Singles & Dating - 11 December 2006

What should a girl do if you are just f*cking her and she wants you to see her more as the relationship type than just the sex? Although she doesn't want him to think she wants more.....Dis is a tricky one, basically I'm having sex with somone, that's all it is. I want dis guy to really like me, so everntually he may want a relationship, but I don't want to let on that I want one, so I don't scare him off. Should I act distant and let him see me talk to other guys? etc....

2006-12-11 01:07:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I m a 28yr old male n i hav been single for almost 5 yrs nw.Is tht normal? I havent had sex or touched a girl since las 5 yrs nw. My las relationship wid a girl had a very bad ending, she just left me! wht can i do to overcome dis? I dnt hate being lonely but i dnt feel lyk gettin a girl nw also.......wats wrng here. < m not gay either >

2006-12-11 01:07:01 · 7 answers · asked by omarsaifsunny 2

2006-12-11 01:06:15 · 37 answers · asked by niki d 1

2006-12-11 01:06:04 · 5 answers · asked by golfer1234 1

not age for love age of love.

2006-12-11 01:05:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a dilema like most of you...here's my story. There's this guy who likes me alot and I think he's okay too. The problem is: He's the brother of my cousins husband. My cousin married this guy and this guy has a younger brother. He's 26 and I'm 28. He knows I've never dated before nor have I ever been in a relationship with anyone. I recently told him my age yet he continues to like me. The other problem is: is he in a way my cousin? I never thought about it until my friend brought it up and told me that he's my cousin indireclty since his brother married my cousin. Is that true? I need advice as to what am I suppose to do. He likes me alot and he shows it by texting me everyday and calling me to see how I'm doing. He also stated that he really likes me and won't do anything to hurt me in any way. He knows I have insecurities when it comes to dating. I told him I don't trust guys as far as dating goes. He says he'll be patient until I'm ready to date. What should I do? Thank you.

2006-12-11 01:05:12 · 12 answers · asked by amy_s03 1

i told him the other night i loved him when i was a bit drunk, but i do actually feel like it, regret showing my feelings too early, he siad he did me, but i dont, know him that well dont, know if it will work, we made love and i feel bad about it beign a christian as i have only known him a few months, i feel guilt and wonder if he has lost his respect for me. i just want him to love me, feel like i do. i don,t want to go over the top with my feelings as he may take advantage of it or take me for granted, but i do think of him alot, i want to keep him guessing a bit and not too sure of me, want to keep him interested in me. so do men like it when a woman shows he rfeeling or do they prefer a bit of a chase and guessing a bit or what.

2006-12-11 01:04:49 · 11 answers · asked by denise g 2

2006-12-11 01:03:42 · 4 answers · asked by louisianabaddesst 1

Ok first off we are both freshmen in college and I have never had a girl problem I could not answer myself but this one blows my mind. Anyway, I met this girl about 2 weeks ago, for a week i would chill on occasiion with her and her friends. Well, I then find out her along with her friends thin im hot and whatever the usual. Well, the one girl I liked came over about a week ago and we hooked up and she slept over, then she spent the whole day at my dorm, then 1 night later she sleeps over again and again we do everything. Yesterday, she calls me, shes upset saying that she doesnt think she can do this and wants out of the relationship. She said, and I quote, "you make me feel very special" (I am very complementative) along with all these other great things but she says she wants to get to know me more etc before we can be in a relationship again. Should I do this or just say screw it, I mean I gave this girl everything I had she spent the night etc,12 hours later she calls it. Help Me

2006-12-11 01:03:35 · 6 answers · asked by SR 1

I have always dated older men until about a year ago. I'm 33 and my ex-husband is 48. I had been dating a guy that is 27 for a year and we split. This guy that was my little brother's friend who is also 27 asked me out and we had a good time. My brother died in 1999 at 17 so he is no longer in the picture. But when I told my mom about going out with this guy and that he knew my brother, she is acting like he is too young for me. She never said anything about the other b/f. People say that I don't look my age but even if I did, do you think it is wrong?

2006-12-11 01:03:08 · 17 answers · asked by Michele 3

2006-12-11 01:01:14 · 10 answers · asked by DHAWAL SHAH 1

And what happened when you met and realized it was BS??? Funniest story gets the 10 points!

I had one that told me he had an athletic build...showed up weighing around 400 lbs, could barely get out of his car... gawd.

2006-12-11 00:57:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-11 00:57:06 · 4 answers · asked by andrea m 1

Is it possible that if a man whose married says he is in love with you, that it could be real. And how can you tell? What would you say or do in this situation? Should you walk away even if you know in your heart this man might be the love of your life?

2006-12-11 00:56:16 · 34 answers · asked by Kittykat 2

Ok, here's the deal...this guy and myself have been friends online for over 2 years now. About two months ago we decided to meet IRL to see what would happen. He lives about 2 hrs away.



We've gotten together 4 weekends (fri-sun) and hung out...things progressed somewhat from hand holding and cuddling to being more frisky but no sex. After his fourth visit he told me that when we'd started getting "more physical"...like me touching his chest and thighs....etc. that he was getting anxious and didn't know why.



He said he's totally attracted to me and gets sexually aroused so he didn't know what the problem was.



When he went home he said he was going to think about things. He made lists of things important to him and "us" was #2 right after his family but he still can't pinpoint the anxiety so he doesn't want us to continue into a physical relationship like that at this point.

2006-12-11 00:55:31 · 2 answers · asked by A B 1

I have mutually ended a 5 yr relationship 4 months ago and although I know it is the best thing that could have happened I have no confidence at the moment and always feel that Im boring and have very low self esteem. On the outside it looks fine but inside Im so unhappy. She has moved on but I seemed to still have noone on the horizon...
I think that everyone is better than me. I feel like im in a rut and want to get out of it ....any ideas?

2006-12-11 00:51:52 · 21 answers · asked by bigbrother 2

If not, can a cycle like that be broken. I've never been single and I feel extremely challenged to leave my boyfriend although our relationship isn't working out emotionally. We don't argue...some things about our relationship just don't seem right like our connection with each other...we seem to be on two different levels about the future.

2006-12-11 00:51:12 · 11 answers · asked by Benny 3

lets face it we all like shoes...but women...many of the tip toppest shoe designers are men...and a lot of what we wear men like...a lot...so who actually has better taste in shoes and why....

oh or boots even...just in case you're a boots kinda gal/guy...;0)

2006-12-11 00:49:30 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

is she out there somewhere?? hiding perhaps???

2006-12-11 00:49:23 · 21 answers · asked by raymond m 2

Just wanted to know where is the best spot a girl can kiss a guy. Guys....is there a place in your body that you like to be kissed at? And how do you want to be kissed..slow, fast, etc.? What would make a kiss perfect and memorable? And where, environment wise? I've never kissed anyone and I don't know any kissing ways. By the way, I'm looking for advice about kissing overall..where, how, location, etc. since as I stated earlier I've never kissed anyone and kind of trying to at least get some information. Is there a way a guy likes to be touched while kissing? Do you like to be gently touched on your face while getting kissed?

2006-12-11 00:48:51 · 7 answers · asked by amy_s03 1

Is it ok to go out with a guy, one to one even when you have a boyfriend? Do you do that?

2006-12-11 00:47:41 · 12 answers · asked by Joeann 2

Do you like the guy to ask if he can kiss you? Or do you like him just to lean in and surprise you? Or do you like to kiss him first?

2006-12-11 00:47:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my best guy friend sometimes says these confusing things to me(bear in mind,he has a gf) .he keeps on telling my other friends how much of a happy person i am & he always tell me how nice my smile is.we hang out a lot since we take most subjects & classes together.& one of the main things he does is to tease me like hell(esp abt the guy i like who's one of our friends too).i asked him why he liked teasing me so much & he replied with a "i love to see the reaction on your face cos your face lights up & you have a big smile which is lovely".most of our friends bug us saying that we like each other as well.he gets so concerned when i'm feeling down.
& recently when all of us(our friends) were planning to hang out,his gf(who's a freind of mine as well)told me she's not coming & when i urged him to persuade her to come he was like "i don't even talk to her abt hang outs cos she never comes & she never listens to what i say"
is he trying to be more than a best friend?
thanks a lot guys!

2006-12-11 00:44:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi!
I know for a fact that this girl is torn between me and her boyfriend. They have been together for a week, maybe. I talked to her about it, and now she doesn't know what to do. I think my cards are pretty good, but how do I make sure she breaks up with her boyfriend? Any ideas?

2006-12-11 00:42:32 · 16 answers · asked by amostthere 1

What do you do if you break up with your boyfriend right? You and a friend are casually touching and you don't do anything but you feel guilty because you go back out with your boyfriend and you love him. Should you feel guilty, should you tell?

2006-12-11 00:41:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

could he be saying he loves me or what...

2006-12-11 00:41:04 · 10 answers · asked by nins 2

The whole relationship is wrong for lots of reasons and the more I tell him to stop calling or visiting,the more he does.I've tried putting him off me by squeeling unneccesarily or throwing tantrims.It is working but not as fast as i would like it to.He keeps insisting that my feelings are growing stronger but the opposite is true.What can i do since talking or avoiding him doesnt seem to work?

2006-12-11 00:40:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was trying to look somewhat sexy bc i knew i would see my crush, so i wore a white t-shirt, just a normal shirt with a carebear on it. but then later, i saw that it is somewhat see thru and i was wearing a white bra under it. would this be a turn-on or would you be embarrassed for me? i am bisexual. she looked at my chest and smiled. i thought it because of the carebear. she has said that she was falling for me through my writing but i dunno if it's sexual or not.

2006-12-11 00:40:17 · 27 answers · asked by rhiannon_kc 1

My ex and I broke up about a month and a half ago. He and I were talking last night and there was a lot of flirting going on between us. Like when were talking we were holding hands and weaving our fingers though each and others we hugged a lot like really close. Before I left I kissed him on the cheeck .He told me that he misses me and misses me being around. He said that we should hangout soon. The funny thing was we were talking about jobs and when were dating I was talking about getting a job at the bank down the street from his work and he brought up the whole thing saying "you should try to get the job at the bank near my work and I can drive you and then you can walk up to my work and wait for me to drive you home" I don’t know whets going on. He told me when we broke up that he didn’t love me and that he didn’t want a gf right now. Now after last night I don’t know what to think. I mean is there a good possibilities he wants me back? Could he finally be realizing that he let something really good slip away? How should deal with this?

2006-12-11 00:39:42 · 6 answers · asked by preppy_gurl101010 1

The problem is I think she likes my bestfriend at work. When the three of us are together she is always flirting with him and laughing at every single thing he does, funny or not. The final straw came yesterday when for the second time she asked me if I was going to happy hour after work, only to ask my friend too, and say that she would only go if he went. This girl is not stupid. She knows I like her too but I'm unsure if she knows that it upsets me to see the two of them having such a good time together. When I'm around the two of them and they are sharing one of those moments I just get very silent and usually have to leave the area. Aside from avoiding them at all costs I don't have any idea what to do. Would I be out of line if I asked her to stop being so flirtatious with my friend at work while I am around the two of them because it affects my work? I don't want to stop them from getting together, I just don't want to see them together.

2006-12-11 00:39:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous