
2016-05-23 05:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Trying to impress you. He wants you, but the fact that you keep letting him grab and swat your butt only leads him on more. He is attracted to you so of course he is stimulated. I do believe we know what he wants to do with you . . . .
2006-12-07 16:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by Batracer04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quite frankly.. he's a man, and men like sex. Naturally, he'll want to grab your butt, especially since you let him!!!! Also, guys like having girls' legs around them.. it makes them think of sex and it's a natural turn on.
You let him do those things, so of course he'll keep doing them. I wonder if you have ever tried saying no? Well, if you feel disrespected, just remember to get respect you sometimes must demand it... especially with guys.
2006-12-07 16:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by tartepout 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Stay away from him. And if you feel uncomfortable with it tell someone and try to charge him with sexual harassment.
2006-12-07 16:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do you like him cuz i think he likes you but i would feel uncomfortable if he grabbed my butt so if you dont like it then tell him to plz knock it off and find the reason hes doing that to u cuz he might actually be a nice guy if he dosent grab your butt!!!
2006-12-07 16:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by anime_manga_geek 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's a freak. Avoid him
2006-12-07 16:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by Danthony 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋