I come to work from other country, currently renting a room with my roommate(bestfren), I am in a dilemma whether to leave her alone (she doesnt have many frens here). And I worry that once I move in i'll have to stay with his parents for long-term which I try to avoid.
2006-12-07 23:51:34 · 5 answers · asked by Yilin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is living with his parents.
2006-12-08 00:05:31 · update #1
He always complain that I spend my time with my roommate more than him.
2006-12-08 00:06:41 · update #2
Stay with your girlfriend. Trust your intuition about staying with the boyfriend and his family. It will cause a lot of grief and drama for you later on. You're fine where you are now. Not only do you have a good friend but you have your freedom and independence to come and go as you please. You won't have that very easily staying under his family's roof. Besides there is no price tag big enough to compensate for being your own person. You can still see this guy if you want. You just won't have all the headaches of being under the eyes of his family.
Another thing. Why is this guy being so instant to get you to make this move with him? His hastiness seems a bit rash on his part like he is trying to control you. It also seems like he is concerned more about his own personal gains rather than thinking what may be good and proper for you. How would your family react to you moving in with him? Another reason to not be pushed into doing something you're not sure about. Think clearly about this and don't sell yourself short.
2006-12-08 00:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why spoil things? You have your freesom and independence sharing with your best friend. Why move fromthat into sharing with his parents? And you obviously dont want to, so just tell him you're not ready for that yet, and when you are that you want to moveinto a place together not into his parents house.
2006-12-08 07:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to stay with his parents it's probably not a good idea. As for your friend if you do move you can still be close.
2006-12-08 07:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to why not? by the way why would you move in with ur bf's parents?
2006-12-08 07:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, no not move in with him. This is a control issue. Stay with your room mate.
2006-12-08 07:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋