So there is this guy who I met @ work a few months ago, and all of a sudden he's all about taking me out, wanting to date me, etc. I am attracted to him...he is handsome, makes me laugh...I def. have a crush on him. But the thing is, he is 40 yrs old and has a few children. There is NO way that i would ever get serious with anybody like that (those are my two deal breakers)....i just know that even if I ever fell in love with him or anything, I just cant deal with the whole children thing, AND he is 40 (im 24) We are going to go out on a date and spend time together, but I just want to do it just for fun, just to be around somebody, enjoy their company. But im afraid he wants it to turn into something WAY more serious then i EVER would want. I have even told him that I dont want to be in a relationship, but i think he has other ideas for that. Im afraid that if we do go out and spend time together then he's going to think I DO want to be "with" him. Should I just stay away??
2006-12-11
03:00:00
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