Help! I don't want my best friend to know I like the same guy she likes 'cause that would totally ruin our friendship. I've liked him for 2 years and have managed to keep it a secret that long, but I just can't be quiet anymore! What would you do?
2006-12-11 17:12:48 · 13 answers · asked by Kristina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you REALLY care for your friend and fear it couse a rift. You should keep it to yourself. A true friendship is hard to find. Ppl will respect you as well for the honour you keep for your friend as well
2006-12-11 17:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by gord's360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear if you want to keep your friendship dont ever get a plan on telling it to her,it will surely ruin your friendship and she wouldnt trust you anymore..coz imagine if you were on her shoe what would u feel if you found out...and maybe she would have become your worst enemy.
Just go and try to find another man..You know,its harder to find a true friend than to find a lover.besides you only LIKE him not enough to break your good friendship.ayt??
2006-12-12 01:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by 3sh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is her boyfriend, I would keep quiet about it. Why have you been pining over him for two years?? Find your own boyfriend and leave other girls' alone. If she is truly your best friend, you will respect her feelings and forget about trying to steal her boyfriend.
2006-12-12 01:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you manage to keep it for 2 years, then you can extend the time.
why dont you stay away from them and look for someone to hang around..
you see, the best way to heal a broken heart is to look for someone new.. you cannot help yourself because you dont want to look for a better person.. and you keep on telling urself that you like him and you want him
try something new.. teach yourself to love someone and not your bestfriends bf
2006-12-12 01:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by labs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy that you like him too and let him choose U or your best friend
2006-12-12 01:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by zap32168 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO FIND YOUR A MAN OF YOUR OWN. AND LEAVE HIM ALONG, HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOUR FRIEND DID THIS TO YOU. A MAN WILL COME AND GO. BUT
YOUR FRIENDSHIP WILL NEVER BE THE SAME. AND THAT
WOULD BE BAD. DONT YOU THINK. IS HE WORTH YOUR
FRIENDHIP WITH HER.
2006-12-12 01:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a rumor about them and break them up
then over the next 2 months get talking to her -X-
and get hooked up
before going out tell your friend that her -X- is interested in you and he asked you out but you would feel real akward if you went out with him and ask your friend if she would be ok with it
2006-12-12 01:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AGREE THAT IS HOEISH WUZ UP FIND UR OWN MAN, IF YOU BOTH LIKE HIM AND HE AINT WITH NEITHER THEN TALK IT OUT WITH UR GIRL, AINT NO GUY WORTH LOSIN A FRIEND. BUT ARE U REALLY BEING A TRUE FRIEND?? WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. THINK BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING STUPID TRUST ME BEEN THERE DONE THAT!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-12 01:19:49 · answer #8 · answered by Lil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confide in another one of your friends and tell them whats going on. If they say its ok, then just tell your one friend that "yea i used to have a major crush on him."
2006-12-12 01:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by JJ~girly girly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you needs to just shut off you computer and go to sleep for eva cause thats is nasty and you are a hoe
2006-12-12 01:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋