Am I ...... ???

Question

I get really hot to the thought of other hot girls, but I don't feel very attracted to girls in person. I have fantasies, but now about specific girls. I love boys though, so am I a lesbian? I just get so hot when I get off thinking about girls.. Is something wrong with me?? Please answer and be specific.. I WILL CHOOSE BEST ANSWER.. Thanks!

Answer 1

Maybe your Bisexual?

Answer 2

Think about it: Women are beautiful creatures. That's how God designed us; our eyes, our lips, our curves, the way we move. I think there are a lot of bi-curious women out there, but it doesn't make them Lesbians. I've read several articles about women being attracted to other women sexually, but you're only a Lesbian if you want to have exclusive relationships with other women and never with any men. There's nothing wrong with you at all. Fantasies are fantasies because we're too afraid to act on them OR they're things that wouldn't turn us on if we REALLY did them.

Answer 3

I wouldn't go as far as to say you are a lesbian, considering the fact you like boys and are only having thoughts about girls.

I'm assuming you're still in your teens.
And all teenagers experience fluctuations in hormone levels.
It could be that you're just growing up and exploring possibilities.

I've looked at girls and thought "Wow, she's hott."
But I never physically pursued anything with a girl.

Hope I helped.
I don't think this is odd 'cause I've experienced pretty much the same thing.

Answer 4

What do you mean by hot? Does that mean you get wet in them there parts? What are your specific fantasies? Have you ever had sex with either sex?
There is missing and or incomplete data so I can't evaluate for you.
I do suggest you don't let anyone label you or evaluate for you.

Answer 5

No, thats relatively normal in women. Its just fantasies, people have fantasies about things that they WOULDN'T or CANT do, like the concept of"you-want-what-you-dont-have", becuase it makes them feel dangerous and sexy.

Answer 6

You are probably just curious. most people go through a curiosity phase in their life, unless they are totally prude. Sometimes I get turned on by women, but im not gay, bi or even bi-curious. I could never have sex with a woman. I honestly think that women are more attractive than men. We have parts that hide...

Answer 7

You are normal! Your thoughts are just seeing them as an extension of yourself. All of us girls look at each other, enjoy each others perfume,clothes, dancing, it reminds us we too are provocative! Don't you want to go out an emulate whatever you saw that you got hot about? See? You don't have to be attracted to them, it's what it represents in your mind, what you are capable of being, doing.

Answer 8

You are definitely curious. Which is 100% normal at any age especially during adolescence. I don't know how old you are but you aren't alone. A great majority of women have fantasies about women & never act on them and they are straight. If you ever choose to act upon these fantasies, like if you meet a great girl & find yourself attracted to her, and you enter a relationship with her, you are bisexual. Until then, you're straight. No worries.

Answer 9

Lesbian happen when u phsyical did the sexual on the other girl.
if the feeling only, nothing wrong. It's normal, because, girl is among the wonderful creature in the world and universe. So every one love to love girl.

Answer 10

dont worry. these feelings are normal and in my opinion pretty hott. your not a lesbian your just bisexual or at least bi curious. good luck

Answer 11

Maybe your bi. Girls usually don't think about other girls in a sexual way. Maybe it's just a fase and when u meet a cool hot guy you'll get over it.